Becoming Independent - The Private Victory

we first must lead ourselves effectively

To lead others Effectively.

Private victory refers to

the victory over

self.

Self mastery & self-discipline

are the foundation of good relationships

with others.

The place to begin

building enduring relationships

is inside ourselves.

Inside our circle

of influence

Habit #1 say ~

“We are the creator”,

“We are in charge”.

It is based on the unique

It empowers us to say ~

that’s an unhealthy program, script or paradigm I’ve been given from

my childhood,

I don’t like that ineffective script.

It means Getting

a clear idea of

what our livesare about

by defining our Mission & Our

purpose in life.

It is based on

~

The ability to envision,

to see the potential,

What we cannot at present see;

And based on

~

the ability to detect our own uniqueness and

The Personal, moral,

and ethical guidelines

within which we can most happily fulfil it.

It’s the deep contact with our basic

paradigms and values

It means Managingour lives

according to

as defined in habit #2.

the mission

It’s the fulfilment, the actualization,

the natural emergence of habits #1 & #2.

It’s the exercise of independent will

toward becoming principle-centered.

It’s the day-in-day-out,

Moment-by-moment doing it.

Habits #1 & #2 are absolutely essential

and prerequisite to habit #3.

We cannot become principle centered

without 1st being aware of our paradigms,

And understanding how to shift them

Habit #3 is thepersonal fruit,

And The practical fulfilment of habits #1 & #2.

Becoming independent

is about