Missionary Handbook

MissionaryHandbook

Published byThe Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

Salt Lake City, Utah

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Printed in the United States of America

English approval: 7/05

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Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1

Your Calling . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3

Missionary Organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5

Missionary Conduct . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7Language . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8Dress and Grooming . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10

Elders . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10Sisters . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12

Schedule . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13Planning Sessions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Study . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15Language . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Sundays and Holidays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17Proselyting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17Meetings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17Fasting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Preparation Day . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19Dress . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

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Communicating with Family . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20Cultural and Recreational Activities . . . . . . . . . 21Temple Attendance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Entertainment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24Television, Radio, Movies,

Videos, DVDs, Internet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25Music . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25Electronic, Video,

and Computer Equipment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26Cameras . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26Reading . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27Group Activities . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27Pornography . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

The Law of Chastity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28Relationships with Others . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Your Companion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29Missionary Leaders . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33Opposite Sex . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33Children . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35Members . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35Communicating with Converts . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36Family Members and Friends . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37General Authorities . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

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Community Service . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39Local Laws and Customs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 41

Physical and Temporal Well-Being . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43Finances . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43

Reserve Fund . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45Tithing and Fast Offerings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45

Housing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45Transportation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47

Bicycles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47Automobiles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48

Health and Safety . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50Health . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50Safety . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51Security . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51

Missionary Leadership . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55Ministering and Administering . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56Example . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 57Attributes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59Responsibilities . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60Meetings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63

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Companion Exchanges . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63Baptismal Interviews . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 65

Appendix A: Guidelines for Couples and Senior Sisters . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 67

Appendix B: Priesthood Ordinances . . . . . . . . . . . . 69Baptism . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 70Confirmation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71Consecrating Oil . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 72Administering to the Sick . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73

Anointing with Oil . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 74Sealing the Anointing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 74

Blessings of Comfort and Counsel . . . . . . . . . . . . 75Sacrament . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 76Conferring the Priesthood and Ordaining

to Priesthood Offices . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 77Setting Apart Officers and Teachers . . . . . . . . . . . 79Naming and Blessing Children . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80Dedicating Homes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80Dedicating Graves . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81

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This handbook contains the basic standards of mis-sionary service and conduct approved by the FirstPresidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.Follow these standards. They will help you magnifyyour calling and protect you physically and spiritually.Use this handbook regularly. Strive to understand andlive the principles and standards taught in it. Learnand live the higher law as taught by Jesus Christ (seeMatthew 5; 3 Nephi 12). Strive to enjoy the compan-ionship of the Holy Ghost, and follow His direction inliving these principles and standards.

Your mission president may adjust some of these stan-dards as local circumstances require.

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“We believe that a man must be called of God, by prophecy,and by the laying on of hands by those who are in authority,to preach the Gospel and administer in the ordinances thereof”(Articles of Faith 1:5).

In harmony with the inspired pattern described in thefifth article of faith, you have been called by a prophetof God and set apart to represent the Lord Jesus Christand His Church. You have been called to “invite othersto come unto Christ by helping them receive the re-stored gospel through faith in Jesus Christ and HisAtonement, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift ofthe Holy Ghost, and enduring to the end” (Preach MyGospel [2004], p. 1). How great is your calling!

Strive to fulfill what the President of the Church expectsof you, as expressed in your call letter: “You have beenrecommended as one worthy to represent the Lordas a minister of the restored gospel. You will be anofficial representative of the Church. As such, you willbe expected to maintain the highest standards of conductand appearance by keeping the commandments,

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living mission rules, and following the counsel of yourmission president. You will also be expected to devoteall your time and attention to serving the Lord, leavingbehind all other personal affairs. As you do thesethings, the Lord will bless you and you will become aneffective advocate and messenger of the truth.”

When you accepted your call, you promised to live bythese standards. You are accountable to the Lord andto the leaders of the Church for how well you honorthis promise. Always keep in mind the importance ofyour calling. Strive constantly to magnify it.

As you obey with a willing heart (see D&C 64:34), youwill show the Lord your love for Him, earn the trustand confidence of members and nonmembers, andqualify for the companionship of the Holy Ghost (seeJohn 14:15–17, 21; 1 Nephi 10:17; D&C 121:45–46).

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“It is wisdom in me; therefore, a commandment I give untoyou, that ye shall organize yourselves and appoint everyman his stewardship” (D&C 104:11).Additional scriptures: D&C 104:12; 136:2–3, 15–16

Your mission is organized according to the sameprinciples that govern other basic organizations in theChurch. Your mission president has been called of Godand set apart. He holds the keys to preside over themission and direct the work (see D&C 65:2; 124:143).He will help you maintain your spiritual and temporalwelfare and help you fulfill your purpose as a mis-sionary (see Preach My Gospel, p. 1). He assigns districtand zone leaders to help him strengthen, support, andtrain you in your work. He also assigns two elders asassistants to help him plan, prepare, and present train-ing and supervise the work.

You and your companion are assigned to a specificproselyting area. You represent the Lord in this area andare responsible for obtaining His direction in carryingout your assignment and blessing the people there.

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You report on this responsibility—including the statusof the work—and on your personal progress to yourmission president each week. Each week you shouldwrite a letter to your mission president as part of yourweekly report. He is the only person who will read thisletter, so you may be open with your comments.

Concentrate your efforts on your assigned area. If, forany reason, you need to leave your area, permissionfrom your leaders is required. Never leave the bound-aries of your mission unless your mission presidentauthorizes you to travel outside the boundaries for aspecific assignment.

When you have questions or concerns, your first sourceof help is your Father in Heaven. Seek His guidancethrough the scriptures and personal revelation. Yourcompanion and your district and zone leaders areyour next sources of support. They can help you witheveryday matters. For special needs, such as illness orconfidential matters, talk with your mission president.

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“They did fast and pray oft, and did wax stronger and stron-ger in their humility, and firmer and firmer in the faith ofChrist, unto the filling their souls with joy and consolation,yea, even to the purifying and the sanctification of theirhearts, which sanctification cometh because of their yieldingtheir hearts unto God” (Helaman 3:35).Additional scriptures: 2 Nephi 4:30–35; Alma 17:2–3; D&C 39:1–13;50:26–29; 58:26–33; 64:34

President Brigham Young taught, “If you go on a mis-sion to preach the Gospel with lightness and frivolity inyour hearts, looking for this and that, and to learn whatis in the world, . . . you will go and return in vain. . . .Let your minds be centered on your missions” (Discour-ses of Brigham Young, sel. John A. Widtsoe [1954], p. 325).

Strive to represent the Lord according to the higheststandards of obedience and conduct. Keep your words,thoughts, and actions in harmony with the message ofHis gospel. Righteous conduct will influence your ef-fectiveness as a missionary and your personal salva-tion. Your conduct also affects the trust and confidence

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nonmembers, members, and other missionaries havein you. Conduct yourself at all times in such a way thateveryone who sees you will recognize you as a repre-sentative of Jesus Christ.

LANGUAGE“He that speaketh, whose spirit is contrite, whose languageis meek and edifieth, the same is of God if he obey mineordinances” (D&C 52:16).“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth,but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it mayminister grace unto the hearers” (Ephesians 4:29).Additional scriptures: Proverbs 15:2; Isaiah 50:4; 1 Corinthians 15:33;Colossians 4:6; James 1:26; 3:1–13; D&C 90:11; Moses 6:6; 7:13

Language is one of your most powerful tools. Be con-scious of how you speak, and strive for humility,dignity, and simplicity in your language. Refined,dignified language will clearly identify you as a ser-vant of the Lord.

Avoid slang and inappropriately casual language, evenin your apartment with your companion or in letters

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to your family. Show respect for others by using ap-propriate language, including correct forms of theword you in cultures where that is important.

