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Two years ago thismonth, I’m sad tosay I was distractedfrom the usual joysummer breakbrings to our home.My longtime pet, adog I had raisedfrom the time hewas a 6-week-oldpuppy, wasseriously ill, andfor the first time,

medication andsurgical procedures weren’t going to help. I spent a full week holding him andtrying to save my tears for when the kids weren’t around, all while trying togently tell them that Odie was nearing the end of his life and would soon beleaving us for good. The journey that led us from that point to the decision tobring a local dog who needed a home to live with us inspired the story on page 36,and I hope you are as touched by stories of the two families we interviewed as wewere. We also have some great tips for parents who are struggling to figure out thebest way to harmoniously blend a home with pets with the addition of a new baby.Now that summer has officially arrived, I don’t know about you, but I for one

am truly celebrating a break from carpool, classroom responsibilities, after schoolactivities and weekend sporting events. Around here, summer brings welcomeopportunities for splashing in the neighborhood pool, devouring books throughCharlotte Mecklenburg Public Library’s summer reading program (I personally planto take part in the program for adults this year), a much-needed family vacation,fun camp programs, and best of all, sleeping in! But while taking a breather isalways a good thing, it can sometimes be a little too tempting to stock the pantry andpool bag with unhealthy treats that don’t do our kids’ little bodies any good in thelong run. For some great tips on how to avoid the summer junk food trap, be sure tocheck out our article on this topic on page 18. We’ve also compiled some greatenrichment activities to keep young minds engaged and their motor skills strong, andthey are so much fun the kids won’t even realize they are doing real “work.”In preparation for the coming months, Little Ones is excited to bring you a very

special issue focusing on safety. Local organizations and businesses in the communityare dedicated to educating our children and the parents who love them, from offeringtips on water and boating safety to a special “town” with the sole purpose of teachingkids about bicycle, playground and bus safety, stranger danger and more.Whatever your plans, I encourage you to make the most of the memories gathered from

the days ahead — I know I will!

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cover:Sofia is a spirited, fun-loving 8-year-old who enjoys swimming,soccer and piano lessons. She alsoaspires to be a paleontologist orthe first female president of theUnited States of America.

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featuresSummer Enrichment . . . . . . . . . . . .10By Renee RobersonKeep your kids learning this summer.

Couples Retreat . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12ByWendy HersheyTime away from the kids is beneficialfor your relationship.

Cooking for a Cause . . . . . . . . . . .14By Renee RobersonLocal boy accomplishes a dream.

Smart Summer Snacking . . . . . . . . .18By Stacy CacciatoreFun alternatives to unhealthy treats.

ABC’s of Water Safety . . . . . . . . . . .20By Kelly GainesDon't let your child be a statistic.

Safety Town . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22By Renee RobersonImportant lessons for rising kindergartners.

Family Boating Tips . . . . . . . . . . . . .28Stay safe on local lakes.

Ready for Baby . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34By American Humane AssociationHelp pets adjust to the new baby.

Precious Family Pets . . . . . . . . . . . .36By Renee RobersonPets provide much more than companionship.

Community Fitness . . . . . . . . . . . . .40By Renee RobersonHighland Creek comes together to embrace fitnessand support charities.

Travel to North Georgia . . . . . . . . .42By Renee RobersonSee what the area has to offer your family!

departmentsAsk the Therapist . . . . . . . . . . . . . .16By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCCMotivate with discipline.

Warm Weather Wear . . . . . . . . . . .30Fashion turns up the heat.

Products to Please . . . . . . . . . . . . .32Great gifts and where to get them.

DJ Dad: Matt Harris . . . . . . . . . . . .44What dads REALLY want for Father’s Day.

Carolina Cuties! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46Starring local little ones, as themselves ...

By Arden McLaughlinof the CharlotteMecklenburg Library

A Ball for Daisy,by Chris Raschka

When a favorite toy breaks, achild can feel like his world iscrumbling. Chris Raschka’s2012 Caldecott Medal WinnerA Ball for Daisy showcasesexactly how your child feelsthrough his signatureswirling, impressionisticillustrations and endearing story. Abigger dog breaks puppy Daisy’s toy and it makesher sad, sad, sad. The book contains very few wordswhich will allow you and your little one to create adifferent story full of emotion each time you openit to enjoy together.

Sammy in the Sky,by BarbaraWalsh andJamie Wyeth

I love animals more than I lovemost people. I dream of owninga farm big enough to rescue andfoster cats, dogs, goats, and anyother mistreated or unwanted pet.Needless to say, when I’ve had todeal with the deaths of my familypets I’ve really struggled with grief. Your little onesmay have the same difficulties and that’s why I thinkSammy in the Sky by Barbara Walsh and Jamie Wyethserves as an excellent choice for helping each of us todeal with pet loss. In it, we see how the character loves

and plays with her family pet up until the day he diesafter living a long life. And, you’ll see how her parentshelp her deal with the loss and celebrate the life ofSammy. It’s not a book to read daily but it’s perfect forthat moment when you have to answer questions youdon’t know how to answer.

Because Your DaddyLoves You, by AndrewClements and R.W. Alley

Dads are often the firstheroes in their littleone’s life. AndrewClements and R.W.Alley explore someheroic acts by a daddyin their book BecauseYour Daddy Loves You. It willbe perfect for Father’s Day for youryounger children! In it, we see the little girl lose hershoes and ball among other misadventures whilespending the day on the beach. In each mini-dramaDaddy steps in to save the day just because he lovesher. Give this to papa for Father’s Day along with astory about how he saves your days. He’ll love it!

