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Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence” 19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215 Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected] * National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC) 4960 Ridge Ave. Suite 2, Cincinnati, OH, 45209 (513-721-5683) Fax (513-345-4489) Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662 http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 24: No. 12 December 2015 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/ MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING LOCATIONS 4 th Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings All Meetings Start at 7:00 pm ‹‹‹No Meetings Due to Christmas››› EAST VALLEY MEETINGMountain View Lutheran Church 11002 S. 48 th Street, Phoenix AZ Room #8 (1/2 mile West of I-10 at 48 th Street & Elliot) Facilitator: Claudia Marco 480-290-3908 WEST VALLEY MEETINGAntioch Church of God in Christ 9600 West Peoria Avenue, Peoria AZ Family Room (NW Corner of 96th Ave/W Peoria Ave) Facilitator: Kathy Hernandez Schofield 623-707-6825 ◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETINGMountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ Facilitator: Beckie Miller 623-582-2406 SPANISH SPEAKING MEETINGQueen of Peace Church 30 West 1 st Street Mesa, AZ 85201 Facilitator: Sandy Navarro 480-695-4789 ◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►► MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month) *NO MEETING IN DECEMBER but please join us on December 5 for our Holiday Memorial Service at Church of the Beatitudes 555 West Glendale Ave Phoenix, AZ 6:00 p.m. Regular Speaker Meeting Schedule Begins Again on January 19, 2016 Tuesday, 7:00 pm *** Mountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ (off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale Avenue and Bethany Home Road - Across from Granada Park) NEWSLETTER EDITOR Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by the 10 th of the month prior to publication month to: POMC Newsletter 19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215 *Please use order form on Page 11 You can also email items to [email protected] Be sure to place any article or picture in an attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed properly (especially pictures) and may not be used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in the subject line of the email. CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE PROJECT Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @ (480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale, AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at [email protected]

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Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence”

19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected]

* National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC)

4960 Ridge Ave. Suite 2, Cincinnati, OH, 45209 (513-721-5683) Fax (513-345-4489)

Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662

http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 24: No. 12 December 2015 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/

MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING

LOCATIONS 4

th Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings

All Meetings Start at 7:00 pm

‹‹‹No Meetings Due to Christmas›››

◄EAST VALLEY MEETING►

Mountain View Lutheran Church

11002 S. 48th

Street, Phoenix AZ

Room #8

(1/2 mile West of I-10 at 48th

Street & Elliot)

Facilitator: Claudia Marco

480-290-3908

◄WEST VALLEY MEETING►

Antioch Church of God in Christ

9600 West Peoria Avenue, Peoria AZ

Family Room

(NW Corner of 96th Ave/W Peoria Ave)

Facilitator: Kathy Hernandez Schofield

623-707-6825

◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETING►

Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room

2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

Facilitator: Beckie Miller

623-582-2406

◄SPANISH SPEAKING MEETING►

Queen of Peace Church

30 West 1st Street

Mesa, AZ 85201

Facilitator: Sandy Navarro

480-695-4789

◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►►

MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month)

*NO MEETING IN DECEMBER but

please join us on December 5 for our

Holiday Memorial Service at Church of

the Beatitudes 555 West Glendale Ave

Phoenix, AZ 6:00 p.m.

Regular Speaker Meeting Schedule

Begins Again on January 19, 2016

Tuesday, 7:00 pm

*** Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

(off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale

Avenue and Bethany Home Road -

Across from Granada Park)

NEWSLETTER EDITOR

Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by

the 10th

of the month prior to publication month to:

POMC Newsletter

19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215

*Please use order form on Page 11

You can also email items to [email protected]

Be sure to place any article or picture in an

attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed

properly (especially pictures) and may not be

used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in

the subject line of the email.

CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE

PROJECT

Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights

through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @

(480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale,

AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at

[email protected]

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Dennis G. Pitt, Jr.

December 1, 2001

Arthur Murillo

December 1, 2001

Colin Champlin

December 1, 2010

Antonio Felix

December 1, 2011

Dawn Tucker Subia

December 2, 2001

Christopher Conan Milke

December 2, 1989

Ryan Andrew Osolin

December 2, 1997

Kristen Salem

December 2, 1999

Robert Dawahoya

December 2, 2002

Ernie Gomez

December 3, 2004

Lindsay Key

December 3, 2006

Nicole Glass

December 3, 2010

Douglas Elliott, Sr.