Express your respect for Heavenly Father by using thelanguage of prayer appropriate in the language youare speaking. The special language of prayer followsdifferent forms in different languages. Some languageshave intimate or familiar words used only in address-ing family and very close friends. Other languageshave forms of address that express great respect, suchas words used only when speaking to a king or otherperson of high rank. The principle, however, is gener-ally the same. We should always pray to HeavenlyFather in words that speakers of the specific languageassociate with love, respect, reverence, and closeness.

Also express respect for others by the way you refer tothem. Refer to other missionaries, including your com-panion, as “Elder” or “Sister” and their surnames, notby their first names, nicknames, or surnames alone.Refer to missionary leaders by their correct titles (suchas district leader), not by abbreviations or slang forms.

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Address Church leaders by their titles, such as “Bishop”or “President.” Address members and investigators as“Brother” or “Sister” with their surnames.

DRESS AND GROOMING“Thou shalt not be proud in thy heart; let all thy garmentsbe plain, and . . . let all things be done in cleanliness beforeme” (D&C 42:40–41; see also Alma 1:6, 27).

Appropriate dress and grooming will help you earnrespect and trust. Your appearance is often the firstmessage others receive, and it should support whatyou say. Therefore, wear conservative, professionalclothing that is consistent with your sacred calling.

Be neat and clean. Bathe daily, if possible. Use deodor-ant. Keep your clothes clean, mended, and wrinkle-free.Never allow your appearance or your behavior to drawattention away from your message or your calling.

ELDERSSuits. Suits should be of a traditional business style indark, conservative colors. Always wear a white shirt

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with a tie that is conservative in color, pattern, width,and length. If you are allowed to work without a jacket,wear dress slacks with a white shirt and tie.

Shoes. Shoes should be black, dark brown, or cordovan.They should be made of material that can be polished.Keep them clean and polished. Socks should be asolid, dark color that matches the slacks. Do not wearboots unless your mission president authorizes them.

Hair. Keep your hair relatively short (not clipped tooclose) and evenly tapered. Extreme or faddish styles—including spiked, permed, or bleached hair or a shavedhead—are not appropriate. Sideburns should reach nolower than the middle of the ear. (See the pictures ofa missionary haircut included with your call packet.)Elders should shave each day.

Jewelry. Do not wear earrings, necklaces, or any kindof bracelets (except those with a medical purpose).Tattoos, nose rings, other body piercings, or toe ringsare not acceptable.

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SISTERSModesty. Maintain a high standard of modesty. Wearclothing that:

• Is neither too tight nor too loose.• Is not transparent or revealing in any way, such as

sheer, tight, or stretch fabrics.• Does not draw attention to any part of the body.• Is not casual, wrinkled, sloppy, or faddish.

Clothing should be professional in style and present aclean, well-groomed appearance.

Outfits. Outfits should consist of suits, skirt-and-blouse combinations, skirt-and-jacket combinations,dresses, or jumpers. They should be tailored to fit welland be conservative in style and color. Skirts shouldreach mid-calf or longer; if there is a slit, it should notreach above the knee. T-shirts, sweatshirts, golf-styleshirts, or other casual shirts, pants, and pantsuits areinappropriate.

Shoes. Shoes should be practical, comfortable, and at-tractive. Flat-soled shoes or shoes with low heels are

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best. Avoid boot-style, bulky footwear unless yourmission president authorizes it.

Accessories. Jewelry and other accessories should besimple and should not attract attention. Do not wearmore than one earring in each ear. Tattoos, nose rings,other body piercings, or toe rings are not acceptable.

Hair and Makeup. Wash your hair frequently. Thestyle and length of your hair should be easy to manageand should not call attention to itself. Makeup alsoshould not call attention to itself.

SCHEDULE“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every pur-pose under the heaven” (Ecclesiastes 3:1).Additional scriptures: Psalm 89:47; D&C 60:13; 75:3; 88:124

Time is one of the most precious resources HeavenlyFather has given you. The period when you are able toserve the Lord with all your time and all your effortsis extremely short. Use it fully and wisely. Such anopportunity is a privilege.

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Your mission president may adjust the following sched-ule to meet local circumstances.

6:30 a.m. Arise, pray, exercise (30 minutes), and preparefor the day.

7:30 Breakfast.8:00 Personal study: the Book of Mormon, other

scriptures, missionary library, and Preach MyGospel. Emphasize the doctrines of the mis-sionary lessons.

9:00 Companion study: share what you havelearned during personal study, prepare toteach, practice teaching, study chapters fromPreach My Gospel, and confirm plans for theday.

10:00 Begin proselyting (or language study for 30to 60 minutes).You may take an hour for lunch and addi-tional study and an hour for dinner at timesduring the day that fit best with your prose-lyting time. Normally, dinner should be fin-ished no later than 6:00 p.m.

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9:00 p.m. Return to living quarters (unless teaching alesson; then return by 9:30), and plan thenext day’s activities (30 minutes). Write inyour journal, prepare for bed, pray.

10:30 Retire to bed.

PLANNING SESSIONS Hold a weekly planning session with your companionon a day and at a time set by your mission president(see Preach My Gospel, pp. 147–50). Hold a daily plan-ning session with your companion at the end of eachday (see Preach My Gospel, p. 150). Confirm plans forthe day just before you go out to work each morning.

STUDY“Seek not to declare my word, but first seek to obtain myword, and then shall your tongue be loosed; then, if youdesire, you shall have my Spirit and my word, yea, thepower of God unto the convincing of men” (D&C 11:21).“Treasure up in your minds continually the words of life,and it shall be given you in the very hour that portion thatshall be meted unto every man” (D&C 84:85).

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Additional scriptures: John 5:39; 2 Nephi 32:3; Mosiah 1:6–7; D&C1:37; 26:1; 88:77, 118; 90:11; Joseph Smith—Matthew 1:37

Use the important hours before 10:00 a.m. to prepareto serve the Lord. Follow guidelines for personal studyand companion study each morning (see Preach MyGospel, pp. viii–ix, 17–26). Focus your study on thestandard works, the approved missionary library (seePreach My Gospel, p. viii), and the Church magazines.Study only these materials.

Show your respect for the word of the Lord by takinggood care of your scriptures (for example, by keepingthem in a protective case).

LANGUAGEIf you are learning a language, continue to study itthroughout your mission for at least 30 to 60 minuteseach day at 10:00 a.m., unless your mission presidentdirects otherwise (see Preach My Gospel, pp. viii, 127–35).During this time, plan language learning activities touse with your companion during the day. Speak yourassigned mission language as much as possible.

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SUNDAYS AND HOLIDAYS“That thou mayest more fully keep thyself unspotted fromthe world, thou shalt go to the house of prayer and offer upthy sacraments upon my holy day” (D&C 59:9).

PROSELYTINGOn Sunday, spend as much time as possible proselyting.Sundays, Saturdays, and holidays are excellent oppor-tunities for finding and teaching because many familiesare together and are at home.

MEETINGSAttend regular Sunday meetings (sacrament meeting,Sunday School, priesthood meeting, and Relief Society)and Sunday general sessions of stake conference. Attendbroadcasts of general conference if they are available.

When invited by the bishop, attend the part of priest-hood executive committee or ward council meetingswhen missionary work is discussed. Also attend theweekly coordination meeting with the ward missionleader. You will not normally attend other Churchmeetings unless invited to do so.

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Always be an example in your conduct at meetings,especially in reverence. In Church meetings you andyour companion normally sit in the congregation withinvestigators and members. Do not sit on the standunless you have a part on the program. Avoid gather-ing with groups of missionaries. Mingle instead withinvestigators and members, and help them buildfriendships.

Arrange for members to bring investigators to Churchmeetings, or bring them yourselves if members are notavailable. (Investigators are not to be given rides inmission vehicles; see “Automobiles,” p. 48.)

