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Presentation Skills: Boost Your Confidence!Presented by:Kathy CoopermanKC Leadership Consulting LLCwww.kathycooperman.com
10 Greatest Fears#1Public speaking!#2Death#3Spiders#4Dark#5Heights#6People or social situations#7Flying#8Open spaces#9Thunder and lightning#10Confined spaceswww.kathycooperman.com
Seinfelds Perspectivewww.kathycooperman.com
What Are So We Afraid Of?www.kathycooperman.com
Question #1What is your greatest fear of public speaking?
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Question #2What symptoms do you notice when preparing to speak?
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LinkedIn Pollhttp://lnkd.in/bbaUhsZ(361 votes, 59 comments)
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Good news!Relaxation tips and techniquesWays to reduce stressHow to make your increased energy work for you (rather than against you)
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A feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an upcoming event or something with an uncertain outcome
Anxietywww.kathycooperman.com
Speaker anxiety is when you feel nervous, fear, uncomfortable while speaking in front of someone or a group of peopleSpeaker Anxietywww.kathycooperman.com
The Three-Stage Process
You predict: Threat or danger
You experience: Anxiety
You use: Your anxiety to confirm your prediction
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Which of these do you experience?Speaker Anxietywww.kathycooperman.com
Tips to calm your nerveswww.kathycooperman.com
Prepare & PracticeFollow Winston Churchillwww.kathycooperman.com
Memorizers beware!www.kathycooperman.com
Check out the room!www.kathycooperman.com
Breathewww.kathycooperman.com
Get moving!www.kathycooperman.com
my audience!
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Know your friends and enemieswww.kathycooperman.com
Its okayreally!Talk to yourselfwww.kathycooperman.com
What to say . . . It takes practice!We bombard ourselves with negative self-talkTurn it around!
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Self-Talk
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Say this . . . Not this . . . Im going to look stupid!
I wont be able to answer their questions
Im never going to remember what to say
People are going to laugh at me
I hate this!
I always make a fool of myself!
Self-Talk
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Say this . . . Not this . . . Im prepared and confident. Im ready to give one of my best presentations ever.Im going to look stupid!
Im ready for any and all questions. Ill honestly respond to every questioneven those that I may not have an answer for now.I wont be able to answer their questions
Im comfortable and ready to share my message. I have everything I need to get my message across clearly.Im never going to remember what to say
Ive analyzed my audience. They are going to love this!People are going to laugh at me
I enjoy every opportunity like this to sharpen my presentation skills.I hate this!
This presentation will be one of my best!I always make a fool of myself!
Youre almost there
Improving confidence the day ofwww.kathycooperman.com
Exercise your vocal cordsGet warmed upwww.kathycooperman.com
Stand up straight!As your mother would saywww.kathycooperman.com
Before you walk onFinal checkwww.kathycooperman.com
Putting it all together . . . www.kathycooperman.com
BreathingSlow / deepFast / shallow / uptightVoiceLow / warmHigh / shrill / shakySubconsciousConfidentInsecureSelf EsteemI can. I am great.I cant. I am such a fool.Body LanguageRelaxed / in control /sure of selfNervous / shaky / uncertain
During your SpeechSpeak clearlyUse rhythm and dramaBreathe in and outLook at peopleMove around . . . with purposeMake your pointUse a powerful ending
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Dale CarnegieDo the thing you fear to do and keep doing itthat is the quickest and surest way ever yet discovered to conquer fear.
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Questions?www.kathycooperman.com
Free guide: www.kathycooperman.comwww.kathycooperman.com
Kathy Cooperman [email protected]