December 3, 2013

Edward “Eddie” Berber

December 4, 2005

John Anderson

December 5, 1991

Douglas Berry

December 5, 2008

Eric Aucker

December 5, 2009

Daniel Encinos

December 5, 2011

David Santiago

December 5, 2012

Angelita Montano

December 6, 2009

Jeremy Reed

December 6, 2009

Briana Naylor

December 6, 2012

Todd Bogers

December 7, 1991

Cory Michael Holmes

December 7, 1991

Greg Glover

December 7, 1993

Tawnya Dawn Knight

December 7, 1996

Ebony & Elijah Robinson

December 7, 2007

Angel Raul Pulido

December 7, 2007

Margret Daphne Dad

December 8, 1989

Margie Mendoza

December 8, 1991

Christopher Baker

December 9, 1988

Jason Quick

December 9, 1997

Rudy Gabriel Padilla

December 9, 2005

Son of Debbi Edwards

December 10, 1991

Jani Helen Martin-Mercado

December 10, 1997

Anthony Carnero

December 10, 2000

Laura Cazarez

December 10, 2002

Brian Farris

December 10, 2010

Tim Garsow

December 11, 1993

Robert Minley

December 11, 1998

Todd Trent

December 11, 2002

Ryan Miller

December 11, 2003

Preston Powers

December 11, 2010

Preston Royal

December 11, 2010

Savannah Katheryn Cross

December 11, 2012

Cody Soneberg

December 11, 2012

Khalli Lawrence

December 11, 2014

Todd M. DeVoy

December 12, 1991

Brent Allen Lorentz

December 12, 1992

Greg Glover

December 12, 1993

Thomas Frazee

December 12, 1994

“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”

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Continued. . . . .

David Martin

December 12, 1997

Brandon Tomoria

December 12, 2006

Robert “Bob” Pool

December 13, 1996

Jaime Mendoza

December 13, 1998

Angelina Ramirez

December 13, 2008

Angel & Xavier Jaquez

December 13, 2010

Amanda Blaies-Rinaldi

December 13, 2011

Steven Comaduran

December 13, 2011

Eric Peterson

December 13, 2014

Michael Olson

December 14, 2001

Eric Peterson

December 13, 2014

Rylee Thomas

December 14, 2010

James Matthew Werbe

December 15, 1991

Scott Wood

December 15, 1994

Rebbeca Ray

December 15, 1998

Kim Marie Kirchoff

December 16, 1982

Brent Kisto

December 16, 2000

Ruben "Baby" Keahi Hernandez, II

December 17, 2005

Darrin Wayne Hale

December 17, 2005

Weyman Robbins

December 18, 2002

Phillipe Alvarez

December 18, 2007

Kaviahn Van Buren

December 18, 2007

Erica Rodriguez-Johnson

December 18, 2012

David Martin

December 20, 1997

Barbara Jean Tuttle

December 20, 2004

Joelle Morgia

December 20, 2008

Daughter of Mia

December 20, 2011

Robert Charles Hanson

December 21, 2006

Leah Falkins

December 22, 1999

Gabriel Ponce

December 22, 2011

John Sullivan Maddox

December 23, 1992

John Schatz

December 23, 2001

Heather Quann

December 23, 2006

Zachary Rowe

December 23, 2008

Cortny Huffman

December 23, 2014

Julie Freed

December 24, 1989

Christopher D. Parra

December 24, 2001

Christopher Farra

December 24, 2001

Gerald Anthony Lara

December 24, 2004

Paul Anthony Collette

December 25, 1979

Jesus Beltran

December 25, 2004

Jesse Ramirez &

Edwin Pellecier

December 26, 2008

Bret Olson

December 27, 1997

Shamaya Holmes

December 27, 2008

Adam Troy Cooley

December 27, 2010

Tory Randell Hayes

December 28, 2012

Garrett Bardwell

December 29, 1990

Tori Ann Shupe

December 29, 1994

Jennifer & Britteny Price

and Lynn Oliver

December 29, 2001

Brianna Lois Wells

December 29, 2014

Arturo Neri

December 30, 2001

Ron Hermanson

December 30, 1998

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VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER NEWS

TRIAL, JUDICIAL & ARREST UPDATES

• The sentencing phase for the killer of Javier Jaquez, son of Michelle Scott, is still ongoing.