FASTINGThe monthly fast is adequate for most purposes. Youmay occasionally fast for a special reason, but do notfast for more than 24 hours at a time. Do not ask peopleat home to join you in special fasts. (See “Tithing andFast Offerings,” p. 45, for information on contributinga fast offering.)

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PREPARATION DAY“See that all these things are done in wisdom and order;for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than hehas strength. And again, it is expedient that he should bediligent, that thereby he might win the prize; therefore, allthings must be done in order” (Mosiah 4:27).

Use preparation day to take care of personal needs,such as writing to your family, washing clothes, get-ting a haircut, cleaning your apartment, shopping, andwashing the car, if you have been assigned one to use.Also use this day to prepare so that you can give fullattention to proselyting during the rest of the week.

Arise at 6:30 a.m., and follow the regular study sched-ule. Preparation day ends by 6:00 p.m. Proselyte from6:00 p.m. to the end of the evening.

DRESSOn preparation day, wear regular missionary clothesin public. If this clothing is not appropriate for a spe-cific activity, make sure that you maintain a clean,modest appearance. Look for opportunities during theday to find people to teach.

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COMMUNICATING WITH FAMILYWrite to your family each week on preparation day.Limit correspondence with others. Share your spiritualexperiences. Never include anything confidential, sen-sitive, or negative about the areas where you serve.

E-Mail. You may communicate with your family andmission president by e-mail, according to approvedguidelines. Use only MyLDSMail.net, the filtered ser-vice established by the Church. Do not use any other e-mail service or any other Internet service or site thathas not been authorized.

Use e-mail only on preparation day. You may use com-puters in public places, such as libraries or appropriatebusinesses that offer Internet access. While using com-puters, always stay next to your companion so that youcan see each other’s monitors. Do not use members’computers. If you misuse e-mail or computers, youmay lose the privilege of using e-mail.

As your call letter states, you are “expected to devoteall your time and attention to serving the Lord, leavingbehind all other personal affairs.” Do not becomepreoccupied with communicating with family and

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friends. Except as outlined under “Family Membersand Friends” (see p. 37), you should communicatewith family and friends only on preparation day.

CULTURAL AND RECREATIONAL ACTIVITIESCultural and recreational activities should help youwork more productively during the rest of the week.You may, for example, visit such places as historicalsites, cultural centers, museums, art galleries, zoos,and special exhibits. Use mission vehicles only forofficial purposes or as authorized by your missionpresident.

Stay with your companion during all activities. Stay inyour area unless you receive permission to leave it.

Avoid gathering in large groups of missionaries whenyou visit public places.

Safety. Recreational activities should be safe. Nevergo swimming or take part in water sports. Avoidactivities that may restrict your physical ability the restof the week or cause injury. These activities include(but are not limited to) contact sports; winter sports;motorcycling; horseback riding; mountain or rock

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climbing; riding in private boats or airplanes; handlingfirearms, fireworks, or explosives of any kind; or simi-lar activities.

If you play basketball, volleyball, or another sport, donot allow the situation to become intense or competi-tive. (For example, do not keep score.) The purpose ofrecreational activity is exercise that will help you meetthe physical demands of your work. Competitivegames easily lead to injury or fatigue, which inter-fere with the work. If you play basketball, play onlyhalf court.

TEMPLE ATTENDANCEIf a temple is available, you may attend the templeaccording to the schedule and guidelines establishedby your mission president, in coordination with thelocal temple president.

You should always have a current temple recommend,even if you are not able to attend the temple. Ask yourmission president for a temple recommend interviewbefore your recommend expires.

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Wearing the Temple Garment. Wearing the templegarment is the sacred privilege of those who havetaken upon themselves the covenants of the temple.The garment is a constant reminder of these cov-enants. When properly worn, it provides protectionagainst temptation and evil.

Endowed members should wear the garment bothnight and day, according to the instructions given inthe endowment. You should not adjust the garment orwear it contrary to instructions in order to fit differentstyles of clothing, even when such clothing may begenerally accepted. When two-piece garments areused, both pieces should always be worn.

You should not remove, either entirely or partially, thegarment for activities that can reasonably be done withthe garment worn properly under the clothing. Norshould you remove it to lounge around your quarters.When you must remove the garment, you should putit back on as soon as possible.

The garment should never be left on the floor. Whengarments need to be washed, they should be placed in

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a laundry basket or bag until they can be properlywashed and dried.

As you carefully follow these principles, you will beguided by the Holy Spirit in considering your personalcommitment to wear the garment. This sacred covenantis between you and the Lord, and the proper wearingof the garment is an outward expression of your innercommitment to follow the Savior, Jesus Christ.

ENTERTAINMENT“O ye that embark in the service of God, see that ye servehim with all your heart, might, mind and strength, that yemay stand blameless before God at the last day. . . .“And faith, hope, charity and love, with an eye single to theglory of God, qualify him for the work” (D&C 4:2, 5).Additional scriptures: Deuteronomy 4:29; Matthew 6:24; John17:15–16; Titus 2:12; James 4:4; D&C 53:2–3; 88:67–68; 133:5, 7, 14

To keep your eye single to the Lord and His work,avoid all forms of worldly entertainment.

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TELEVISION, RADIO, MOVIES,VIDEOS, DVDS, INTERNETDo not watch television, go to movies, listen to theradio, or use the Internet (except to communicate withyour family or your mission president or as otherwiseauthorized). Watch only videos or DVDs that havebeen authorized by the Church or your mission presi-dent. Do not listen to audio recordings that are not inharmony with the following guidelines. Do not useheadphones; they isolate you from your companion.

MUSICListen only to music that is consistent with the sacredspirit of your calling. Music should invite the Spirit,help you focus on the work, and direct your thoughtsand feelings to the Savior. Do not listen to music thatpulls your thoughts away from your work, merelyentertains, has romantic lyrics or overtones, or dullsyour spiritual sensitivity by its tempo, beat, loudness,lyrics, or intensity.

Listening to music must never interfere with yourpersonal preparation or proselyting.

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If you have any questions about music, discuss themwith your mission president.

ELECTRONIC, VIDEO, AND COMPUTER EQUIPMENTYou should not use unauthorized electronic or videoequipment.

You are not authorized to have a personal computer.Do not use a computer except to communicate withyour family or your mission president (see “E-Mail,”p. 20). Your mission president may assign you to usea mission computer, or he may authorize you to use acomputer for proselyting purposes (for example, tointroduce nonmembers to family history). Computeror electronic games of any kind are not authorized.

CAMERASYour mission president will advise you on the appro-priate use of cameras. Do not use cameras while youare proselyting. Be careful never to look like a tourist.Do not spend a lot of money on camera equipmentand supplies.

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READINGRead only books, magazines, and other materialsauthorized by the Church (see “Study,” pp. 15–16).

GROUP ACTIVITIESYou should not take part in or sponsor musical groups,athletic teams, clubs, or similar groups.

PORNOGRAPHYPornography in any form is a serious transgression ofGod’s commandments. It drives the Spirit away, leadsto other transgressions, and is highly addictive. Strictlyavoid situations in which you might read, see, or hearpornographic material. Protect your companion fromthis spiritually destructive danger. You will find greatprotection as you obey the basic standards of mission-ary conduct, including the instructions in this section.

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THE LAW OF CHASTITY“Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. Thou shalt notsteal; neither commit adultery, nor kill, nor do anything likeunto it” (D&C 59:6).“He that looketh upon a woman to lust after her shall denythe faith, and shall not have the Spirit; and if he repents nothe shall be cast out” (D&C 42:23).“Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example ofthe believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit,in faith, in purity” (1 Timothy 4:12).Additional scriptures: Psalm 24:4–5; Matthew 5:27–28; 1 John 3:2–3;3 Nephi 27:19; Moroni 9:9; D&C 88:86; 121:45

You are expected to obey strictly the law of chastity,which forbids sexual conduct of any kind outside ofmarriage between husband and wife.