June and July just might be mymost favorite months of theentire year. My birthday is inJune and I love the heat of July.There’s nothing more fun than curling up bythe pool with my favorite easy read and basking in the sun.It’s so relaxing. In my mind, I don’t have a care in the world.As a Library gal, I also especially love the summer monthsbecause we get to see all of your children come through ourdoors for Summer Reading! We have Summer Reading plansand prizes for all ages (yes, parents, you can participate too)so I hope you’ll drop everything and register your entirefamily for this great initiative at one of our 20 librarylocations today!

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t’s no secret that every member ofthe family needs a break from thedaily demands of school duringthe summer — parents included.But according to the experts atHandwriting Without Tears®, awriting curriculum that useschild-friendly and multisensory

materials to teach children thefundamentals of handwriting, adding injust a few specific activities each day willhelp your children work on importantpre-writing skills.“Children in first and second grades doan unbelievable amount offine motor work,” says PeggyMorris, an occupationaltherapist with HandwritingWithout Tears®. “Youngerchildren actually havetheir muscles fatiguereally easily, so we reallywant them to do morestrengthening activitiesduring the summermonths.”

Here a fewsuggestions:

Play outside.Take advantage of outdoor

activities to help strengthen the musclesin your child’s hands, says Morris. Giveher a box of sidewalk chalk and let herdecorate the driveway. She can erase thecolorful creations with a plastic spraybottle for added exercise. Paintingoutdoors is another great activity. Have

her tape a piece of paper to a verticalsurface and finger paint.“When you’re holding a brush, your

hand is pretty static,” says Morris.“Using the pointer finger makes you usethe smaller muscles in your finger.”Another fun idea is to hang a clotheslineat your child’s shoulder height and haveher pin something on it, such as a doll’sclothes, with wooden clothespins.

Take it indoors.Use common household items and

educational materials a little differentlyfor more practice. Use Play-Doh

without the cutters andshape tools. Working yourchild’s hands through thedough, including rolling itinto smaller balls, activates a

whole new set ofmuscles in the hand.Squirt some shavingcream on a tray andhave him draw circlesand shapes into itwith the pointerfinger. Small crayonsrequire more controland work as a good

pre-writing activity. Put outcrayons most of the time and savemarkers for special use.Mark a calendar with five to tenminutes every day, says Morris. “A littlebit every day builds a nice foundation.”

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his time of year most of usare planning our summervacations with our families.Will we visit the beach or themountains? Drive or fly? Willit be our extended family orjust us? As all moms know,vacations can be so much fun but

rarely is it a vacation for Mom. Theplanning, packing, cooking, andwashing all mostly fall on hershoulders. When my children wereunder the age of 3 years, I really didn’tsee the point. I was more stressed frombeing out of our routine to possiblyenjoy the two hours of beach time wemight attempt with three toddlers. Iadore my family but I was usually inneed of a vacation from my vacation.What I have found is a great mixture offamily and adult vacation makes me abetter mommy and wife.My husband and I have always loved

to travel. Before we had so many littleones, we were always looking forsomething fun to experience. I am

blessed to have a husband who sendsme away every other year on a girl’strip and he has his male adventures aswell. But if we are not intentionalabout planning, we find it has been along stretch without a break.In my work, I have really enjoyed

working with some special couples whoare long overdue in creating a trulymemorable husband and wife moment.Once families begin growing, wesometimes forget how important thosetimes can be for our relationships andour own stress level.You may be thinking that sounds

great but it is not possible for us rightnow. You can be creative. Mostgrandparents would love theopportunity for a night or two alonewith the grandchildren. You can tradeoff with a friend or sister-in-law. If thatisn’t in the cards, stay at a hotel inCharlotte for one night. When mychildren were very small that was themost I was able to do mentally. I wasclose enough to be home in a moment’s

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notice if needed. Our trips are not as extravagant anymorebut they are still necessary. This past January, we took a

short 3-night cruise and justgot away. It was quick butwe had a great time justbeing together.There are some great

opportunities in thiseconomic climate if you areflexible. If you try to goanywhere popular wheneveryone else is going, thedeals are not as plentiful. Beflexible if you are able andmake the most of what youCAN do.If you have any travel needsor questions please feel free

to contact me. Our services are free to our clients and I wouldlove to help you create the best vacation for your family.

Wendy Hershey is a local travel specialist. She shares herknowledge of the industry and current specials with the readersof several family-friendly websites and has a love of creatingamazing adventures for her clients. She is happily married andhas four amazing children, ages 13 to 3. You can view her travelupdates on www.facebook.com/treesntrees or contact her for anytravel assistance at [email protected]. Her services arefree of charge to most destinations.

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leven-year-old Jacob Moorewants children to know thatachieving their dreams ispossible with a little

determination and a lot of hard work.Born three months premature, Mooreendured several brain surgeries andwas diagnosed with cerebral palsy asa result of his complicated birth. Butinstead letting physical limitationshold him back, he instead chose topursue a passion in cooking andnow wants to help other childrenlike him. For the past year andhalf, he has carefully gathered 150recipes and with the help of hismother, Kristi, self-published“Shake Batter ‘N Roll Rockin’Recipes” through a companycalled Morris Press. Moore plansto donate portion of thecookbook’s proceeds to Marchof Dimes and Levine’sChildren’s Hospital.