• The trial for the murderers of two-year-old Savannah Cross, daughter of Steven and granddaughter of Cathy and

Norine is set for March 2, 2016.

“Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with each and every family member as they endure this difficult process.”

IN LOVING MEMORY GIFT DONATIONS (THANK YOU!) (*All donations are tax deductible: Our chapter exists on the generosity of others, grants and fundraisers)

♥ Olga Valenzuela in very loving memory of her daughter, Margie Mendoza.

♥ Don & Beckie Miller in very loving memory of their son, Brian Ray Miller.

♥ Carolee Holbrook in very loving memory of her son, Brett Holbrook.

CORPORATE & OTHER DONATIONS THANK YOU! UNITED WAY (Please Note: the write in number to designate funds to our chapter through your employee

contributions is 0772). You must use this number for designating any funds to go to our chapter. Our chapter name is

not listed except by number.)

AMERICAN EXPRESS - donations from Norma Yanez, anonymous and Lindison Y. Webb in honor of

Del Edward Webb and Tara E. Williams in memory of her brother Kirk Best and mom, Sally Whitney.

COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR HOMICIDES (PHOENIX POLICE DEPARTMENT)

The Phoenix Police Department has a Cold Case Registry on line. The link is

http://phoenix.gov/police/investigations/coldcase/index.html.

COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR HOMICIDES MCSO (SHERIFF'S OFFICE)

The Maricopa County Sheriff's Office has a cold case registry for any victim, victim's family member, or other lawful

representative of a victim of a cold case who requests to be included in the registry.

Telephone: 602-876-1087. E-mail [email protected]

SPEAKER INFORMATION MEETING: CRIME LAB PRESENTATION

Our speaker meeting this month featured Jody Wolf of the Phoenix Police Department Crime Lab on Forensic

Science. While many of us believe forensics is what television shows like CSI, NCIS, etc., depict, in truth it is

completely different. For one thing, it is a team approach to help law enforcement and lawyers answer the questions

of who, what, where, when and how, and takes much longer than 60 minutes as it does on the shows. Forensic

Scientists are not always police officers and they do not dress sexily! They also do not participate in interrogations

and often testify in court.

Here in Phoenix the Crime Lab has been in a new state-of-the-art building since 2007 and has multiple labs under

one roof. These include Crime Scene Investigation, Firearms, Latent Prints, DNA, Controlled Substances,

Toxicology, Medical Examiner, Digital Forensics (phones, computers, tablets, cameras) and Trace and Arson Labs.

They are a full service crime lab held to high and accredited standards.

Science and technology advances rapidly so preserving evidence is always the goal even for later testing when

technology improves. One way it has advanced is it used to take a blood stain the size of a quarter to obtain DNA

from and now it only takes a drop the size of the period at the end of this sentence. DNA can last for thousands of

years if preserved and because of this, we have had several members’ cases solved after 20 – 38 years in recent times.

The time factor for DNA results vary from state to state and a priority system allows for violent crimes to be tested

before say, property crimes, where no one was hurt.

Sometimes the forensic evidence obtained at a crime scene does not provide answers so those must be found

through the investigative process, hence the team approach. Forensic Scientists rely on science to hopefully find the

answers to who committed the crimes but it is not always that simple.