Violations of the law of chastity—including touchingthe private parts of another person, whether under orover clothing—are criminal conduct in some areas. Ifthe victim is a minor, penalties can be severe, includingimprisonment. Even false charges can take months toinvestigate and may disrupt or end missionary service.

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To help yourself obey the law of chastity and to protectyourself from such charges, always remain with yourcompanion. Never be alone with anyone else, male orfemale, adult, youth, or child (except as explained in“Stay Together” on pp. 30–32).

Help your companion stay away from situations thatcould lead to problems and avoid “all appearance ofevil” (1 Thessalonians 5:22). See the following sectionfor further guidelines on companion relationships.

RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERSYOUR COMPANION

“Ye shall go forth in the power of my Spirit, preaching mygospel, two by two, in my name, lifting up your voices aswith the sound of a trump, declaring my word like untoangels of God” (D&C 42:6).Additional scriptures: Ecclesiastes 4:9–10; Mark 6:7; Luke 22:32;3 Nephi 11:29–30; D&C 6:28; 52:10; 64:8–10; 84:106; 108:7

Preaching the gospel two by two is the pattern estab-lished by the Lord. The testimonies of two compan-ions support each other in proclaiming the truth andbearing witness of it.

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Companions support each other in other phases oftheir work. They help each other learn and grow. Theystrengthen each other in times of difficulty. They canprovide protection from physical danger, false charges,and temptation.

Love and respect your companions (see 1 John 4:7,20–21). Look for good in each companion. Find ways toserve each other. Work together in a spirit of unity (seeD&C 38:27). Study together every day. Pray togetherfrequently throughout each day. Talk with each otheropenly and frequently. Contention will drive the Spiritaway (see 3 Nephi 11:29).

Support your companion’s righteous actions; do notcriticize him or her to other missionaries or members.If correction is necessary, give it constructively, respect-fully, and privately (see D&C 121:41–44). If your com-panion is struggling with the work or in personalmatters, be sensitive to those problems and seek advicefrom your mission president.

Stay Together. Never be alone. It is extremely impor-tant that you stay with your companion at all times.Staying together means staying within sight and

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hearing of each other. The only times you should beseparated from your assigned companion are whenyou are in an interview with the mission president,on a companion exchange, or in the bathroom. (Forguidelines on baptismal interviews, see Preach MyGospel, p. 205.)

Never make exceptions to this standard for activitiesthat seem innocent but take you away from each other,including being in different rooms in the same build-ing or in a home. Situations that seem harmless at thebeginning can quickly lead to serious problems.

If you live in an apartment with more than one room,always sleep in the same room as your companion, butnot in the same bed. Arise and retire at the same timeas your companion. Do not stay up late or get up earlyto be alone.

Obey the standards of missionary conduct and therules of the mission. If you notice any inappropriatesituation or behavior, discuss it with your companion.If the matter is not resolved, have the courage and lovefor your companion to ask your mission president forhelp. Violations of missionary standards may threaten

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your companion’s effectiveness and even his or hersalvation. Care enough for your companion to ask forhelp from your mission president before a problembecomes serious. Your loyalty is first to the Lord, thento your mission president, then to your companion.

If your companion leaves you, inform your missionpresident immediately.

Be aware that you have a responsibility to protect yourcompanion from physical and spiritual danger. If youdo not fulfill this responsibility and your companionengages in serious misconduct, you may be subject toChurch disciplinary action.

Companion Exchanges. Normally, you should go oncompanion exchanges only with mission leaders or asotherwise authorized by your mission president.However, when you and your companion have moreteaching appointments than you can handle by your-selves, you may arrange through the ward missionleader for a responsible Church member of your ownsex to go with each of you so you can cover more thanone appointment at a time. Normally these members

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should be adults, but with your mission president’spermission you may go with priest-age young men.

Transfers. Unless otherwise directed by your missionpresident, go directly to your new area when you aretransferred and meet your new companion withoutdelay. If your companion is transferring but you arestaying in the area, make arrangements with yourdistrict or zone leader so that you are never alone.

MISSIONARY LEADERSSupport and respect those assigned by your missionpresident as district leaders, zone leaders, and assis-tants to the president (see Hebrews 13:17). If the con-duct of a missionary leader appears inconsistent withthe standards in this handbook, discuss it with yourmission president, not with other missionaries.

OPPOSITE SEXNever be alone with, flirt with, or associate in anyother inappropriate way with anyone of the oppositesex. Do not telephone, write, e-mail, or accept calls orletters from anyone of the opposite sex living within ornear mission boundaries. The only exceptions are forcommunications between sister missionaries and their

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mission leaders, mission-related telephone calls (suchas calls to confirm appointments), and letters of supportand encouragement to converts (see “Communicatingwith Converts” on pp. 36–37). Report immediately toyour mission president any situation that might causeyou or your companion to violate this standard.

You and your companion should not visit or accept ridesfrom individuals of the opposite sex unless anotherresponsible adult of your own sex is also present.Always obey this rule, even if the situation seemsharmless. You can often avoid these situations if youemphasize teaching families and involve members inevery teaching appointment, if at all possible.

Do not counsel members or nonmembers on personalproblems. Refer members who need counseling orprofessional assistance to their bishop. If you feel anonmember needs such assistance, talk with your mis-sion president.

Do not counsel missionaries of the opposite sex, evenif you are serving in a leadership position. Such talkcan lead to inappropriate feelings and relationships.Always refer such cases to your mission president.

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CHILDRENThe following guidelines apply to all missionaries,regardless of age or sex.

Because of increasing legal complexities, be extremelycareful around children. If charges of inappropriatebehavior are made, you may find yourself involved ina lengthy court case. If you are found guilty, you couldface a substantial jail sentence and Church disciplinaryaction.

As in all other relationships, never be alone with a child.Avoid any behavior that could be misunderstood orcould appear to be inappropriate, including tickling,changing diapers, holding children, and allowingchildren to sit on your lap. Never babysit children ofany age.

MEMBERSCoordinate your visits and efforts with members withthe ward mission leader. When you visit, talk to, or eatwith members, your primary purpose should be tostrengthen them (see D&C 108:7) and help them fulfilltheir missionary responsibilities. Ask them whom theyknow that you could teach. Do everything you can to

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build their confidence in you as a dedicated, powerfulservant of the Lord.

Do not visit or call members early in the morning, latein the evening, or on Monday evenings (unless youare invited to present a missionary lesson in a familyhome evening).

Your mission president will decide with the stake presi-dent to what extent members will provide meals formissionaries. Meal appointments should be an hour orless and should not interfere with prime proselytingtime. Ask the ward mission leader to emphasize havingless-active and part-member families and investigatorsprovide meals. Ask members whom they know thatyou could teach, just as you would in any other visit.

COMMUNICATING WITH CONVERTSYou share responsibility for strengthening your con-verts in the Church. You may not be able to continueto visit them, but you can write them occasionallyand encourage them. An occasional note will reassureand comfort them and rekindle the joy they felt at thetime of their conversion. After you have been trans-ferred from the ward or branch, receive your mission

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president’s authorization before communicating withconverts of the opposite sex while you are still in themission field. Use the mission office address as thereturn address on any correspondence with converts.

When you go home, do not forget those you havetaught. At all times live worthy of their trust. Writethem occasionally and encourage them to be faithful.

FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDSYou may telephone your parents on Christmas and oneother time during the year (usually Mother’s Day),according to guidelines from your mission president.Take care that these calls do not pull your thoughtsaway from your service or create a financial problemfor your family. Keep them short (preferably no longerthan 30 or 40 minutes). Other than these calls, do nottelephone family members or friends unless you havepermission from your mission president.

