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Communicate the Brain-friendly Way: Tips to Engage, Not Upset, People You Want to Influence

Liz Guthridge

April 2012

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Topics

• What?• So what?  • Now what? 

@lizguthridge

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What’s going on?—Caveat

I’m not a doctor, neither in RL nor played on TV.

Instead, I’m a Results coach and consultant with brain-friendly training.

By Dave Elfanbaum

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What’s going on?—Work trends

Working (and playing) from anywhere

More project-based work with more diverse teams

Increase in work quantity

Faster pace

More global orientation

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What’s going on? —Work trends

Demanding bite-sized information for our snack culture

Using “weapons of mass distraction” that are connecting

and merging

“Asking and engaging,” not “telling and selling”

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What’s going on?—Communication

Data dumps

Big bangs

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What’s going on?—Scientific research

Neuroscience research shows the brain:

Tires quickly

Is unique

Is more emotional,

less rational

Is a connection

machine

Hardwires everything, yet easy to

rewire

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What’s going on?

DisconnectWhat science knows

What business does

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So what?

1. Improve clarity

7 ways to communicate in a brain-friendly way

Name things

Be positive Be C³

Be visual Use metaphors

Set deadlines

Slow down

ClearConciseCompelling

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So what?

Name things:• Emotions• Programs • Goalsto help the pre‐frontal cortex conserve energy for other tasks.

Infinite Possibilities

Goal: Answer to “My trusted

advisor”

Anxious

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So what?

Be positive without  sugarcoating….

to avoid “fight or flight” and help us be more open and curious to new things. 

Silent, Sugarcoated Moose®

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So what? Be C³• Clear• Concise• Compelling to help us grasp and remember.

“Wow, he’s handsome! He looks like a young George Clooney in a dog’s body!”

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So what?

Be visualto get our attention and help us remember because the brain pays more attention to visuals than to sounds, even for audio‐based learners. 

cloud computing

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So what?

Use metaphorsExplain that “A is B” to help us connect  the abstract to the concrete.

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships,”‐‐ Henry Winkler

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So what?

Set deadlinesto give us a sense of certainty, which the brain craves. 

• DUE BY FRIDAY EOB

• ACTION REQUIRED BY 3/15

• Deadline: April 15 

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So what?

Slow down…and reduce external stimulus to help us tap into our unconsciousness. 

Sleep

Exercise

Unplug

About 90% of our brain processing is unconscious, which works on problems, makes connections and creates ah-ha moments.

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Now what?

Embrace the science

Pause and ponder

First try 1 – 3 ideas

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Now what?

• Try 1‐3 on your own

Actions

• Test and refine

Discipline• Learn more• Join me 

Resources

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Now what?

• Try 1‐3 on your own

Actions

• Be clear on intent.• Provide specifics.• Use Word readability stats:

• Passive sentences: less than 20%

• Flesch reading ease: 40% or more

• Flesch-Kincaid grade level: 10 or lower

• Structure as WIIFM• Have call to action

For example, C³: clear, concise and compelling

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Now what? ResourcesFor all resources

http://connectconsultinggroup.com/hrdotcom/

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Now what? Stay in touch

7 mistakes leaders make when introducing change

Connect:www.linkedin.com/in/lizguthridge

E-mail:[email protected]

Participate: http://connectconsultinggroup.com/strategicactiongroup/