FRY'S COMMUNITY REWARDS PROGRAM FUNDRAISER FOR OUR CHAPTER

Our chapter is now a part of the Fry's Community Rewards program. If you shop there, you can simply sign up (one

time only) to connect your VIP card and we will get a percentage of proceeds. Just go to http://www.frysfood.com,

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select Register, under Sign In information, enter your email and create a password. Select User Card # and enter your

Fry's VIP number, last name and zip code. Under Select Your Preferred Store, enter zip code of that store. Select

Find Your Store then select Create Account. You will be prompted to confirm your email. Click the hyperlink to

finish creating your Online Account. If you already have an Online Account with Fry's, you can skip this and go to

https://frysfood.com/topic/community?activePage=community-rewards-2. Select Sign In and enter your email and

password. Select My Account and then Account Settings from drop down menu. Click Edit under Community

Awards. Under Find Your Organization, select box next to POMC and enter the NPO number #29432. Save changes

and you are good to go. If you have registered correctly, you should see our organization information listed under

"Community Rewards" on your account summary page. Thanks for your support.

CHAPTER SIBLING COORDINATOR Amanda Harris is our Sibling Coordinator and provides support for siblings outside of meetings. You can reach

her by phone for more information at 623-866-3189 or email her at [email protected]. Amanda lost her

brother Joshua to murder and understands the sibling grief in a way only a sibling can.

AFFIRMATION OF POMC NON-DISCRIMINATION POLICY

“It shall be the policy of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., to provide equal membership/employment service opportunities to

all eligible persons without regard to race, religion, color, national origin, citizenship, age, sex, sexual orientation, marital status,

parental status, disabilities, membership in any labor organization, political affiliation, and for employment only, height, weight,

and record of arrest without conviction.”

*If you feel you have been discriminated against you may file a complaint with our National Office, 4960 Ridge Avenue,

Suite 2, Cincinnati, Ohio 45209. www.pomc.org (513) 721-5683

To refer a complaint to an appropriate investigating entity:

Office for Civil Rights

Office of Justice Programs

U.S. Department of Justice

810 7th Street, NW

Washington, D.C. 20531

www.ojp.gov

In order to file with the federal Office for Civil Rights (OCR) two forms must be downloaded from the internet and submitted in

writing to the ORC. The forms can be found at www.ojp.gov/about/ocr/complaint.htm.

Arizona Department of Public Safety

VOCA Administration

Civil Rights Coordinator

PO Box 6638 - MD 1320

Phoenix AZ 85005-6638

(602) 223-2491

www.azdps.gov/services/crime_victims

JANUARY 2016 BOARD OF DIRECTORS ELECTIONS

At the speaker meeting in January we will have our annual board of directors for your chapter election meeting.

We will have at least one opening for the coming term. Requirements for the board are that it must have been at least

one year since the murder of your loved one and usually it is best if your court proceedings and trial are over with.

Responsibilities of the board are to attend bi-monthly board of directors meetings, usually on the second Saturday of

the corresponding month at 10:00 a.m., as well as helping with all chapter events. If interested in being considered

for the board, please contact Beckie at 602-254-8818 and or email her [email protected].

NEW SPANISH SPEAKING SUPPORT MEETING IN MESA BEGINS IN JANUARY

Beginning the fourth Tuesday in January and facilitated by Sandy Navarro, we will have a new Spanish speaking

meeting for our chapter. The meeting will be held at Queen of Peace Church, 30 West 1st Street, in Mesa.

HOLIDAY PHONE FRIENDS AVAILABLE

With no support meetings until January due to the holidays these persons will be available as phone friends if you

need to talk as we know the holidays can be difficult: Mari Bailey 602-405-7401(anytime) or Mary Wallace 602-448-

9425 before 10:00 pm.

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NATIONAL POMC INFORMATION

☺ CINCINNATI OHIO OFFICE☺ 4960 Ridge Avenue, Ste 2, Cincinnati OH 45209

888-818-7662 Website: www.pomc.org

• SAVE THE DATE: The 30th

National Conference will be held on July 21 - 24, 2016, at the Sheraton Lake Buena

Vista in Orlando, Florida. More information to follow.

• The POMC CATALOG has been added to the home page on the website. Please check out the website

www.pomc.org for our inventory of sale items. Some of the items are new and are available for purchase. Some of

the older items are on sale, as well.

●SURVIVORS NEWSLETTER: The National Newsletter is going green and we are currently in the process of

getting email addresses and switching over. If you do not have a computer or access to one you will still receive a

hard copy if you notify the National Office. There is a lot of time put in to creating, editing and assembling the

Newsletter for distribution thus we will still charge $10 for the subscription. POMC's effort to be more cost effective,

generate some income, and going green make it a logical step to take.