Visits from family members, friends, and acquain-tances are against Church policy. The impact of suchvisits may extend far beyond the visit itself, both beforeand after the visit and among other missionaries. It canoften take some time for missionaries to refocus on

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their callings and their work. While expressing yourlove and your desire to share your experiences withthem after you have been released, help those who maywant to visit you to understand the importance ofmaintaining singleness of heart and mind on the workof the Lord (see Matthew 10:37–39; Luke 9:61–62).

Do not ask family members or friends at home todonate to local causes where you are serving.

Contact your mission president if there is an emer-gency in your family. Notify the mission office if yourparents change their address, e-mail address, or tele-phone number or if your home ward or stake changes.

GENERAL AUTHORITIESDo not write directly to the First Presidency, otherGeneral Authorities, or Church headquarters. Com-munications from missionaries are referred back to themission president. If you have questions or concerns,discuss them with your mission president. Do not callChurch headquarters unless your mission presidentasks you to call for him.

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COMMUNITY SERVICE“I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye maylearn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings yeare only in the service of your God” (Mosiah 2:17).Additional scriptures: Matthew 22:37–40; 25:40; Acts 10:38; Gala-tians 5:13; Mosiah 18:8

You have been called of God to serve His children.That service can take many forms. You should look foropportunities to serve those around you—investigators,Church members, your companion, and the peopleyou meet.

In addition to unplanned acts of service, you shouldseek opportunities for service projects in the commu-nity each week. Your mission president should approveall community service activities.

Except for emergencies, limit planned service activitiesto daytime hours on days other than weekends, holi-days, or preparation days. Stay with your companionduring all service activities.

Do not participate in activities that could put yourhealth or safety at risk, create a legal liability for

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you or for the Church, or put you in an inappropriate situation. Because of increasing legal complexitiessurrounding relationships with children, do not giveservice in such places as schools or day-care centers.

Do not commit yourselves to a project that could be-come difficult to continue or could cause problems ifyou need to discontinue it. Your service should notreplace the efforts of priesthood quorums and auxil-iaries, especially in meeting the needs of members. Donot become involved in commercial activities. Serviceactivities should not increase your expenses.

Although you should serve out of a sincere desire tohelp others, look for teaching opportunities that arisefrom your service. For additional guidelines on service,see Preach My Gospel, pp. 168–70.

LOCAL LAWS AND CUSTOMS“We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, andmagistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law”(Articles of Faith 1:12; see also D&C 58:21).

Obey all laws of the land, including passport and visarequirements, traffic laws, driver’s license requirements,

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border regulations, and customs laws. Respect the cul-ture, customs, traditions, religious beliefs and prac-tices, and sacred sites in the area where you serve. Donot proselyte at or near the houses of worship ofother faiths.

When eating meals with or otherwise visiting membersor nonmembers, always act in harmony with the high-est standards of consideration and courtesy, observinglocal customs of etiquette and the common practicesof the culture. Be thoughtful by not eating too much iffood is in short supply. Always express your thanks.Follow the host or hostess in the use of utensils, andchew food with a closed mouth.

Never suggest that people emigrate to another country,even for work or schooling. You should not become in-volved in adoptions. Do not ask your family or peoplefrom your home area to sponsor or become involved inthese activities.

Do not ask for or accept money or sponsorship frommembers or others in your mission area. If you areserving in a country other than your own, you mustreturn to your own country without delay at the end

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of your mission. A missionary’s failure to return homecan make it more difficult for the Church to obtainvisas for future missionaries.

Remember that you are recognized as a missionaryeven before you talk with people. Do not do anythingthat is inappropriate or offensive, such as chewinggum in public. Such practices take away from yourimage as a minister of Jesus Christ.

In many countries, placing flyers, pamphlets, or othermaterials in or on mailboxes or on the windshield ofparked cars is a violation of local laws.

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“Organize yourselves; prepare every needful thing; andestablish a house, even a house of prayer, a house of fasting,a house of faith, a house of learning, a house of glory, ahouse of order, a house of God” (D&C 88:119).“All things unto me are spiritual, and not at any time haveI given unto you a law which was temporal; neither anyman, nor the children of men; neither Adam, your father,whom I created” (D&C 29:34).

FINANCESThe funds you receive from the mission are sacred.They represent sacrifices by you, your family, andothers. Budget your money. Be thrifty and wise inhow you spend it.

Use funds from the mission for rent, groceries, personalgrooming items, laundry, cleaning supplies, haircuts,postage for weekly letters to family, fast offerings, andtransportation. Limit how often you eat at restaurants,including fast-food restaurants.

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Any funds remaining after these expenses should bereturned to the mission. Do not save money receivedfrom the mission from month to month to purchasepersonal items, such as clothing, cameras, or souvenirs.Mission-related telephone expenses should be submit-ted to the mission office.

Use funds from home for other necessary expenses,such as replacing necessary clothing, bicycle purchaseand repairs, approved telephone calls home, and med-ical expenses not paid by the mission (medical care forpreexisting conditions, co-payments, and normal eye ordental care).

Keep other expenses to a minimum and pay for themwith funds from home, including expenses for film andfilm developing, souvenirs, gifts, traffic and parkingfines, and any damage that you cause to apartments orvehicles by abuse or failure to maintain them properly.Talk with your mission president if you have questionsabout what expenses are appropriate.

Avoid collecting too many personal items and sou-venirs. You should not have more than two suitcasesand one carrying bag. If you serve outside your own

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country, you will have to list items obtained duringyour mission in your customs declaration and mayneed to pay customs duties when you return home.

Never loan or borrow money. If you need additionalmoney, talk to your mission president.

RESERVE FUNDKeep a reserve fund with enough cash that you couldtravel to mission headquarters if you were not able toobtain money through the normal way.

TITHING AND FAST OFFERINGSYou are not expected to pay tithing on funds youreceive for your mission. You should pay tithingthrough your home ward on any other income. Con-tribute fast offerings each fast Sunday in the wardwhere you serve.

HOUSINGYour mission president must approve all missionaryhousing. Housing should be safe, clean, and economical.It should allow you to maintain privacy and the dignityof your calling. Report to your mission president any

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changes in your housing that would make it no longer inharmony with approved standards.

Never live in a home where unmarried people of theopposite sex live or where the spouse of your own sexis frequently absent. Never teach investigators ormembers in your living quarters or accept visits fromthem there. Do not give your address to nonmembersor make your address publicly known.

Clean your living quarters each preparation day anddaily as needed (see D&C 42:41; 90:18). Follow main-tenance guidelines established by your mission presi-dent and your landlord. Inform the mission office ofneeded repairs. You will need to use personal funds topay for any damage you cause to your apartment.

Your mission president, his wife, or others he assignswill inspect your quarters regularly.

Do not keep pets of any kind.

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TRANSPORTATIONBICYCLES

If you ride a bicycle, learn bicycle safety rules, usecaution, obey all traffic rules, and use proper handsignals. Avoid riding after dark, in heavy traffic, or inbad weather. You may need to adapt travel to weatherconditions or even cancel some activities in severeweather.

In many situations, you and your companion shouldnot ride bicycles side-by-side or follow too closely, butyou should always stay within sight of each other.

Always wear a helmet that is safety certified by a rec-ognized industry group. Keep your bicycle in goodworking order. Make sure it has a working headlightand taillight, a clearly visible rear reflector, and reflec-tors on both sides. As appropriate, wear reflectivegear on your clothing.

Lock and secure your bicycle when you are not ridingit. If it is lost, stolen, or damaged, you will need toreplace or repair it from your personal funds.

