Think Win-WinMaythavee, Pongkhun, Suphasuta

Win-Lose

• Win-lose is a attitude that sees life as pie of success is only so big, and if you get a big piece there is less for me.

• Relationships friendships, and loyalty are all secondary to winning the game.

• Win-lose is full of pride. Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more than others.

Win-Lose

• Don’t feel bad if you think win-lose al times. We have been trained to do so when we are young but this habit can be changed.

• When you think win-lose, you might feel that you have won. But you haven’t in the long run.

Different kind of a Win-lose attitude

• Using other for your own selfish purposes

• Trying to get ahead at the expense of another

• Spreading rumors about someone else

• Always put yourself first.

• Become jealous and envious when someone succeed.

Lose-Win

• Lose-win attitude you’ll find yourself setting low expectations and compromising your standards again and again

• If you adopt Lose-win as your basic attitude toward life, then people will wipe their dirty feet on you

• There is a time to lose, it is just find if the issue isn’t that important to you

Lose-Lose

• Lose-Lose is usually what happens when two Win-Lose people get together

• Lose-Lose can occur when someone becomes obsessed with another person in a negative way

• Sometimes Win-Win can gradually become Lose-Lose

Win-Win

• Win-Win is a belief that everyone can win

• It’s both nice and tough all at once

• It is the belief that there’s plenty of success to go around

how to think win-win

• win the private victory

• Avoid the tumor twins• Competing

• comparing

Win the private victory first

it all begin with you. If you are insecure, it will be difficult to think Win-Win. It will be hard to praise other’s successes because insecure people get jealous very easily.

Personal security is the foundation for Win-Win

The Tumor Twins

• Competition can be very healthy. It drive you to improve to reach and stretch but it becomes dark when you use it as a way to place yourself above others.

• Comparing your self with others. This is cancerous and will only lead to bad news. It will make us feel inferior to others. The only thing you should compare yourself to is your own potential.

The fruit of the Win-Win spirit

• if you think Win-Win, you will be a magnet of friends. Don’t you love people who are interested in your success and want you to win?

• If you cant find a win-win solution, simply do a No Deal. It is always better than a win-lose, lose-win, or a lose-lose solution.

Watch how it makes you feel

Developing a habit is not easy. But you can do it. If you work step by step, it will eventually become part of you.

You will be feeling good about yourself. You will be approaching people with confidence and thought well of them. Thinking differently from a win-win will bring you negative feelings. A win-win will give you confidence.