●DONATIONS AND SUPPORT OF NATIONAL POMC: There are many ways to help with much needed funds

for POMC including any items you buy on Amazon.com, as well as if you shop the Kroger Stores. It is very simple

and does not cost you anything and yet your purchase allows a percentage from these companies to go directly to

National. Please go on-line to www.pomc.org and see how you can sign up for this or contact Bev Warnock -

[email protected] POMC Goodsearch donates money to POMC when you search the Internet, shop online or

dine out at local restaurants! Use Goodsearch.com to search the Internet and they donate a penny per search to

POMC. Use Goodshop.com when you shop online and they donate a percentage of every purchase and offer over

100,000 coupons to help you save money too! Sign up for their Good dining program and they'll donate a percentage

of your restaurant bill when you eat at any one of thousands of participating restaurants. It's really easy, it's free and

turns simple everyday actions into a way to help POMC. Please sign up today to help support Parents Of Murdered

Children - POMC. Go to www.goodsearch.com to get started.

NEW FUNDRAISER: No need to worry about parking or getting a designated driver-we've partnered with Uber to

get everyone to and from events safely! Uber is evolving the way the world moves. By seamlessly connecting riders

to drivers through our app, Uber makes cities more accessible, opening up more possibilities for riders and more

business for drivers. New to Uber? Sign up with promo code POMCORG to get your first ride FREE, up to $20!

Plus Uber will donate $5 back to POMC. Check out Uber pro tips here: uber.com/features. Promo Code:

POMCORG Sign up Link: Uber.com/go/pomcorg.

● AUTO DONATIONS: We are encouraging all chapters and contact persons to get involved with POMC Debit

Authorization. You can now donate to NATIONAL POMC by setting up an automatic withdrawal from your bank

account to National. Contact National for a debit authorization form. This is a fast and easy way to make a donation

to National to help us help others. Your donation is withdrawn at the same time of the month, each month, and no

amount is too small. We appreciate your help during these difficult economic times.

●PAROLE BLOCK PROGRAM: To date, this program had kept more than 1509 prisoners who committed

murders from being released early. Parole Block was begun in 1990 and all members across the United States whose

loved one’s killer is up for early release/parole consideration can file a petition with National that is sent nationwide

for signatures protesting their release.

SECOND OPINION SERVICES: A program that provides second opinions on unsolved or complicated cases by

a national board comprised solely of experts in the medical, law enforcement and investigative fields.

MURDER IS NOT ENTERTAINMENT (MINE) PROGRAM: Through this program, POMC raises public

awareness to the insensitivity of murder as entertainment through toys, games, murder mystery weekends, drive-by

shooting fashions, serial killer trading cards and anything that glamorizes violence.

BIG TURN OFF: This is an annual event, each January, in which citizens are asked to turn off their televisions for

one evening during prime time hours to protest the violence on television.

MURDER WALL: (A traveling tribute honoring the memories of murder victims). A photo album is also

available with each plaque. Currently, the cost is $75 to add your loved ones’ names to the Walnut Plaques that

comprise the Murder Wall. You have two pages for the photo album to add information, poetry or pictures.

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CHRISTMAS IS THE HARDEST HOLIDAY

(By Darcie Sims)

Why is Christmas the hardest holiday? Is it because of all those traditions that mean so much but NOW lie

broken and empty in my heart? Is it especially hard NOW…because every time I try to roll out the cookie

dough, tears drop in little tiny salt pools on the counter? Is Christmas so hard NOW because of all the tinsel

and tissue? Because of all the crowds dashing madly into and out of stores…buying something wonderful for

someone wonderful? Is Christmas so hard NOW because I don’t need to shop or bake or decorate anymore? Is

Christmas so hard because I don’t have someone wonderful anymore?

It’s been a long time since I endured my first bereaved holiday season. But even NOW, my heart sometimes

still echoes with emptiness as I roll out cookie dough or hang his special ornament on our treasure tree. I think

that hurt will always be with me, but now I know it only as a momentary ache—not like the first year when

grief washed over me in waves hurling me deeper and deeper into despair.