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AUTOMOBILESUse of a mission-owned vehicle is a privilege. If you donot obey the rules or if you cause a serious preventableaccident, you will lose this privilege for the rest of yourmission. To drive a vehicle, you must:

• Be legally licensed.• Be certified by your mission president to drive.• Be assigned by the president as the “designated

driver.”• Be thoroughly familiar with the rules and procedures

for using a vehicle.

Drive only mission-owned vehicles. You are not au-thorized to drive any other vehicles, including motor-cycles or scooters. Do not drive vehicles assigned toother missionaries unless authorized by your missionpresident. Do not drive vehicles owned by members ornonmembers.

Do not give rides to anyone other than full-time mis-sionaries. The only exception is for a member who isgoing to or from a teaching appointment with you andcannot drive his or her own vehicle.

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Use mission vehicles only for approved purposes inyour assigned area. Stay within established mileagelimitations.

Pray for the Lord’s protection. Be safety conscious atall times. Drive defensively. Everyone in the car mustwear an individual seat belt whenever the vehicle ismoving. If a cellular phone has been approved foryour area, only the missionary who is not driving mayuse it in the car.

Both companions share responsibility for safety andvehicle maintenance. The companion not driving mustremain alert to assist the driver. One missionary is tostand outside the vehicle and direct the driver when-ever he or she is backing. Drive with headlights on dayand night.

If you are involved in an accident, refer to the “Whatto Do If You Have an Accident” packet, which shouldbe kept in the glove compartment. The mission vehiclecoordinator must authorize any repairs.

Never tamper with the vehicle’s odometer. Tamperingis dishonest and in many places is a criminal offense.

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HEALTH AND SAFETY“Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghostwhich is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not yourown?” (1 Corinthians 6:19).

“Watch, therefore, that ye may be ready” (D&C 50:46; seealso Proverbs 1:33).Additional scriptures: 1 Corinthians 3:16–17; D&C 88:124; 89:18–20

HEALTH

Your health and safety are of great importance. Main-tain your health so that you can serve with all yourheart, might, mind, and strength. Frequently study theMissionary Health Guide. Exercise daily according toguidelines in it. Always stay with your companionduring exercise.

If you need medical care, call your mission presidentimmediately. He will know where the best medical carecan be obtained. Visits to a physician or other health-care professional should be authorized in advance byyour mission president or his representative. In anemergency, get help immediately and then inform yourmission president as soon as possible.

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SAFETYFollow safety rules for pedestrians, vehicles, bicycles,appliances, heaters, and anything that is potentiallydangerous.

Fuel-burning heaters that do not work properly can bevery dangerous. Follow instructions in the MissionaryHealth Guide for using these heaters. Do not risk yourhealth or safety for any reason, including to save money.

SECURITYListen to and follow the promptings of the Spirit,which can warn you of danger. Be sensitive to anythingthat is out of the ordinary, especially anyone whowatches you closely or asks probing questions. Im-mediately report any possible problems to your missionpresident and to your district leader or zone leaders.

Stay away from unsafe areas. Travel after dark only inlighted areas. Vary the routes you travel. Walk quicklyand with purpose. Do not fill your carrying case withtoo many items or with materials that are heavy orbulky, which could create the impression you haveitems of value. Do not resist if you meet thieves. Carry

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a little cash with you so you have something you couldgive to thieves.

Avoid situations that could lead to confrontations. Stayaway from public demonstrations and from locationswhere those seeking to cause trouble might targetyou. Because of the close association in some people’sminds of the Church with the United States of America,in some countries you may need to avoid locations orinstitutions associated with the United States andavoid areas where large groups of people have anti-American feelings.

Be careful what you say and write in public and in pri-vate. Do not make negative or offensive commentsabout political or cultural circumstances, even in lettersor e-mails home. Never become involved in politicalor commercial activities or in discussions or argumentson political or economic topics.

In some countries it is illegal to photograph govern-ment buildings, including embassies, airports, militaryinstallations, and other city, state, or national buildings.

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Do not take pictures of civil unrest or demonstrations.Do not photograph sacred objects or statues.

Never take part in pranks or joke about terrorism or ter-rorist acts. Such actions may lead to serious problems.

In all ways be wise and mature in your conduct.

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“Our leaders were mighty men in the faith of the Lord; andthey taught the people the ways of the Lord” (Jarom 1:7).“Now it was the custom among all the Nephites to appointfor their chief captains . . . some one that had the spirit ofrevelation and also prophecy” (3 Nephi 3:19).

Your mission president assigns missionary leaders tohelp him direct the work and to help you and the othermissionaries successfully fulfill your purpose. Amongthe leadership assignments in the mission are trainers,senior companions, district leaders, zone leaders, andassistants to the president.

Leadership assignments must never be viewed as away to obtain personal recognition or advancement,but rather as opportunities to serve others, to developgreater love, and to learn (see Ezekiel 33–34; 2 Nephi26:29–30). Like all callings in the Church, each assign-ment has its own importance; an assistant to the presi-dent is no more important than any other missionary(see 1 Corinthians 12:14–31; Alma 1:26).

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A missionary companionship is the basic unit of mis-sionary service. Successful missionary work andappropriate missionary conduct begin in the compan-ionship under the leadership of the senior companion.

The assignment to serve as a leader is a sacred trustfrom the Lord through the mission president, and boththe president and the Lord will receive an accountingof this responsibility (see D&C 72:3; 104:11–12). Theprinciples of gospel leadership affect the success ofevery phase of the work.

MINISTERING AND ADMINISTERING“Jesus . . . said, Ye know that the princes of the Gentilesexercise dominion over them, and they that are great exer-cise authority upon them. “But it shall not be so among you: but whosoever will begreat among you, let him be your minister; “And whosoever will be chief among you, let him be yourservant: “Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto,but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many”(Matthew 20:25–28).

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A missionary leader must be an effective administra-tor in keeping order and carrying out the work of themission. A leader’s most important influence, how-ever, comes through ministering to others in harmonywith the Savior’s teachings and example (see 3 Nephi27:21, 27).

Leaders should study the scriptures and the teachingsof modern prophets to learn the principles of Christ-like leadership. They should be sensitive to the needs ofothers and prayerfully seek ways to strengthen them(see Luke 22:32). Their goal is not merely to superviseor motivate, but to lift, encourage, inspire, and bless.

EXAMPLEA good leader sets an example of gospel living anddevoted, selfless service to God and His children. Aleader strives to:• Exercise faith in Jesus Christ. A leader strengthens his

or her testimony of the Savior, the plan of happi-ness, and the message of the Restoration and acts onthat testimony. A leader has a vision of the purposeof missionary work and relies on the Lord to achieveworthy goals.

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• Repent and become more like the Savior. A leader livesthe gospel and maintains a high standard of righ-teousness. A leader works to overcome weaknessesand shortcomings and to develop his or her attri-butes and skills as a missionary.

• Keep covenants. A leader is motivated by a firm beliefthat he or she has made sacred covenants with Godand that those covenants include representing theLord, obeying the commandments (including mis-sion standards), and serving others.

• Receive the Holy Ghost. Having the right to the constantcompanionship of the Holy Ghost, a leader seeks tobe worthy and ready for the gifts of the Spirit (forexample, through prayer and scripture study). Aleader strives to recognize and follow the prompt-ings of the Spirit.

• Endure to the end. A leader keeps an eye single to theglory of God and works hard throughout his or hermission.

Missionary leaders set an example in the way theycarry out their missionary work. They work diligentlyin their proselyting area in addition to fulfilling their

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leadership responsibilities. A leader’s proselyting areashould be a model for other missionaries. They canlearn from it and use it as a pattern for their own work.Leaders must teach through example how to plan,how to find and teach investigators, and how to workwith local Church leaders and members. Leadersshould also recognize that they can learn much fromthe missionaries they serve.

