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To Survive or Thrive?
by Nathan & Aline
Have you ever wondered why humanity lives in a perpetual state of survival, and why it is
so difficult to get ahead and thrive? Why is it that certain people are placed as authorities
over us, and that we need their permission to enjoy life? Why do we over consume? Why
are we so competitive? If so, you may benefit from reading on
The only thing that makes us see another person as an authority over us is our neediness
for that which we believe they have and we lack, and this neediness causes separation
between us and them. Instead of being in desire, which is a place of thriving,
interdependence, and creativity, in duality we are in need for our survival, which is
translated down into how we define love, affection, attention, money, sex, intimacy, and
more. Humanity was tricked out of having such things and into needing them by a brilliant
sleight of hand, we shifted our focus from desiring the being, purpose, or relationship, to
perceiving the fruit of such relationships as being the connector that unites beings and
energies together in
relationship, and then
focussing on it instead.
Things such as sex or money
should be the result of the
relationship, and not the
intimate glue that binds it
together.
For example, if I am already
connected to my wife and I
take my desire off of her and
place it onto the fruit of our
relationship instead, such as
sex, I become needy for sex
and have thus caused
separation between the two ofus. In this way, we lose the
amazing sex we had and are
now subject to the game of
dominance and submission, as my wife now becomes the authority and holds control over
my sexualityall because I took my eyes off of her and placed them onto the fruit of our
relationship instead. Since she (the external representation of my feminine) now holds the
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security that their men will provide for their emotional and physical needs (experienced as
romance), and to feel safe from the pain that their men inflict on them when they run off in
their pursuit of sexual and emotional freedom. The freedom wound is pleasure oriented,
needing the freedom to find their perceived lack of pleasure, while the security wound is
pain oriented, having an attachment to both feeling and avoiding pain, for feeling the pain
can be used to be seen by their man, and avoiding pain can be the reason to get theirmanto stop their selfish pursuit of pleasure. Pleasure and pain are two sides of the same coin
however, they are the duality split of having a joyful experience and state of being.
Dependence is the modus operandi of the separation and neediness system, and those that
might appear to be independent really are not, as they are just working around their
dependence through rejecting needy people, or through becoming a drug dealer of the
various needs. Needy people go out of the way to supply the needs of independent people
because they believe that they hold the secret to satisfying their needs, but they also give
away their power because of the rejection they receive from the independent ones. Adependent persons need for approval and to avoid rejection is powerful; rejection is the
easiest way to hustle somebody out of their energy, money, emotional support, sex, or
more. Independent people are perceived as the authorities in life, and dependent people
are those that must be obedient to the authorities in order to even have the hope of having
some of their needs met.
A dependent person can become an authority figure through dominating other perceived
authorities, thus turning the tables in the situation, and there are many forms of
domination, from rape, manipulation, aggressiveness, assertiveness, and even passivity. Arevolution is when a group of people unite in their neediness to overthrow the perceived
source of their lack, but all they are doing is ascending the throne of domination to become
an authority, creating a new set of haves and have nots. On an individual level, when a
man rapes a woman, he is stealing from, and using violence to dominate a perceived
authority figure, because he is tired of being resisted and rejected by her, for he perceives
that she has what he needs; this is sad but true.
However, interdependence is when a person is not needy, because they are not focusing or
attached to the results of a relationship, but are instead connected to a being or purpose
that they desire to be with. When this happens, they will automatically experience having
their needs met by the relationship, and in ways that they couldn't have dreamed possible,
as the relationship supplies all of the love, affection, attention, money, sex, intimacy, and
more, than an individual could ever want or need.
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