View
43
Download
0
Category
Tags:
Preview:
DESCRIPTION
ADOPTION: Children With Special Needs SASS 505: Adoption Policy and Practice Tracy Oyler Case Western Reserve University. WHAT ARE SPECIAL NEEDS???. “Special needs describes several categories: disabilities, race, age, sibling status, and at-risk.” - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
Citation preview
ADOPTION:Children With Special Needs
SASS 505: Adoption Policy and PracticeTracy Oyler
Case Western Reserve University
WHAT ARE SPECIAL NEEDS???“Special needs describes several categories:
disabilities, race, age, sibling status, and at-risk.”
Disabilities include: “mental, physical and emotional disabilities and disorders which can range from mild to severe. Behavioral problems are part of the emotional disabilities group.”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XL3o8L3tnK8
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW“The two means of adopting special needs
children that are recommended are through public and private licensed adoption agencies.”
“Parents should be sure that a private agency they choose is licensed and non-profit. Some states will refuse to write adoption assistance contracts for children placed through for-profit agencies.”
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW“If it seems like adoption is tougher, more
complex, stressful, time-consuming and expensive than it should be, there are reasons for this…The current system is a result of the need to protect children from the possibility of being adopted by unfit or even dangerous parents.”
“Parents must be determined and stay tough because the kids can't come to them. The parents must go to the kids.”
HOW TO PREPARE“Parents who adopt children with special needs will
need to take the time to decide if they have the emotional, physical, mental, and financial resources to be a successful parent.”
Consider such questions as: How many children can I take? How much contact with the birth relatives would I be
comfortable with? Do I have enough support from family and friends to
help me when I need it? Is my lifestyle flexible enough to handle a child with
special needs? What disabilities, or mental, emotional, physical,
behavioral challenges can I handle?
WHAT TO EXPECT “While adoption has a positive effect on children, the child
doesn't know this when he or she is leaving their current situation. The child only knows that they are leaving behind everyone and everything they have ever known. It is typical then, for the child to react with unexplained crankiness, clinginess, or crying. The child might also regress in his skills or behavior.”
The following are ways to help the child learn to trust you:
Meet your child's emotional state, and attune yourself to that. Mirror your child's expressions, vocalizations, level of excitement. Comfort your child over the grief he/she is feeling by leaving
his/her old life behind. Look for opportunities to hold, snuggle, nurture, and soothe your
child.
POST ADOPTION SUPPORThttp://www.childwelfare.govProvides links to “resources that include information
on counseling, support groups, training, birth records, and more.” http://www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/adopt_parenting/
Also provides a link to a “list of organizations that help children and youth with disabilities and special needs and their families.” http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/reslist/rl_dsp.cfm?subjID=3&rate_chno=11-11286
REFERENCES http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/specialNeeds.aspx http://special-needs.adoption.com/ http://www.earlyinterventionsupport.com/parentingtips/
adoption/healthyattachments.aspx http://www.childwelfare.gov/
Recommended