ATTRIBUTES“No power or influence can or ought to be maintained byvirtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering,by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned; “By kindness, and pure knowledge, which shall greatly enlargethe soul without hypocrisy, and without guile. . . . “Let thy bowels also be full of charity towards all men, and tothe household of faith, and let virtue garnish thy thoughtsunceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the pres-ence of God; and the doctrine of the priesthood shall distil uponthy soul as the dews from heaven” (D&C 121:41–42, 45).

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including love, humility, obedience, and hard work. Aleader helps other missionaries most when they feelthe leader’s love. They should feel that the leader ismotivated by a sincere concern for their welfare, notby his or her own interests. Leaders should always actin such a way that the other missionaries can recognizethe leader’s strict obedience to the Lord and commit-ment to following his or her leaders, especially themission president. By developing and exercisingChristlike attributes, leaders earn respect and trust,which enable them to help those they serve.

All those who have callings that put them in the positionof influencing others for good should prayerfully andrepeatedly ponder the Lord’s teachings to the ProphetJoseph Smith in Doctrine and Covenants 121:34–46.

RESPONSIBILITIESLeaders inspire and support those they serve. In addi-tion to setting a strong example, they:

• Represent the mission president in carrying out hisplans for the mission.

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• Convey information and direction from the missionpresident promptly and clearly.

• Inspire others to have a spirit of love, unity, obedi-ence, and hard work.

• Encourage missionaries to live a high standard ofobedience, especially by living the first principles ofthe gospel.

• Help missionaries become powerful and fruitfulin each phase of missionary work, including find-ing and teaching investigators and working withmembers.

• Teach other missionaries in companionship study,companion exchanges, district meetings, and othersettings.

• Discuss the progress of the missionaries’ contactsin companionship planning sessions, in districtmeetings, during weekly call-in reports, and in otherinteractions with missionaries.

• Share with the mission president and with otherleaders (when appropriate) information on the pro-gress and needs of the missionaries. Leaders areespecially sensitive to needs and situations that could

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present dangers to a missionary’s spiritual or phys-ical well-being and make sure the mission presidentknows about these matters.

• Correct missionaries’ conduct when needed (seeD&C 121:41–44).

Opportunities to lead other missionaries should neverbe treated lightly. A leader should never tolerate orparticipate in inappropriate activities. Opportunities tocorrect the attitudes or behavior of other missionariesare important teaching moments. When handled withlove, these opportunities build faithfulness and effec-tiveness in those who may otherwise fall short of whatthe Lord expects of them. When problems are notresolved, leaders should seek help from other leadersor the mission president.

Missionary leaders should always remember that theirloyalty is first to the Lord, then to their mission presi-dent, then to the missionaries.

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MEETINGSAmong the most important training opportunities arecompanionship planning sessions, district meetings,and zone conferences. In these meetings, senior com-panions, district leaders, and zone leaders, under thedirection of the mission president, train the missionariesand coordinate the work (see Preach My Gospel, p. ix).

COMPANION EXCHANGESNormally at least once every transfer cycle, a districtleader works with each elder in his district and zoneleaders work with district leaders in their zone. Theassistants to the president regularly conduct compan-ion exchanges with zone leaders. Under the directionof the mission president, zone leaders and the assis-tants to the president may also work with other eldersto assist in their training.

Companion exchanges are conducted by leaders totrain missionaries. They should not be used just tochange companions, to get together with a friend, orto get away from a companion. Other missionaries do

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not conduct companion exchanges unless authorizedby the mission president.

Companion exchanges should be planned in advanceand should normally last 24 hours. The leader maybring the other missionary to his own area or work inthe other missionary’s area. Usually the leader’s com-panion and the other missionary’s companion work inthe other proselyting area.

During the companion exchange, the leader should takepart in as many phases of missionary work as possible,including finding, teaching, companionship study,language study (as appropriate), and daily planning.He should review and discuss the missionary’s areabook and daily planner.

The leader teaches by example. In a spirit of love, hegives the missionary specific, direct, constructivefeedback on what he does well and how he can im-prove. He helps the missionary understand and applyprinciples from Preach My Gospel, and he gives leader-ship training.

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At the end of the exchange he reviews with the mis-sionary what has happened and what has beenlearned during the exchange. He helps the missionaryset goals and make plans. The leader reports on theexchange in his weekly letter to the mission president.

Sisters do not take part in companion exchanges withelders. For training purposes, the mission presidentmay assign experienced sisters to conduct companionexchanges with other sisters, applying the principlesdiscussed in this section. Their companions also worktogether. The sister who conducted the companion ex-change should report on the exchange to the missionpresident and to the other sister’s district leader.

BAPTISMAL INTERVIEWSDistrict leaders interview baptismal candidates taughtby other missionaries in their district (including thosetaught by zone leaders in the district). Candidatestaught by district leaders are interviewed by zoneleaders (see Preach My Gospel, chapter 12). If the districtleader or zone leaders who would normally conduct aninterview cannot do so, the mission president may

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assign another leader to conduct the interview—normally another district or zone leader or one of theassistants to the president.

The bishop conducts baptismal interviews for eight-year-old children if at least one parent is a member andfor excommunicated persons.

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Couples and sisters age 40 and older are not expectedto follow the same proselyting schedule of youngermissionaries. Some mission rules established foryounger missionaries may not apply to you. Youshould still set standards and goals and follow thesame dress and grooming standards listed for youngerelders and sisters. Living the missionary standardswill help you feel the missionary spirit. Rememberalso that many missionaries will look to you as anexample. Discuss with your mission president waysyou may adapt the schedule and standards expectedof younger missionaries.

To meet the needs in your area, your mission presidentmay assign you responsibilities other than those youreceived with your call.

To the extent possible, all missionaries should sharethe gospel. You should find, friendship, and teach tothe extent that your other assignments allow.

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Missionary couples are not covered by the equalizedMissionary Support Fund program. They are respon-sible for their own expenses, including housing,transportation, and medical needs. Sisters age 40 andolder who have a proselyting assignment or an officeassignment and report to a mission president are cov-ered by this program, but others who do not report toa mission president pay their own expenses.

If you have special financial needs, discuss them withyour mission president.

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Elders may be asked to participate in priesthood ordi-nances and blessings. Melchizedek Priesthood holdersshould always be worthy and should strive to beguided by the Holy Spirit. They should perform eachordinance and blessing in a dignified manner, makingsure it is performed:

1. In the name of Jesus Christ.2. By the authority of the priesthood.3. With any necessary procedures, such as using speci-

fied words or using consecrated oil.

As explained in this section, some ordinances must beauthorized by the presiding authority who holds theproper keys.

When several brethren participate in an ordinance orblessing, each one places his right hand lightly on theperson’s head and his left hand on the shoulder of thebrother to his left. It is discouraged for a large number ofbrethren to participate in a single ordinance or blessing.

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BAPTISMUnder the direction of the presiding authority, a worthypriest or Melchizedek Priesthood holder may performthe ordinance of baptism. To do so, he:

1. Stands in the water with the person to be baptized.2. Holds the person’s right wrist with his left hand (for

convenience and safety); the person being baptizedholds the priesthood holder’s left wrist with his orher left hand.

3. Raises his right arm to the square.4. States the person’s full name and says, “Having

been commissioned of Jesus Christ, I baptize you inthe name of the Father, and of the Son, and of theHoly Ghost. Amen” (D&C 20:73).

5. Has the person hold his or her nose with the righthand (for convenience). The priesthood holderplaces his right hand high on the person’s back andimmerses the person completely, including the per-son’s clothing.

6. Helps the person come up out of the water.

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Two priests or Melchizedek Priesthood holders witnesseach baptism to make sure it is performed properly.The baptism must be repeated if the words are notspoken exactly as given in Doctrine and Covenants20:73 or if part of the person’s body or clothing is notimmersed completely.

