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    To Survive or Thrive?

    by Nathan & Aline

    Have you ever wondered why humanity lives in a perpetual state of survival, and why it is

    so difficult to get ahead and thrive? Why is it that certain people are placed as authorities

    over us, and that we need their permission to enjoy life? Why do we over consume? Why

    are we so competitive? If so, you may benefit from reading on

    The only thing that makes us see another person as an authority over us is our neediness

    for that which we believe they have and we lack, and this neediness causes separation

    between us and them. Instead of being in desire, which is a place of thriving,

    interdependence, and creativity, in duality we are in need for our survival, which is

    translated down into how we define love, affection, attention, money, sex, intimacy, and

    more. Humanity was tricked out of having such things and into needing them by a brilliant

    sleight of hand, we shifted our focus from desiring the being, purpose, or relationship, to

    perceiving the fruit of such relationships as being the connector that unites beings and

    energies together in

    relationship, and then

    focussing on it instead.

    Things such as sex or money

    should be the result of the

    relationship, and not the

    intimate glue that binds it

    together.

    For example, if I am already

    connected to my wife and I

    take my desire off of her and

    place it onto the fruit of our

    relationship instead, such as

    sex, I become needy for sex

    and have thus caused

    separation between the two ofus. In this way, we lose the

    amazing sex we had and are

    now subject to the game of

    dominance and submission, as my wife now becomes the authority and holds control over

    my sexualityall because I took my eyes off of her and placed them onto the fruit of our

    relationship instead. Since she (the external representation of my feminine) now holds the

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    security that their men will provide for their emotional and physical needs (experienced as

    romance), and to feel safe from the pain that their men inflict on them when they run off in

    their pursuit of sexual and emotional freedom. The freedom wound is pleasure oriented,

    needing the freedom to find their perceived lack of pleasure, while the security wound is

    pain oriented, having an attachment to both feeling and avoiding pain, for feeling the pain

    can be used to be seen by their man, and avoiding pain can be the reason to get theirmanto stop their selfish pursuit of pleasure. Pleasure and pain are two sides of the same coin

    however, they are the duality split of having a joyful experience and state of being.

    Dependence is the modus operandi of the separation and neediness system, and those that

    might appear to be independent really are not, as they are just working around their

    dependence through rejecting needy people, or through becoming a drug dealer of the

    various needs. Needy people go out of the way to supply the needs of independent people

    because they believe that they hold the secret to satisfying their needs, but they also give

    away their power because of the rejection they receive from the independent ones. Adependent persons need for approval and to avoid rejection is powerful; rejection is the

    easiest way to hustle somebody out of their energy, money, emotional support, sex, or

    more. Independent people are perceived as the authorities in life, and dependent people

    are those that must be obedient to the authorities in order to even have the hope of having

    some of their needs met.

    A dependent person can become an authority figure through dominating other perceived

    authorities, thus turning the tables in the situation, and there are many forms of

    domination, from rape, manipulation, aggressiveness, assertiveness, and even passivity. Arevolution is when a group of people unite in their neediness to overthrow the perceived

    source of their lack, but all they are doing is ascending the throne of domination to become

    an authority, creating a new set of haves and have nots. On an individual level, when a

    man rapes a woman, he is stealing from, and using violence to dominate a perceived

    authority figure, because he is tired of being resisted and rejected by her, for he perceives

    that she has what he needs; this is sad but true.

    However, interdependence is when a person is not needy, because they are not focusing or

    attached to the results of a relationship, but are instead connected to a being or purpose

    that they desire to be with. When this happens, they will automatically experience having

    their needs met by the relationship, and in ways that they couldn't have dreamed possible,

    as the relationship supplies all of the love, affection, attention, money, sex, intimacy, and

    more, than an individual could ever want or need.

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