MY DEAR SON …….

My Dear Son

Get me all the video clippings of Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar , Wherein umpire had given him out when he was not out

I want you to watch Sachin’s reaction. Almost 99% of the timehe had accepted the decision without showing any form of resentment.

Sometimes I feel that much before A for apple Sachin’s parent had taughtHim A for Acceptance.

(In Sri lanka 3 decisions went against Sachin. The entireNation Was outraged by the decisions . I was least interested in mannerIn which he was given out, instead I was observing how Sachin reacted to The decisions and the following lines were born.

“Kaisa bhi nirnay hota hai sweekar kar leteApna aapa kabhi naa khote chupke se chal dete”

“My dear son, In life you will get many unfavorable decisions

, JUST ACCEPT THEM”

My Dear Son

When people criticize you, demoralize you , weigh you down,DON’T use your favorite tool called anger. Instead

Remember how greats like Sachin had reacted under similar Situation.

“KAISI KAISI MUSHKILO SE JHUNJHE SACHIN HAMARAMUH SE KUCH NA BOLE LETABALLE KA HI SAHARA”

My Dear Son

When bouncers are hurled at you there are 2 ways of handling them :

(1) Avoid eye contact with the ball ; Duck them

(2) (Copy book style) This is how greats like Sachin face the bouncers : They follow the ball till the ball reaches wicket keeper’s glove

(In life you will face many hurdles , there are two ways to tackle them

(a) Escape Route(b) Face the situation boldly

My Dear Son

If you want to become successful cricketer as Sachin Tendulkar

Here are the ingredients for success

Banna hai gar Sachin kisiko Guru Achrekar dhoond ke laao (Preceptor)Guru Kripa ho (Guru’s Grace)Talent bhi ho (Talent)Ekagrata ho (Concentration)Mehnat ho (Hard Work)sayyam ho (Patience)Sanskar ho (upbringing) Vinamrata ho (Humbleness)Dridhta ho (Steadfastness)Anushashan bhi ho (Discipline)

Tab Bharat ka tiranga JhandaLehrayega kandho pe tumhare

But I must admit that YE KATHIN ABHIYAAN HAI

My Dear Son

Whenever there is any argument going on whether Sachin is great or Ponting is Great, whether Sachin has won matches for us etc , etc…

My advice to you to will be :Don’t enter into any sort of arguments.

My years of experience has taught me that it is sheer wastage of time and Mind you, arguments are ALWAYS INCONCLUSIVE.

ALWAYS REMEMBER GANDHI’S PHILOSOPHY

DUSORO KE JAY SE PEHLEKHUD KO JAY KARE

My Dear Son

Inculcate the habit of always finding good qualities in others.

This requires years of sadhana, practice.

But after years of practice , a day will come in your life whenYou will be able to appreciate everything in life spontaneously.

Start with Sachin. I have already listed the qualities in slide no. 4

“My dear son, there is divinity in all of us. But what seperates Likes of Sachin and people like me is that while Sachin allows theDivinity to take the center-stage I do exactly the opposite”(I allow my ego to take the center-stage)

“So it is a huge mistake to call Sachin GOD. But it is safe to say

“SACHIN TUJH ME RAB DIKHTA HAI”

My Dear Son

TREAT THIS IS AS MY INSURANCE PREMIUM FOR THE MONTH OF

NOVEMBER

My dear son, I wrote the song, roped in Anup Jalota to sing the song,Recorded, every thing was done but things did not materialized .I HAVE LEARNT TO ACCEPT THINGS . FOR ME THE BIGGEST LEARNINGIS JOURNEY IS BETTER THAN DESTINATION (This was the front cover of the album)

JAB BHI MAI SACHIN KO KHELTE DEKHTA HU CHARCHE UNKE SUNTA HU

KHUDA PAR HO RAHA MUJH KO YAKINAHISTA , AHISTA - JAGJIT SINGH

HAR MULAKAT KA ANJAAM JUDAAI KYU HAIAB TO HAR WAQT YAHI BAAT SATAATI HAI HAME - TALAT AZIZ

DEKH LO AAJ HAMKO JI BHAR KE

-- JAGJIT KAUR AND KHAYYAM