And it’s not like the second year’s hurt when I found myself both surprised and angry that IT hadn’t gone

away YET. I grew anxious about my sanity in the third year when my hands shook as I unwrapped the precious

ornaments. When was I going to get better?!! Was I doomed to suffer miserably at every holiday for the rest of

my life?!!

The year the little satin balls wouldn’t stay on the tree, I gave up. Even the Christmas tree died! As my

daughter and I dragged the brittle (and shedding) mess out into the snow drift on Christmas morning, I knew we

had reached the bottom. He had died, but WE were alive. Had our grief so perpetuated our house, our lives,

that even a Christmas tree could not survive? His death was more than enough…had we lost love, too?

That was the year we began to understand. And that was the year we decided to keep Christmas anyway. So

what if our completely bare tree was stuck in the snowdrift, already waiting for the garbage men? So what if

the cookies were still a bit too salty with tears?

So, in the middle of that Christmas day, now years past, we returned to the forlorn, frozen stick of a tree.

And carefully, we hung the bare branches with popcorn strings and suetballs (not quite the same as satin!). I’m

sure we were a strange sight that afternoon, but with a mixture of tears and snowflakes, we began to let the hurt

out and make room for the healing to begin.

With each kernel strung, we found ourselves remembering. Some memories came with pain. Others began

to grow within us, warming heart-places we thought had frozen long ago. By the time we were finished, we

were exhausted. Memories take a lot of work! At last WE had a tree (although it was not the one we were

expecting); but we had one, decorated with tears and memories, sadness and remembered laughter.

And now we’ve grown older (and maybe a little wiser) and we’ve learned that love isn’t something you toss

out, bury, pack away, or forget. Love isn’t something that ends with death. Life can become good and whole

again...not when we try to fill up the empty spaces left by loved ones no longer within hug’s reach, but when we

realize that love creates new spaces in our heart and expands the spirit and deepens the joy of being alive.

We saved a tiny twig from that frozen tree…to remind us of what we almost lost. That was the year we

chose to let Christmas come back. Now, we don’t have to wait for joy to return. For now we know it lives

within us—where Christmas is EVERY DAY.

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Happy Birthday, My Baby

Brendon Eric Chavez 12/10/1977-10/05/2001

You will forever be in my heart We love you, Son.

Mom & Dad Brendon,

I want to wish you a Happy Heavenly Birthday! December 10th , you would have

been 38 years old! The time, 14 years, has passed without you; it has gone so

fast since you were taken from us! The memories of you are so fresh in my mind,

like yesterday’s! I know you see how much we miss you! I believe you feel how

much we love you! I will always think of you as our angel in the sky! My brother,

fly free and continue to watch over us all! We will see you again when we are

called home. Until then, my brother, I will meet you in my dreams! Loving and

missing you, always.

Sonia

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Margie Mendoza

2/11/72 – 12/8/1991

The grass in Heaven is much greener

The flowers smell of God’s pure love

The sunlit sky is so much brighter

As I spend my days up above

The angels’ wings are white and pure

You’ll stand in awe of God’s bright light

Jesus was there to take my hand

And guide me as I took to flight

I’m filled with happiness and love

My fears and worries are all gone

There is no sadness, pain, or anger

Please know this as you carry on

I will be with you when you need me

I see you in all that you do

I’m proud as you still live your life

As I now live my life through you.

Author:

Fara Gibson

Remembering you, always in our hearts,

Your family,

Mom, Cecilia, Michael, Anthony, Jose, Liz, Johnnie and

your adorable daughter, Angelina

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VALLEY OF THE SUN

BOARD OF DIRECTORS (2015)

Beckie Miller, Chapter-Leader .......... .(623) 582-2406 Don Miller, Treasurer ....................... .(623) 582-2406 Mari Bailey, Co-Leader/Secretary.......(602) 405-7401 Amanda Harris, Co-Leader.................(623) 866-3189 Kathy Hernandez,...............................(623) 707-6825 Tim Osolin ....................................... ..(602) 615-7096 Mary Wallace……………………….…(480) 600-0661 Denise Brewer..…………………….....(917) 696-2928 Angie Saucedo...................................(480) 209-8465 Claudia Marco....................................(480) 634-1424 Arrow McCullough..............................(602) 588-9834 (Volunteers) Carolee Holbrook - Office Assistance Kathy Guzman - Anniversary Note Writer Kathy Hernandez - Facebook Page Coordinator