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Local sixth grader self-publishescookbook to help his favorite charities

Kristi Moore, who lives inMooresville with Jacob and hisyounger brother, recommendsencouraging children to help in thekitchen by first teaching them how tomeasure ingredients, tablespoons andcups while making a specific dish.“This will give them the basics onmeasurement, getting familiar withthe kitchen, and will give thempractice reading a recipe,” she says.She says working on the cookbookwith Jacob has been worth the timeand effort it took initially compilingand testing the recipes.“All of the hard work has been worthit to not only be able to help theLevine's Children’s Hospital and theMarch of Dimes, but it has greatlyhelped my son's confidence and self-esteem by giving him something toaspire to and accomplish.”

Q&A with Jacob

Q. How did you first discover yourlove for cooking?A. When I was around 7 years old, Istarted helping my mom in thekitchen. Since I can’t really do manysports because of a disability, I foundthat cooking was a creative outlet forme.

Q. Do you prefer cooking entreesor baking?A. I prefer entrees because there is alot of variety and I can get verycreative. Plus, I like cooking a meal formy family.

Q. Where do you find theinspiration for your recipes?A. I was first inspired by watching the

Rachael Ray show with mymom. I always get good cookingtips when I watch her show. Ialso get inspired to make new recipeswhen I try cuisines from differentcultures.

Q. Are there any favorite cookingshows you watch or famous chefsthat you admire?A. My favorite has to be Rachael Raybecause she has a funny personality

and she is very creativewith her recipes. I hope to meetRachel Ray and be on her show.

Q. How did you get the idea tocompile a cookbook in order toraise money for your favoritecharities?A. The idea to combine cooking withmy desire to help other kids came tome when I started writing all of myrecipes in a notebook. My mom agreedthat if we could gather 150 recipesthen she would have a book published.

Q. Can you tell us a little bit aboutwhy Levine Children’s Hospitaland the March of Dimes are sonear and dear to your heart?A. This is because things started out alittle scary when I was born 3 monthspremature at Carolinas MedicalCenter. I was in the hospital for a longtime and had many surgeries to savemy life. So, I decided to give back tothese organizations to help other kidsthat may be going through a scarytime.

Q. What advice would you give tochildren who don't have theconfidence in themselves toachieve their goals?A. I would tell them that no matterwhat anyone tells you, just believe inyourself and you can achieve yourdreams. Just believe in yourself andyou can do it!

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Recipes from Shake BatterN’ Roll Rockin’ Recipes

Unidentified Flying Bagel1 bagel, toastedCream cheese spread or peanut butter2 eggs, hard-boiledBanana slices or raisins

Spread the cream cheese or peanut butteron both halves of bagel. Peel hard-boiledeggs. Place one egg in each hole of thebagel halves. Decorate around the “ship”with banana slices or raisins.

Scooby Doo Rice Cream1 bag Minute Rice, white1 (15 oz.) can tropical fruit salad, drained2 c. miniature marshmallows1/4 c. sugar1 1/2 c. Cool Whip

Prepare rice according to packagedirections. Drain and pour it into a largemixing bowl. Let the rice cool completely.Once the rice has cooled, add the fruitmarshmallows, sugar and Cool Whip. Stiruntil well blended. Chill in the refrigeratorfor 30 minutes before serving.

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iscipline is one of thoseparenting topics that canstart heated debates and

bring out very strongopinions. The thing I stress

when working with parents in regardsto discipline is the importance ofrespect, motivation, choices andconsequences and engagement.Respect is something we want our

children to exhibit towards others, butoften parents don’t exhibit the respectfor their children they expect them todisplay. If you speak to and treat yourchild in a disrespectful manner, don’tbe surprised when they then exhibitthat same behavior. How we treat ourchildren is just as important, if notmore so, as what we tell them. Ouractions are much more powerful thenour words and we must model thebehaviors we want our children tolearn. Discipline without respect willonly create an angry child who growsinto a rebellious teenager.Discipline comes from the word

disciple, which is defined as “one whofollows the opinions or teachings ofanother.” Therefore, 1) discipline isabout teaching and protecting yourchild; not scolding and punishing whichresults in shame and embarrassment.2) discipline should be based on yourchild’s developmental age & stage —how you discipline a 2-year-old is goingto differ from how you discipline a 13-year-old, 3) there is a differencebetween punishment and discipline and4) discipline is about teaching self-control so that children know thedifference between right and wrong andwill make the right choice when youare not there. It comes from within, andmust be something your childinternalizes.Discipline is not only something that

we do to “correct” our child or whenthey are doing something wrong, but itshould be part of how we teach themwhat to do right and teach them to bedisciplined. For example, in our housewe use a marble jar as a motivator. So at

various times that we “catch our childdoing something well or right” wereinforce that behavior with marbles intheir marble jar. So it might sound like,“Mary, I really appreciate how you gotdressed and ready for school withoutbeing asked and even helped your sisterwith her breakfast — you just earnedtwo marbles for that.” We as parents, sooften point out all the things ourchildren do wrong forgetting that whenwe focus on what they do right theywill be motivated to behave. When weare consistent about reinforcing their“good” behavior, my girls start trippingover themselves to behave to try to earnmarbles.

