Text of Kinship Care Week webinar: How can professionals support kinship care families?
1. How can professionals support kinship carers? #KinshipCareWeek
2. Introduce Mentor, ADEPIS and CAYT Define kinship care Outline Kinship Care Week Explore what kinship carers needs are, esp. around substance misuse in children Get to know more about drugs and alcohol and their impact on young people Talk about why awareness of substance misuse is important for kinship carers Todays webinar
3. Mentors mission To promote the health and wellbeing of children and young people and prevent alcohol and drug misuse.
4. Research Programmes Policy Develop life skills that build resilience to risk in children & young people How we do it
5. Mentor-ADEPIS is publicly acknowledged as the leading source of evidence-based resources for alcohol and drug education and prevention for schools. Mentor-ADEPIS
6. In 2015 ADEPIS was expanded to include the Centre for Analysis of Youth Transitions (CAYT) database of impact studies. CAYT
7. Mentor-ADEPIS seminars CAYT seminars Teacher training Plus The Mentor Community of Evidence-based Practice
8. Kinship care is an arrangement for a family member or close friend to care for children whose parents are unable to look after them. What is kinship care?
9. The most common reason for children entering kinship care is parental drug and alcohol abuse (67%). Reasons for kinship care
10. In young people, drugs and alcohol can: contribute to poor judgment and bad decisions increase the chances of getting into fights, accidents and other dangerous situations damage the growing body and developing brain lead to addiction during adolescence (though evidence suggests this doesnt happen a lot) Why is this important?
11. Mentors kinship care work
12. Our experience shows that kinship carers play a vital role in keeping children safe from drugs and alcohol. Their attitudes and behaviours can help shape young peoples views on drink and drugs. The role of kinship carers
13. A recent study found that 77% of kinship carers have asked for professional support... Why are we here today?
14. Practically? Emotionally? Financially? What do kinship carers need:
15. Knowledge about key issues Advice on how to talk about substances Education and training Knowing what to do if theyre concerned Peer and one-to-one support Help lines or a point of contact Resources and further information. Practical needs
16. Empathy and gentleness Encouragement and positivity Cared for to feel theyre not alone That they can make a positive difference A non-judgmental, non-blaming attitude Awareness or understanding of their situation and that it could happen to anyone. Emotional needs
17. Make sure you communicate these two important facts to kinship carers: 1. They did not cause their son or daughters alcohol or other drug problems. Neither did the child. 2. The carer and their children cant cure the parents alcohol or drug problems, but they can encourage them to seek treatment and support.
18. Understanding what kind of carer you are and what support is there Child Benefit? Tax Credits? Kinship Carer Allowance? Paying for food, clothes, school supplies, toys Supporting yourselves as well Financial needs
19. One-to-one support Peer support groups Couples therapy Family group conferencing Drop-in sessions Educational groups Respite services Types of support
20. Drugs Image: The Guardian
21. New Psychoactive Substances
23. DO: Pick the right time Start the discussion early, and keep talking Remind them drinking is not the norm Place limits and consequences on behaviour Be nurturing and express warmth Encourage children to express opinions Use adverts, or soap stories to spark the topic Ask what theyve learned about drugs at school Advice for carers
24. DONT: Tell them to just say no its not effective Exaggerate the harms youll sound less credible Preach, use scare tactics, sound angry or accusatory. Try and get everything across in one go. Many small talks are better. Interrogate them about what theyve been up to when youre not around. Panic. If your child has tried drugs, be calm when discussing it with them.
25. Rules and boundaries about drinking mean young people are less likely to get drunk. This means kinship carers should set boundaries and reward children if they stick to them. If they break the rules, consequences should be consistent and fair. Recommendations for carers
26. If a kinship carer is concerned, encourage them to: Get information from sources with specialist knowledge, online or in person. Get support for themselves, too, and find someone they can talk to and trust. Where carers can go for help
27. Kinship Care Guide for England
28. Alcohol & Drugs: Guide for Kinship Carers
29. Kinship Care Guide for Scotland
30. Resources + advice
31. #KinshipCareWeek For more information visit mentoruk.org.uk/kinshipcareweek