Accepting To Improve Your Personal Life

Do you have the ability to accept the things you can change and the things you cannot change?

Do you have the ability to accept that other people are opt to change them, rather than you

changing them? Do you accept that you are who you are, regardless of what others think? Can

you accept the many changes that take place in your life?

If you answered yes to one or all of these questions then you are off to the start of improving your

personal life. If you are willing to accept, you have the ability to laugh, even when something is not

funny. For instance, if someone pushed you, you could stand back and laugh. The push is only a

threat to your emotion, which you will see, accept and find a way to gain control of the situation.

When you can accept things in life, including you and others you find a way to take control. When

you are in control, it helps you to see how you can improve your personal life. When you learn to

accept you will learn to discover you. ++Individuality is personal, which philosophers over

generalize this subject. Many people in the world believe that when we act the same way at all

times, we have established our identity. Politically incorrect! We have emotions, thoughts,

behaviors, actions, and have been plagued by a world of influences both good and bad. Each day

we will feel something new, which causes our personality to reflect on these changes. Therefore,

when you see someone laughing one minute and crying the next, you are seeing a shift in

emotions, which is a normal pattern of identity for this person. Unless the persons eyes change,

behaviors change dramatically, friends change regularly, etc, and you are seeing common

behaviors. ++We live in a world that desensitizes us.

We are surrounding by billions of influences on television, in the media, on radio, in house-holds,

government, schools and so forth. Each to their own, but everyone is judging someone at some

time, which is something we have to accept. We cannot change these peoples behaviors and way

of thinking, but we can change ours. This is a part of learning and accepting. The best way around

the world is become your own influence and allow other influences to make someone else's life

miserable. Only rely on sources that prove truthful with their actions, behaviors and words.

Positive reflections are the key to living happier.

Once you learn to accept you will be eager to laugh. For instance, if someone makes you mad you

will see the humor in his or her actions. You may see the humor in your actions if you make a

mistake and feed into their stupidity. +Once you start to see the humor in life, you will feel better

inside. We are involved in a unruly world filled with greedy people, envious souls, lusty tigers, and

so on. We have to learn how to work around these people, accept us and move on. Once you

learn to change to better you, other people may follow. Good conduct has proven far more

effective than words to encourage others to change.

As you grow you will feel a new hunger, and that hunger will guide you to discover new ways to

better you. In time as you start to feel better, you will see a need to exercise, eat right, and hang

out with positive influences and so on. Once you feel this hunger, you will feel inspired to labor to

achieve your goals.

Dynamic Productivity Institute