The secret is, they can’t ask for amarble and they never know when andfor what they will receive marbles. It’sthe slot machine theory — you keepputting coins in the machine but younever know if/when you will winanything back or hit the jackpot. Youcan make a project out of decorating thejars and marking lines on the jar whererewards are earned along the way, andthen when the jar is full, a reward thatmotivates your child is earned. Therewards do not have to be things. Thisis where you engage your child in theprocess. They can help identify thingsthat are meaningful to them. It can bethings like a special date night withmom or dad, choosing their favoritemeal for dinner, a day of fun of theirchoosing (i.e. hiking, going to the park,swimming, a sleepover with a friend —it doesn’t have to involve costly eventsor things at all — particularly becausetime spent with you is more meaningfulto your child then any toy or computergame that loses value very quickly).

You can negotiate and agree on the“rewards,” but they have to be thingsthat are going to motivate your child orit won’t work, so you must engage themin the process and listen to what theytell you.Obviously, it all has to be done within

reason. Each of your children may havedifferent rewards they are workingtowards. If there is a particular objectthat your child has been wanting, suchas a new bike, new doll, computer game,etc., then you can use this as anincentive system. But limit the “things”that you use as rewards. This is a greatway to begin the lesson of working forwhat you get and helping your child totake pride in the things they have.The use of choices and

consequences is another way to teachyour child through discipline. Soinstead of “Sue, don’t leave your toys inthe middle of the floor,” you would say,“Sue, I know you want to go outsideand play, but if you choose to leave yourtoys in the middle of the floor, you arechoosing to lose your outdoor playtime.” Another example may be, “Brad,I know you don’t like wearing yourbike helmet, but if you want to rideyour bike, you must wear your helmet.If you choose not to wear your helmet,you are choosing not to ride your bike.”This puts the control in their hands —they are making the choice, but they arealso learning the consequences of theirchoices.As parents, we will always make

mistakes – I had to apologize to my 13-year-old just this evening. But bydemonstrating the ability to takeresponsibility for our mistakes,apologize and ask for forgiveness, weteach our children the ability to do thesame. As parents we have to rememberthat just as we wouldn’t want to beshamed and berated for our parentingmistakes, our kids shouldn’t be shamedfor theirs. They need loving guidanceand support, and so do we as parents.We’re all learning together!

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Lead by exampleA study by the Academy of Nutrition and DieteticsFoundation found that the number one factor ininfluencing children’s eating habits is their parents’behavior. By eating healthy and choosing nutritious foods,children will follow in those same footsteps. Another study,by professor Mildred Horodynski of Michigan StateUniversity’s College of Nursing, found that toddlers wereless likely to consume fruits and vegetables if their mothersdidn’t eat them regularly. Set a good example by snackingon fruits and vegetables and eating balanced meals withyour children.

Make fruits and veggies accessibleKeep unhealthy goodies out of sight and make the healthytreats easy to see and grab. Simply having healthy foodsavailable makes it much more likely that your children willgrab something nutritious. Keep a bowl filled with apples,bananas and oranges in the center of your table. Place cut-up celery, carrots and snow peas in clear containers in thefront of the fridge. Ensure fruits and vegetables are frontand center in the fridge instead of in the crisper drawer.

Get kids involvedBring your kids to the grocery store or farmer’s market andallow them to pick out the fruits and vegetables for theirmeals. Consider planting a container garden to get the kidsinvolved with the growing and caring for fruits andvegetables. Kids can also help in the kitchen by cleaning,prepping or cooking it with you. Give kids age-appropriatetasks so they don’t get injured or overwhelmed. Allow kidsto help decide what to make for dinner and plan out a menufor a balanced meal. Cooking with kids offers manyeducational opportunities, including learning math frommeasuring, fine motor skills by pouring and language byreading and following the directions for a recipe. Researchshows that kids are more likely to eat foods that they helpselect and prepare.

Stacy Cacciatore the author of several books focused on makingeating healthy fun, including: Candy Around the World, abook about teaching children about history and culturesaround the world through cooking, Culinary Duct Tape: GreekYogurt: Just as versatile, not as tacky and Guilt-Free Cupcakes:Indulge without the Bulge. She lives in Fort Mill with her twochildren, ages 9 and 5, and husband. Visit her blog, Five a Daythe FunWay, at http://fiveadaythefunway.com.

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ummer is here at last and the kids are out of school. Whilesummer vacation relieves some of the pressure and hustleand bustle from the school year, it also brings a host ofnew pressures, including making sure that your kids are

filling up on the right foods and not snacking on junk all day.Without the structured routine of school, it can be easy forfamilies to fall into the trap of letting their healthy eating routinefall to the wayside. Try out these tips to keep your kids eatinghealthy throughout summer vacation.

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t was a beautiful, spring day in1997. The sun was shining, aslight breeze blowing and I wasplanting flowers in my backyard.As I gardened I watched my 18-month-old daughter, Allie, playwith her toys. But as I was

digging in the dirt, I happened to lookup just in time to see her reach for a toythat had fallen in the pool. I watched asshe quietly and quickly sank. I knew atthat moment that if I had not beenpresent, my daughter would have surelydrowned. I had always thought that ifmy daughter ever fell in our pool, Iwould clearly know. Contrary to what Ihad always believed, there was none ofthe flailing and splashing that I thoughtwould occur to alert me.That day I enrolled her in swim

lessons at Charlotte Aquatics. The fearof my daughter drowning in our poolwas more than I could bear and Iwanted to do everything possible tokeep her safe. That was 14 years ago.My daughter is now 16 and I now ownCharlotte Aquatics. I am a hugeadvocate for water safety and drowningprevention. It’s interesting how thingswork out.Sadly, drowning is the second leading

cause of accidental death in childrenages 1 to 14 years old. The majority ofthe children that drown are under theage of 5 years. I urge parents to pleasenot be lulled into thinking that you willhear your child if they fall into a pool.Contrary to what most people think,there typically is no yelling out andwaving of arms to alert someone.Drowning is a quick and silent killer.

