Treasure Your Spouse

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TREASURE YOUR SPOUSE

The closest person in your life is your spouse. He/she is the best gift you will ever have in life.

Treasuring your spouse is so crucial. Your spouse can make you enjoy life more or can make you

very miserable. Shut out the world and treasure each other.

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• You can invest yourself into your spouse’s happiness for their best interest. Indulge your spouse, so you increase his or her happiness and multiply your precious memories together.


• Accept your spouse unconditionally. • Never compare and contrast your spouse

with other people at all. Your spouse is yours. Accept her unconditionally. Do all you can to improve him/her. Do all you can to esteem him/her.


• Take your marriage vows to heart.• He/she is better than anyone else in this

world and he/she also gets more precious each day.

• Remember your marriage vows.


• Live a balanced life• Most times couples try to live very

complicated lives which also complicates their relationship. A simple balanced life is worth living.

• Keep it manageable for your relationship to excel.


• Spend time chatting about your marriage and issues affecting your marriage.

• Make time every now and then devoted expressly to your marriage.

• Never give up even when things are not working well.


• Affirm each other in public and privately• Tell your friends how your spouse has

brought joy to your life. Esteem him/her in public and while you are also together.

• Speak of his/her wisdom and all the attributes that makes you want to be with him/her.


• You may set a good pace for others to want to do the same.

• Model positive in the public and ensure you enjoy your marriage in your private settings.


• Spend time reflectively and appreciate your spouse’s best qualities.

• All of us have their good and bad qualities. Once in a while sandwich the bad qualities with the best qualities your spouse has.


• Learn to appreciate the goodness in your spouse.

• Make them your dream’s spouses all the times. Capitalize on their good qualities while you try as much as you can to support them minimize their bad qualities.


• Take it upon yourself to please your spouse . • Please him/her fully.• Focus on pleasing him/her, communicate

significance to his/her heart. • Ask them what makes them happy and then

make the most to ensure you do what they want.


• Don’t criticize when your spouse fails.• Give him/her the freedom to fail when life

knocks him/her down. • If a spouse is criticized for a failure, it lowers

his/her self-esteem. Most people struggle to overcome this phenomenon. As much as possible avoid criticizing and worse doing it in public.


• Reassure him/her • Reassure about situations earlier where

he/she conquered circumstances that were very difficult in their lives.

• Thoughtful encouragement is therapeutic to the soul.

• Give hope and not despair to your spouse.


• Plant positive words in your spouse’s heart and mind.

• Tell your spouse all the positive words that can affirm your love for him/her.

• As a woman make it your duty to tell him often that you see him as a handsome man, the apple of your life and that you can’t do without him.


• Similarly the man is to assure his wife that she is a beautiful woman and that you think of her always and she is the best gift you ever got in wife and that you cant do without her. Put all the effortless to compliment her appearance.

• Women love being complimented particularly in their appearances.


• Affirmative words do make a difference. • Your spouse is joined to you in body and

spirit. Your encouraging words have the power to heal desperate situations or calm a troubled situation. Your spouse needs your thought-filled praise. Everyone loves to be praised and your spouse is no exception.


• Work on constructing positive thoughts• This is very important before trouble strikes. • Positive thoughts bring healing kindness to

soothe the mayhem afterwards. Praise means to “give value” to someone therefore, give sincere value to him or her. Whatever you plant will grow so why not sow seeds of thoughtfulness?


• There are things every spouse can do to help the self-esteem of the spouse

they love.


•Words framed in love by your loving spouse

encourage the heart.


• Words framed in love by your loving spouse encourage the heart. Thoughtful words carved out for your spouse can make their day. It brings true joy to have them tell how much they love you.


• When you treasure your spouse it brings refreshment in your marriage and you can make your spouse enjoy the marriage every day.

• Make refreshment a daily part of treasuring your marriage.


• It is not the responsibility of one spouse but both.

• In marriage we don’t have spectators but participators. Both must work hard to treasure each other and to bring refreshment in the marriage.

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• WIFE: • MAKE ALL THE EFFORT TO

MAKE YOUR HUSBAND THE HERO IN YOUR MARRIAGE .

• HUSBAND:• MAKE ALL THE EFFORT TO

ENSURE YOUR WIFE IS THE HEROINE IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Kigume Karuri


TREASURE EACH OTHER TO BRING A LASTING

MARRIAGE THAT BOTH OF YOU WILL ENJOY ALWAYS

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