6 Deadly Conversation Mistakes and What to Talk About in a Conversation With a Girl

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6 Deadly Conversation
Mistakes You're Probably Making With Women

What to Talk About in a Conversation With a Girl and What to AVOID

By: Frankie Cola

championsofmen.com

Let's face it...

If you want to create attraction in a woman,you MUST know how to talk.

You may know all the secret seduction techniques in the world... but if you can't carry a conversation
YOU GET NOWHERE...

It's extremely important to know how to avoid running out of things to say

And it's critical that you have access to the specific topics that steer a conversation forward into a fun, sexy, conversation...

So here's a FREE report that gives you exactly what to talk about in a conversation with a girl.

Now if you want to make sure your conversations create attraction, the first step is to eliminate mistakes that kill attraction...

So let's go over the 6 Conversation Mistakes you're probably making with women.

Mistake #1: Not Being Aware of the 90/10 Rule When Starting a Conversation

Ever notice how most conversations don't pick up steam until about 5-10 minutes in?

This happens when you approach a girl and start talking to her for the first time.

She is going to be just as cold inside her head as you were before you psyched yourself up before the approach.

Mistake #2: Being Oblivious to the Signals a Woman Gives You

Recognize the signals women give you.

Signals are important because they help you calibrate yourself emotionally to see whether what you're doing is working or not.

And whether you should ESCALATE the interaction further to the next level (move her and escalate)

Being oblivious to how a woman reacts to you is like walking through blind alleys not knowing if your game is working.

Is she making eye contact with you or does she seem bored with you and looking for something else to stimulate her?

Does her voice sound emotional or dry and logical?

Does she give you compliance? or do you find it difficult to get her to do what you want.

Pay Attention to Her ENERGY Level

Mistake #3: Not Assuming Rapport Right From the Beginning

Instead of waiting for rapport to happen naturally do this instead:

ASSUME rapport, right from the beginning!

So when you approach a woman for the first time, talk to her in the same laid-back manner you would talk to an old friend.

Act AS IF she's already a good friend.

What do most guys do when talking to a woman for the first time?

They talk to her in a stiff and formal way reserved for strangers.

But this then makes the woman TREAT YOU LIKE A STRANGER!!

She then puts her guard up, and it results in an uncomfortable awkwardness that is DEVASTATING to the conversation

By jumping right into rapport you create a natural feeling conversation that creates instant connection with the woman, and gives her the feeling of knowing you since forever

Mistake #4: Going into "Interview Mode"

Oh man the dreaded interview mode we all experience

This happens when we're stumped in what to say next, so we get into our Logical minds and startshooting off logical interview-styled questions.

Questions like

Where are you from?

What do you do for a living?

What do you do for fun?

But it's not the questions that kill you, it's actually the rapid-fire logical type of conversation that suffocate any sort of chemistry between you two.

A fun, attractive conversation is supposed to be a fun vibing back and forth that involves lots of emotional interplay between you two.

It's NOT supposed to feel like a boring job interview.

Mistake #5: Letting the Woman "Lead" the Conversation

Most men are so insecure with a beautiful woman that they feel the need to wait for approval or permission before taking the lead in a conversation.

And this is DEAD WRONG...

As soon as a woman detects you are waiting for HER to give you permission to lead you are TOAST Her attraction INSTANTLY disappears.

Why? Because playing it safe and letting a woman set the tone is NOT behavior that creates attraction.

One thing men are afraid of is choosing the wrong topic or pissing the woman off.

But here's the thing a girl will go along with what you're saying as long as you've have INITIATIVE and the ENERGY, because what she's really following is that energy that you are leading with

The conversation topics and logical words coming out of your mouth are trivial.

Mistake #6: Not Getting Help

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men fromEVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I get it, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

I know the pain of struggling to keep a conversation going with a beautiful girl... all while some other guy easily got her to giggle and got her attracted enough to take her home...

That's why I'd like to give you the proven tools and conversation techniques so that you won't have to struggle with women any longer...

If you want to get the talking to women part of your life handled, get this FREE 23-page eBook, it's the ideal first step.

Word-for-Word Lines for Getting Girls: FREE 23 Page Manuscript Reveals Exactly What To Say to Make Her Want You

Inside this Free Report, you will learn:

The #1 mistake men make that prevent a conversation from turning sexual (page 8)

How to create "conversation momentum"by using a "role" (page 11)

How to ESCALATE a conversation into asexual topic that gets her excited to keeptalking to YOU. (page 17)