Never leave your child unattended byany body of water (bathtubs included).It is so easy to think that nothing willhappen to your child if you just run andget the phone or go to the bathroom.According to the U.S. ConsumerProduct Safety Commission, mostyoung children who drowned in poolswere last seen in the home, had beenout of sight less than five minutes, andwere in the care of one or both parentsat the time. Children can loseconsciousness in 20 seconds or less.

Here are 8 ways to keep yourchild safe:

1. Enroll your children in a water safe-ty or learn to swim program. It hasbeen shown that children who haveswim lessons have an 88 percent lesschance of drowning.2. Never leave a child unattended in apool, hot tub, or bathtub even formoment. Adult supervision is essential.3. Always designate a responsible adultto serve as the “water watcher” — asupervisor whose sole responsibility isto constantly observe children in ornear the water. The water watchershould:• maintain continuous visual and audi-tory contact with children in or nearthe water.• not engage in distracting behaviorssuch as talking on the phone, preparinga meal or reading.• keep children who cannot swim with-in arm’s reach at all times.4. Have a phone by the pool to dial 911in an emergency.

5. Keep rescue equipment by the pool.6. Enclose the pool completely with abarrier. Fences should be at least fivefeet high and have self latching, self-closing gates. Layers of protection areimportant, so consider using door andpool alarms and pool safety covers.7. Parents and caregivers should learninfant and child CPR.8. Educate children about the rulesof water safety.

All of these tips can really be com-bined into what I like to call the ABCsof water safety. A = adult supervi-sion is always needed. B = Barriers.Make sure you have multiple layers ofprotection around your pool or spa. C= Classes. Enroll your child in swimlessons and make sure as an adult youknow CPR.I am lucky that my story ended

happily. Many others are not as fortu-nate. I can’t even imagine the pain andanguish a parent goes through whenthey lose a child, especially to a pre-ventable death like drowning. Please donot let that happen to you. Learn yourABCs and follow the eight steps aboveto keep your child safe.

Kelly Gaines is the owner and Big Fishof Charlotte Aquatics. Charlotte Aquaticsprovides swim lessons for childrenbeginning at 6 months old. For furtherinformation call 704.341.9673 or visitwww.charlotteaquatics.com. Kelly alsoprovides “Water Safety Story Time” toelementary and preschools and watersafety and drowning prevention talksto moms groups.

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Providing children the opportunityto learn life-saving lessons onstrangers, traffic, playground, busand bicycle safety.[

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with the idea of offeringthe program Safety Townto rising kindergartners.She had fond memories ofattending Safety Town as achild and wanted her ownchildren to be able toexperience it, too. Theprogram has grown so muchin popularity that the townnow offers it over the courseof three weeks each June,providing more than 200children the opportunity to

learn life-saving lessons on strangers, traffic, playground,bus and bicycle safety.According to the history of the program, Safety Town was

the brainchild of a police officer in Ohio many years ago,and the model for the safety lessons taught in the“miniature” town format is used in various states across thecountry. At this time, Huntersville is the only town in theCharlotte area to offer Safety Town.

“The best part is that the kids are so bright-eyed andbushy-tailed,” says Sgt. Tom Seifert with the HuntersvillePolice Department, who organizes and coordinates theevent each year. “They are so excited to be there.”The program costs $55 and includes a T-shirt, class photo,bicycle helmet, daily snacks and drinks. It spans four daysduring the weeks of June 11, 18 and 25 during bothmorning and afternoon sessions, and it is only open toHuntersville residents.Children participating in Safety Town arrive each day to achild-sized town, located in Blythe Elementary School, thatincludes working traffic lights, miniature street signs (stop,pedestrian crossing, railroad crossing, etc.), crosswalks andeight colorful little buildings representing Huntersville.Seifert says the program has grown so popular that when

registration opened this past March, all open spots werefilled within two hours.“Safety Town is a staple in the community now,” says

Seifert. “It’s a good program and it’s a great service thatwe’re able to provide to the community. We’re able to reachout and touch some kids early on in kindergarten.”“My daughter will be attending this summer, and I am

sending her because I went to Safety Town as a child inGreensboro, and loved it,” says Huntersville mom ChristineSchattner. “It’s just a really interesting and fun way for kidsto learn about road safety, and what our police men andwomen do to keep us safe. Plus, getting to ride around amini-town is too much fun!”For more information, visit www.huntersville.org.


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June 12, 13 Kit Kittredge (G), Journey 2 (PG)June 19, 20 Happy Feet Two (PG), Dolphin Tale (PG)June 26, 27 Yogi Bear (PG), Legend of the Guardian (PG)July 3, 4 Cats & Dogs (PG), Hugo (PG)July 10, 11 Adventures of Tin Tin (PG), Puss & Boots (PG)July 17, 18 Kung Fu Panda 2 (PG), Rango (PG)July 24, 25 Spy Kids (PG), Rio (G)July 31, Aug. 1 Hoodwinked Too (PG), Chimpanzee (G)Aug. 7, 8 Arthur Christmas (PG), Smurfs (PG)

Summer Movie Express

Be sure to check out www.regmovies.comprior to attending a showing to ensure nochanges to the film have been made.