CONFIRMATIONThe ordinance of confirmation is performed underthe direction of the bishop. He ensures that convertsare confirmed in a sacrament meeting of the ward inwhich they reside, preferably the Sunday followingtheir baptism. Converts are not confirmed at the bap-tismal service.

Under the direction of the bishop, one or more Mel-chizedek Priesthood holders may participate in thisordinance. They place their hands lightly on the per-son’s head. Then the person who performs theordinance:

1. States the person’s full name.2. States that the ordinance is performed by the au-

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3. Confirms the person a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

4. Uses the wording “Receive the Holy Ghost.”5. Gives a priesthood blessing as the Spirit directs.6. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

CONSECRATING OILOne or more Melchizedek Priesthood holders mustconsecrate olive oil before it is used to anoint the sickor afflicted. No other oil may be used. To consecrateoil, a priesthood holder:

1. Holds an open container of olive oil.2. Addresses Heavenly Father.3. States that he is acting by the authority of the

Melchizedek Priesthood.4. Consecrates the oil (not the container) and sets it

apart for anointing and blessing the sick and afflicted.5. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

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ADMINISTERING TO THE SICKOnly Melchizedek Priesthood holders may administerto the sick or afflicted. Two or more of them normallydo it together, but one may do it himself if necessary.If consecrated oil is not available, a blessing may begiven by the authority of the priesthood without theanointing.

A worthy father who holds the Melchizedek Priest-hood normally should administer to sick members ofhis family.

Brethren should administer to the sick at the request ofthe sick person or of those who are vitally concerned sothe blessing will be according to their faith (see D&C24:13–14; 42:43–44, 48–52). Melchizedek Priesthoodholders who visit hospitals should not solicit opportu-nities to administer to the sick.

Administering to the sick has two parts: (1) anointingwith oil and (2) sealing the anointing.

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ANOINTING WITH OILThe anointing is done by one Melchizedek Priesthoodholder. He:

1. Puts a drop of consecrated oil on the person’s head.2. Places his hands lightly on the person’s head and

calls the person by his or her full name.3. States that he is acting by the authority of the

Melchizedek Priesthood.4. States that he is anointing with oil that has been

consecrated for anointing and blessing the sick andafflicted.

5. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

SEALING THE ANOINTINGNormally, two or more Melchizedek Priesthood hold-ers place their hands lightly on the head of the person.The one who seals the anointing:

1. Calls the person by his or her full name.2. States that by the authority of the Melchizedek

Priesthood he is sealing the anointing.3. Gives a priesthood blessing as the Spirit directs.4. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

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If a person requests more than one blessing for thesame illness, the priesthood holder need not anointwith oil after the first blessing. Instead, he gives ablessing by the laying on of hands and the authority ofthe priesthood.

BLESSINGS OF COMFORT AND COUNSELWorthy Melchizedek Priesthood holders may giveblessings of comfort and counsel to persons who requestthem. One or more worthy Melchizedek Priesthoodholders place their hands lightly on the person’s head.The priesthood holder who gives the blessing:

1. Calls the person by his or her full name.2. States that the blessing is performed by the author-

ity of the Melchizedek Priesthood.3. Blesses the person as the Spirit directs.4. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

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missionaries give a blessing to a member, they shouldreport that action to the bishop (perhaps through theward mission leader).

SACRAMENTUnder the direction of the bishop, priesthood holdersbless the sacrament and pass it to members of the con-gregation during each sacrament meeting. If membersare unable to attend sacrament meeting because theyare confined to a home, nursing home, or hospital, thebishop may assign priesthood holders to prepare,bless, and pass the sacrament to these members.

Worthy priests and Melchizedek Priesthood holdersmay bless the sacrament. Worthy Aaronic and Mel-chizedek Priesthood holders may pass the sacrament.The person who blesses the bread kneels and offers thesacrament prayer for the bread (see D&C 20:77); thebread is then passed to the congregation. The personwho blesses the water kneels and offers the sacramentprayer for the water (see D&C 20:79, substituting theword water for wine); the water is then passed to thecongregation.

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CONFERRING THE PRIESTHOOD ANDORDAINING TO PRIESTHOOD OFFICESThe bishop oversees the conferral of the Aaronic Priest-hood and ordinations to the offices of deacon, teacher,and priest. The stake president oversees the conferralof the Melchizedek Priesthood and ordination to theoffices of elder and high priest. Under the direction ofthe bishop or stake president, the following priesthoodholders may participate in priesthood ordinations:

To perform a priesthood ordination, one or more au-thorized priesthood holders place their hands lightly

Participants

Priests and MelchizedekPriesthood holders

Melchizedek Priesthoodholders

High priests

Ordination to Office of:

Deacon, teacher, priest

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on the person’s head. Then the priesthood holder whoperforms the ordination:

1. Calls the person by his full name.2. States the authority by which the ordination is per-

formed (Aaronic or Melchizedek Priesthood).3. Confers the Aaronic or Melchizedek Priesthood,

unless it has already been conferred.4. Ordains the person to an office in the Aaronic or

Melchizedek Priesthood and bestows the rights,powers, and authority of that office. (Priesthoodkeys are not bestowed in conferring the priesthoodor ordaining to one of these offices; see item 4 in thenext section.)

5. Gives a priesthood blessing as the Spirit directs.6. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

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SETTING APART OFFICERS AND TEACHERSUnder the direction of the presiding authority, one ormore Melchizedek Priesthood holders may participatein a setting apart. They place their hands lightly on theperson’s head. The priesthood holder who acts as voice:

1. Calls the person by his or her full name.2. States that he is acting by the authority of the

Melchizedek Priesthood.3. Sets the person apart to the appropriate office in a

stake, ward, quorum, high priests group, or class.4. Confers keys on those who are entitled to receive

them. (In stakes and wards, only stake presidents,bishops, and quorum presidents receive keys of pres-idency when they are set apart. The word keys shouldnot be used when setting apart counselors, highcouncilors, high priests group leaders, presidents ofauxiliary organizations, the bishop’s priests quorumassistants, or teachers in an organization.)

5. Gives a priesthood blessing as the Spirit directs.6. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

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NAMING AND BLESSING CHILDRENOnly worthy Melchizedek Priesthood holders mayparticipate in naming and blessing children (see D&C20:70). When blessing a baby, Melchizedek Priesthoodholders gather in a circle and place their hands underthe baby. When blessing an older child, brethren placetheir hands lightly on the child’s head.

The person who gives the blessing:

1. Addresses Heavenly Father.2. States that the blessing is performed by the author-

ity of the Melchizedek Priesthood.3. Gives the child a name.4. Gives a priesthood blessing as the Spirit directs.5. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

DEDICATING HOMESChurch members may dedicate their homes as sacrededifices where the Holy Spirit can reside and wherefamily members can worship, find safety from theworld, grow spiritually, and prepare for eternal family

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relationships. Homes need not be free of debt to bededicated. Unlike Church buildings, homes are notconsecrated to the Lord.

To dedicate a home, a family might gather and offer aprayer that includes the elements mentioned aboveand other words as the Spirit directs.

DEDICATING GRAVESA person who dedicates a grave should hold the Mel-chizedek Priesthood and be authorized by the priest-hood officer who conducts the service. To dedicate agrave, he:

1. Addresses Heavenly Father.2. States that he is acting by the authority of the

Melchizedek Priesthood. 3. Dedicates and consecrates the burial plot as the rest-

ing place for the body of the deceased.4. (Where appropriate) prays that the place will be

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5. Asks the Lord to comfort the family and expressesthoughts as the Spirit directs.

6. Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.

If the family prefers, a graveside prayer rather than adedicatory prayer may be offered, preferably by a Mel-chizedek Priesthood holder.

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