CONTACT NUMBERS

SIBLING SUPPORT: Amanda Harris is our chapter's

Sibling Coordinator providing support for siblings. Her

contact info is 623-866-3189 or email:

[email protected]

POMC (after hrs V/M)....................(602) 254-8818

Chapter E-mail.……………………. [email protected]

Chapter Fax: ...................................(623) 582-0917

CRISIS LINE/MOBILE CRISIS TEAM

Empact Crisis Line ............................ ..(480) 784-4949

OTHER HELP LINES

Teen Lifeline.......................................…..... ....(602) 248-8336

GrandCare (Grandparents help line) .....(602) 274-5022

Crime Victims Legal Assistance Project (480) 965-5640

MCAO Victim Services.............................(602) 506-8522

Crime Victim Compensation....................(602) 506-4955

♥♥♥ THANKS FOR CARING ♥♥♥ To the Mountain View Police Precinct for donating our meeting room, as well as Antioch Church of God in Christ, Mountain View Lutheran Church, and Trinity Fellowship. To the Department of Public Safety (VOCA), for the grant for our newsletter, and everyone who has donated gifts of their time, talents and energy to our chapter activities. With your help we are able to continue the outreach that is needed by our community.

Memorial Wall Order Form

Please add my loved one’s name to the “Valley of

the Sun Memorial Wall in their Memories.” Each

Nameplate is $10. Our wall is displayed at many

special events across the valley during the year.

NAME__________________________________

Age:___________ Murder date: _____________

Picture Board

___ Check here if sending picture for the picture

board & Holiday Memorial (no cost).

Picture Buttons

___Please make #____picture buttons of my loved

one. (Enclose photo) Each button is 3”, and costs

$5 each which includes postage and handling.

** Send a Self Addressed Stamped Envelope if

you want your photo returned. You may also

e-mail photo to [email protected]

*Make all checks out to POMC

*Mail to 19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

“The Journey” Memorial Order Form (newsletter)

Please reserve: □ ½ page (suggested donation of $10)

□ Full pg (suggested donation of $20)

Month you wish memorial to appear in: ________________

Loved One’s Name________________________________

Age _____

Date of Death_______________

YOUR Name_____________________________________

YOUR Phone Number______________________________

YOUR E-MAIL __________________________________

A half page will hold a picture and short poem OR message,

depending on space. If a photo is included, please provide

identification of the person on the back. If you wish the photo to

be returned include a self-addressed stamped envelope, big

enough for the picture to fit in. Unless otherwise specified,

location, size and structure of the text and picture will be at

editor’s discretion and space permitting.

**We also, if space is available, print "Survivor to Survivor"

stories if you would like to send in a one page, single spaced and

typed document. Also, if you have written poetry about your loss

or have a favorite poem to share with others. We do edit for

misspellings and or profanity. There is no charge for these

items, either poetry or shared stories.

*Return this form with your material for The Journey by the 10th

of the month preceding the issue you wish it to appear in; for

example: September 10 for October's newsletter, etc.

*A donation for the memorial page can be made by sending a

check made out to POMC and mailed in care of:

Newsletter Editor

Valley of the Sun POMC

19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Return Address PARENTS OF MURDERED CHILDREN, INC. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

19620 North 38th Avenue Glendale AZ 85308-2215 (602) 254-8818

WHY WE ARE HERE: MISSION STATEMENT: “POMC makes the difference through ongoing emotional support, education, prevention, advocacy, and awareness.” VISION STATEMENT: “To provide support and assistance to all survivors of homicide victims while working to create a world free of murder.” This project is supported by Grant No. 2012-VA-GX-0022 from the US Department of Justice - Office for Victims of Crime. The opinions, findings, and conclusions or recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the US DOJ or the Arizona Department of Public Safety.

Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., is a self-help organization dedicated to the aftermath of murder. The success of its mission depends upon the participation of the families and friends of those lost to murder. POMC number (602) 254-8818