Summer is the perfect time for you and the kids to catch upon the movies you might have missed throughout the year . . .or just revisit favorite flicks at a discounted price.

Southern PiedmontAdoptive Families ofAmerica (SPAFA)Adoption Expo 2012What: The Adoption Expo

offers couples or singles, whowant to start a family,the opportunity to talk with adoptionprofessionals from across the countryin one convenient trade show setting.There will also be several break-outsessions offered on topics such as gettingstarted in adoption, financingan adoption and deciding the bestadoption path for you. A local bookvendor will also be on hand withadoption-related materials for sale.Keynote speaker this year is DawnDavenport, Executive Director ofCreating a Family. She is also therecipient of an Angel in Adoption Awardfrom Congress, and the author of two

“how-to” adoption books. She will bespeaking on “Adoption Works For Kidsand Family.”When: June 2 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m.Where: Stallings United MethodistChurch, Stallingswww.spafa.org

Taste of CharlotteWhat: Entering its 14th year, Taste ofCharlotte serves as the area’s largest foodfestival and there’s enough food forevery member of the family to enjoy.Purchase festival coins to samplerestaurant foods or beverages from morethan 100 different vendors. The kids canburn off their energy on the rock-climbing wall or inflatable jumpers.When: June 8-10Where: Tryon Street (spanning fromMLK Jr. Blvd. through 6th Street)www.tasteofcharlotte.com

Summer Pops at Symphony ParkWhat: A Charlotte summer traditionsince 1983, Summer Pops at SymphonyPark is an opportunity for families andfriends in the community to cometogether and enjoy outdoor orchestralconcerts for four Sundays in June andone additional America-themed concertin July to celebrate Independence Day.The Charlotte Symphony YouthOrchestra will usher in the summerseason with a June 10 performance.Single ticket prices will remain the samein the 2012 season, with ticket prices at$10 for adults and free for childrenunder the age of 18. Symphony ParkSummer Passes valid for admission to allfive concerts will be available for $35.When: Sundays, June 10, 17, 24 andJuly 1, 3.Where: Symphony Park, SouthParkwww.charlottesymphony.org

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The World’s Largest Swimming LessonWhat: The nation's top water safety and trainingorganizations are joining forces to present The World’sLargest Swimming Lesson™ (WLSL) in order to buildawareness about the vital importance of teaching children toswim to help prevent drowning. On this day, waterparks,pools and other aquatic facilities around the globe will hostlocal WLSL lessons simultaneously at 11 a.m. in an attemptto break the Guinness World Record. Register to participateat Charlotte Aquatics; space is limited so register prior to thisfree event.When: June 14 at 11 a.m.Where: Charlotte Aquaticswww.charlotteaquatics.com

Family DayWhat: Encourage your child’s creative side by participatingin special hands-on art activities and museum tours duringFamily Day at the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art.Admission is free for children; adults receive a discountedticket price of $4.Art activities are recommended for ages 5 and older and willtake place on the museum plaza (weather permitting), insidethe museum and in the classroom. Hands-on art projects willillustrate the methods and materials addressed in theexhibition “Mid-Century Modernism: 1957” and the BechtlerCollection. In addition to art projects, children will learnabout the art and artists of the Bechtler collection through amuseum-wide scavenger hunt and family-friendly tour.When: June 16 from noon to 4:30 p.m.Where: Bechtler Museum of Modern Artwww.bechtler.org

Charlotte Nature MuseumWhat: Visit the little farm in the big city and get up close tohorses, chickens and much more. Other animals you mightjust spot include sheep, ducks, a goose, rabbits (kittens andadults) and even a miniature horse. Creature Featuresprogramming includes crafts, puppet shows, storytelling andmore.When: June 16 from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.Where: Charlotte Nature Museum

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June 5, 6, 7 Kit Kittredge (G) • Journey 2 (PG)June 12, 13, 14 Happy Feet Two (PG) • Dolphin Tale (PG)June 19, 20, 21 Yogi Bear (PG) • Legend of Guardian (PG)June 26, 27, 28 Cats & Dogs (PG) • Hugo (PG)July 3, 4, 5 Adventures of Tin Tin (PG) • Puss & Boots (PG)July 10, 11, 12 Kung Fu Panda 2 (PG) • Rango (PG)July 17, 18, 19 Spy Kid (PG) • Rio (G)July 24, 25, 26 Hoodwinked Too (PG) • Chimpanzee (G)July 31, Aug. 1, 2 Arthur Christmas (PG) • Smurfs (PG)

Cornelius Outdoor Cinemas SeriesMovies begin at duskJune 13 Kenton Place • Hugo (PG)July 11 Kenton Place • Dolphin Tale (PG)July 21 Smithville Park • The Adventures of Tin Tin (PG)Aug. 8 Kenton Place • Dr. Seuss’ The Lorax (PG)Aug. 22 Kenton Place • Journey 2 (PG)Aug. 25 Cornelius Town Hall • Soul Surfer (PG)

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North Carolina ZooThe Bear NecessitiesWhat: Explore life as a bear throughstorytelling, crafts and keeper talks.Bring your teddy bear to the TeddyBear Clinic for a check-up with zooveterinarian staff. Be sure to visit thespecial “Dinosaurs” exhibit, featuring15 animatronic dinosaurs, apaleontologist’s tent and more whileyou’re there.When: June 16Where: North Carolina Zoo inAsheborowww.nczoo.org

