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Mindfulness and Gift Planning National Capital Gift Planning Council January 9, 2019

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Mindfulness and Gift PlanningNational Capital Gift Planning Council

January 9, 2019

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hello!

I am Karen GallardoYou can reach me at [email protected]

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1.What is Mindfulness?

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“Psychology Today defines mindfulness as “a state of active, open attention on the present.” The publication goes on to state that, “you observe your

thoughts and feelings from a distance, without judging them good or bad.” Additionally, “mindfulness means living in the moment and awakening to

experience,” as opposed to letting life pass you by.

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Video

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Choose to respondvs react…

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Place your screenshot hereMindfulness Exericse #1Breathing

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2. Who is doing it?

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Companies That See The Big Benefits Of Mindfulness Meditation

▣ Adobe ▣ Aetna▣ AOL Time Warner▣ Apple▣ AstraZeneca▣ Ford▣ General Mills▣ Google ▣ Nike ▣ McKinsey & Co. ▣ Target▣ Best Friends Animal Society▣ The Nature Conservancy

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3. What are the benefits?

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Personal

▣ Helps reduce stress▣ Improves Memory▣ Greater happiness▣ Deepened empathy and kindness▣ Improved sleep quality▣ Improved immune system

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Professional

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Extreme Focus

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Place your screenshot hereMindfulness exercise #2Eating

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Why Now?

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We’re really distracted

▣ What are you doing right now?▣ What are you thinking about right now?▣ How are you feeling right now?

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Place your screenshot hereMindfulness exercise #3Focus

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4. Why does it apply to our

work?

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Helps our ability to connect in a highly effective way and navigate

the sensitive and sacred issues

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Place your screenshot hereMindfulness exercise #4Listening

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5. How can I apply it to my

work?

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Each of us will be visited by the heavenly messengers –

sickness, old age, death

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“Resolve to be tender with the young,

compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, tolerant of

the weak and wrong. Sometime in your life you will have been

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Secret to aging with grace and joy

▣ Studies show that many people are happier as they age – fewer options can increase happiness.

▣ Part of the passion of youth is looking for intensity and new experiences;

▣ Many older people report how they celebrate aliveness in ordinary things and simple rituals.

▣ Cultivate relationships that have meaning for you.

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Best Friends Values

Golden RuleTo treat all living things as we ourselves would wish to

be treated.

KindnessTo demonstrate

compassion and respect for all living creatures.

Positive InfluenceTo judge our effectiveness

by the extent to which animal lives are saved and

improved, and by the positive experience of the

people we touch.

LeadershipTo lead by example,

developing, promoting and sharing great new ideas and programs to help animals.

AuthenticityTo do what we say we do.

TransparencyTo be open and honest in

our relationships.

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6. Daily Opportunities

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Place your screenshot hereFinal Mindfulness ExercisePausing

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thanks!

Any questions?

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“May you have happiness and the causes of happiness.

May you be free from suffering and the causes of suffering.May you never be parted from freedom’s true joy.

May you dwell in equanimity and be free of attachment and aversion.

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Credits

Special thanks to all the people who made and released these awesome resources for free:▣ Presentation template by SlidesCarnival

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ResourcesBooks & Magazines (On how to practice mindfulness training):

▣ Mindfulness in Plain English, Bhante Henepola Gunaratana▣ Hurry Up and Meditate, David Mitchie▣ Learn to Meditate, David Fontana, PhD▣ Breath by Breath, Larry Rosenberg▣ Wherever You Go, There You Are, Jon Kabat-Zinn▣ 10% Happier, Dan Harris▣ After the Ecstasy, the Laundry, Jack Kornfield▣ The Miracle of Mindfulness, Ticht Nhat Hanh▣ The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle▣ Mindful Magazine, healthy mind, healthy life

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ResourcesOn the scientific research:▣ Train Your Mind Change Your Brain, Sharon Begley▣ The Mindful Brain, Daniel Siegel▣ Full Catastrophe Living, Jon Kabat-Zinn▣ Happiness, Matthieu Ricard

Local Groups▣ Insight Meditation Community of Washington DC

○ https://imcw.org/

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ResourcesOnline bibliographies on mindfulness training:▣ http://www.noetic.org/research/medbiblio/biblio.htm▣ http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/sites/entrez?db=pubmed&cmd=

search&term=meditation▣ http://www.ions.org/research/medbiblio/index.htm▣ Google scholar; “mindfulness”▣ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/mindfulness▣ http://www.bbc.com/future/story/20180502-does-

mindfulness-really-improve-our-health ▣ https://www.helpguide.org/harvard/benefits-of-

mindfulness.htm Positive Psychology: Harnessing the Power of Happiness, Personal Strength, and Mindfulness, a special health report published by Harvard Health Publications.

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ResourcesApps:▣ Headspace▣ Clam▣ Muse▣ Insight Timer

▣ Podcasts:▣ How to be Awesome at your job▣ Hidden Brain▣ Jonathan Foust▣ Wisdom

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