Peer Mediation “Students helping students”

What is Peer Mediation?

Peer Mediation is a communication process in which the individuals

with a problem work together, assisted by a neutral third party, to

solve the problem.

Peer Mediation: Vocabulary

Mediate: To intervene between two or more disputing parties in order to bring about an agreement

Disputant: One engaged in an argument or conflict

Ground Rule: One of the several basic rules for conducting peer mediation, spelled out to the disputants at the beginning of the session.

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Mediation Process: Six Step Model

Step #1:

Agree to mediation (Request Form)

Make introductions

State ground rules

Step #2:

Gather information

Ask each person to explain what happened

Ask each person whether he or she wants to add anything

Mediation Process: Six Step Model

Step #3:

Focus on common interests

Determine and summarize shared interests

Step #4:

Create options

Brainstorm solutions and ask disputants what can be done to resolve the problem

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Mediation Process: Six Step Model

Step #5:

Evaluate the options

Ask each person what could be done to resolve the problem

Step #6:

Create an agreement

Write up an agreement and have disputants sign it

Shake hands

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Example of Peer Mediation Process:

While watching the video:

• High school setting

• Watch how Sarah explains the student mediation process at her school

• Peer Mediation Agreement Form: Documentation File

Peer Mediation: A Process of Respect

Four Basic Principles:

1. Neutrality

2. Self-determination

3. Confidentiality

4. Voluntary Consent

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Peer Mediation Program

Most widely used conflict resolution program in schools

Conflict Resolution Tool

Instead of disciplinary actions:

Suspension & Detention

Time-consuming role

“Our school is a place where we can talk about our differences. We don’t have to

fight to get justice.”

Peer Mediation attacks the problem not the person.

Who are the mediators?

• Students (Sarah-Video)

• 2-4 day training

• Students can begin working with a peer mediation program as early as the 3rd grade

• Develop skills:

• Listening to both sides

• Gaining trust

• Identifying positions, issues, and interests

• Building communication between parties

• Dealing with emotions

• Problem solving skills

• Using settlement techniques

What kinds of disputes can be mediated?

Misunderstandings between students

Teasing or name-calling

Relationship arguments

Accusations of theft or destruction of property

Rumors and/or fights between groups

Lauren: Ever since you wouldn’t let your friend Melissa copy the answers to your math test, Melissa has been writing threatening e-mails to you and spreading rumors about you to your friends. It’s been two weeks and you’re tired of putting up with it. You start spreading rumors about her and pranking her cell phone. The next day, Melissa is waiting for you after school, ready to fight. Question: Instead of retaliating, what do you think Lauren should have done to resolve the problem? Peer Mediation: As a group discuss the Advantages/Disadvantages of Peer Mediation. Have you ever witnessed/experienced Peer Mediation during grade school?

Scenario

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Advantages:

Resolves student conflicts

Teaches students essential life skills

Motivates students to resolve their conflicts collaboratively

Increases self-esteem

Improves school climate

Meets needs of both students and educators

Disadvantages:

Privacy

Student cooperation

Students are embarrassed

Process of training peer mediators