Summer Movie: The MuppetsWhat: Enjoy a free screening of “TheMuppets” as part of the Town ofMatthews Parks & Recreation SummerConcert & Movie Series. Food andtreats will be available for purchase.Pre-movie activities begin at 7:30 p.m.When: June 16; movie begins atapproximately 8:30 p.m. or dusk.Where: Stumptown Parkwww.matthewsfun.org

Ray’s Splash PlanetFather’s Day at the PlanetWhat: Splash away the day

with dad at Ray’s Splash Planet. Alldads receive free admission on theirspecial day.When: June 17 from 1 to 6:30 p.m.Where: Ray’s Splash Planetwww.charmeck.org

Musical Petting ZooWhat:Make your own music! TheMusical Petting Zoo, presented by theSymphony Guild of Charlotte, bringsreal instruments to ImaginOn forchildren to try out.When: June 22 at 11 a.m.Where: ImaginOn: The Joe & JoanMartin Centerwww.imaginon.org

Water, Water, Everywhere!What: Enjoy water play outdoors at theNature Center.When: June 25 from 10:30 to 11:15a.m.Where:McDowell Nature Centerwww.parkandrec.com

4th of July CelebrationWhat: The whole family is invitedto Huntersville’s annual free 4th ofJuly celebration that features bike

decorating, a clown bounce, facepainting, children’s arts and crafts, foodand a water fight between the firestations.When: July 4 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m.Where: Birkdale Villagewww.huntersville.org

4th of July Celebration inCorneliusWhat: Cap off the holiday withchildren’s activities and music before amovie showing on the giant screen.When: July 4 at 6:30 p.m. (Moviebegins at 8:30 p.m.)Where: Cornelius Town Hall Lawnwww.corneliuspr.org

Fun Family 4th of JulyWhat: Come decorate your bikes,scooters and wagons, and then join inthe People’s Parade, a non-motorizedparade from Matthews Station Street(in front of Town Hall) to StumptownPark. Bike decorating at 5:30 PM,People's Parade at 6 PM, concert at 7PM.When: July 4; bike decorating begins at5:30 p.m.Where: Historic Downtown Matthewswww.matthewsfun.org

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Fantastical FirefliesWhat: Discover nature’s light show with a peek into the lifeof our local fireflies. The program begins in the classroomwith a short introduction to the natural history of thisunique creature and then continues outside. Be prepared towalk one to two miles as you search for the fireflies’ flashesof life.When: July 5 from 7:30 to 8:30 p.m.Where: Reedy Creek Nature Centerwww.parkandrec.com

Pan for GoldWhat: Learn about Charlotte’s gold-mining history with atour of the circa 1800 Latta home and pan for gold at theminer’s cabin. Free with regular site admission.When: July 7 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.www.lattaplantation.org

Shark WeekWhat: It will be love at first bite! Fall in love with all thingsshark during this weeklong event made just for kids. Sit inon shark-themed dive shows, participate in interactiveactivities such as ‘Sharkeology,’ ‘Shark Stations,’ and ‘SharkShapes,’ then play in the shark cage, take your picture in themouth of a shark and marvel at the sharks in the GreatOcean Tank. Shark Week activities are free with generaladmission or membership.When: July 27 from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.Where: South Carolina Aquariumwww.scaquarium.org

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s anyone familiar with thepastime knows, boating offers oneof the best ways for parents to

escape the distractions of everyday life andbond with their kids in nature. However,before heading out, it's important forparents — especially those new to boating— to follow a few basic safety steps thatwill help make the experience moreenjoyable for the whole family.

Life Jackets Save Lives.Be sure all kids wear a life jacket when

the boat is moving. In most states, this isnot just sound advice; it's the law. The

U.S. Coast Guardrequires that all childrenunder 13 years of agemust wear a CoastGuard-approved lifejacket while the vesselis being operatedunless the child isbelow deck or in anenclosed cabinonboard.Children’s lifejackets come indifferent sizes

appropriate to the child'sbody weight. Make sure you have one thatfits each child onboard and let the childrentry out their life jackets in the water sothat they know how they work to keepthem afloat. Infant life jackets have a strapthat runs between the legs and extraflotation behind the head to ensure thebaby floats face up at all times.

Safety Starts Ashore.Get the kids in the habit of putting onsunblock and a hat even before you get tothe boat. If you have small children, putthem in their life jackets in the parkinglot. That way, they’re protected if theyaccidentally tumble off the dock into thewater.

Clear the Decks.When you climb aboard, have everyonestow their gear and any water toys awayneatly, but keep the life jackets on. Be surethere are no loose lines, mops, buckets, etc.on deck that someone might trip over.

The Captain’s in Charge.The adult who is driving the boat shouldgive the kids a safety lesson before leavingthe dock. Make it a point to tell them thatthere can only be one captain, and it’simportant to follow his or her ordersquickly and quietly. Set a few basic rules,including:• No running on deck.• No sitting on the side rails, foredeck,dashboard, or swim platform after the boatis under way.• Advise children to leave “one hand forthemselves and one for the boat” by usinggrabrails to steady themselves if the boatrocks. Instruct children not to walkaround while the boat is in motion.

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No matter how much you plan ahead, the addition of a new family membermay be difficult for your pet.

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sibling rivalry when you introduce a new human baby into your household.


ou can minimize this feeling byworking with her before youbring home your baby. Forexample, because your new babywill demand a lot of your time

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frequently scolding, ignoring, or isolatingyour pet after the baby comes home willlikely make your pet feel stressed. If yourpet is particularly attached to the mother-to-be, another family member shoulddevelop a closer relationship with theanimal. That way, the pet can still feelloved and provided for while mom isbusy with the baby.Below are several suggestions to make

introducing your pet and baby safer andsmoother for all. Be sure to carry outthese changes months before the baby’sarrival to best prepare your pet.Take your pet to the veterinarian for aroutine health exam and necessaryvaccinations.

Spay or neuter your pet. Not only dosterilized pets typically have fewer healthproblems associated with theirreproductive systems, but they are alsocalmer and less likely to bite.

Consult with a veterinarian andpediatrician if the thought of yournewborn interacting with the family petmakes you uncomfortable. By workingwith these experts before your baby isborn, you can resolve problems early andput your mind at ease.

Address any pet training andbehavior problems. If your pet exhibitsfear and anxiety, now is the time to gethelp from an animal behavior specialist.If your pet’s behavior includes gentlenibbling, pouncing, or swatting at youand others, redirect that behavior toappropriate objects.

Train your pet to remain calmly onthe floor beside you until you invitehim on your lap, which will soon cradlea newborn.

Consider enrolling in a training classwith your dog, and practice trainingtechniques. Training allows you to safelyand humanely control your dog’sbehavior and enhances the bond betweenyou and your pet.Encourage friends with infants to visityour home to accustom your pet tobabies. Supervise all pet and infantinteractions.

Accustom your pet to baby-relatednoises months before the baby isexpected. For example, play recordings ofa baby crying, turn on the mechanicalinfant swing, and use the rocking chair.Make these positive experiences for yourpet by offering a treat or playtime.

To discourage your pet from jumpingon the baby’s crib and changing table,apply double-stick tape to the furniture.

If the baby’s room will be off-limitsto your pet, install a sturdy barrier suchas a removable gate (available at pet orbaby supply stores) or, for jumpers, evena screen door. Because these barriersstill allow your pet to see and hearwhat's happening in the room, he’llfeel less isolated from the family andmore comfortable with the new babynoises.

Use a baby doll to help your pet getused to the real thing. Carry around aswaddled baby doll, take the doll in thestroller when you walk your dog, and usethe doll to get your pet used to routinebaby activities, such as bathing anddiaper changing.

Talk to your pet about the baby, usingthe baby’s name if you've selected one.

Sprinkle baby powder or baby oil onyour skin so your pet becomes familiarwith the new smells.

Finally, plan ahead to make sureyour pet gets proper care while you’reat the birthing center.

And after the baby is born . . .Welcoming a new baby is exciting foryour family. Remember when you firstbrought home your dog or cat? Butbefore you bring your baby home fromthe hospital, have your partner or friendtake home something with the baby'sscent (such as a blanket) for your pet toinvestigate.When you return from the hospital, yourpet may be eager to greet you and receiveyour attention. Have someone else takethe baby into another room while yougive your pet a warm, but calm, welcome.Keep some treats handy so you candistract your pet.

After the initial greeting, you can bringyour pet with you to sit next to the baby;reward your pet with treats forappropriate behavior. Remember, youwant your pet to view associating withthe baby as a positive experience. Toprevent anxiety or injury, never forceyour pet to get near the baby, and alwayssupervise any interaction.Life will no doubt be hectic caring foryour new baby, but try to maintainregular routines as much as possible tohelp your pet adjust. And be sure tospend one-on-one quality time with yourpet each day — it may help relax you,too. With proper training, supervision,and adjustments, you, your new baby,and your pet should be able to livetogether safely and happily as one (nowlarger) family.

Editor’s note: While the HSUS.org is aresource for this article; it is an entirelyseparate group from the Humane Society ofCharlotte. For more information aboutadopting a pet through the Humane Society ofCharlotte, or for more behavior, training, orveterinary tips, visitwww.humanesocietyofcharlotte.org

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our precious petsFor area families, caninesprovide much more thancompanionship

or as long as I can remember, pets have been a part of mylife. There are photographs of me as a toddler snugglingwith an array of loving animals, from small playfulkittens to dogs ranging from the pint-sized to gentle

giants, and even a few rabbits here and there. Each time I lost pet, Imourned the loss of not only a beloved friend, but also a familymember.Two years ago, our family said goodbye to Odie, our 16-year-old

male Chihuahua, and I swore there would be no more pets for me for awhile. I didn’t want to imagine the process of getting so attached to apet that I cried for days after such a loss. But as I watched my twosmall children wander around the house trying to figure out wheretheir beloved friend had gone, I knew our home had a void thatneeded to be filled, and the change could only benefit all of uspositively.

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While onassignment at alocal rescue shelter,I met Sonic, a smalladult furryChihuahua mixwhose brown eyesreminded me somuch of the dog Ihad lost twomonths before.Before I knew whatI was doing, I wascalling my husbandand telling him heneeded to bring thekids to meet a dogwho needed a goodhome. Today, Sonichas adjusted to lifein our home quitewell. While nervous about thekids at first, he nowbegrudgingly allows them togreet him in the morning withhugs and carry him aroundthe house occasionally. Hedoesn’t let me start mymorning or end the daywithout a walk around theblock, and he always knowshow to comfort us when we’renot feeling well (he’s anexcellent nurse).

Goodbye to anold friend . . .and a newbeginning

Charlotte residentKatie Miller adopted herfirst rescue dog, Sadie, aLab/border collie mix tobe a companion for herbeagle Parker 13 yearsago. She wanted a dog tokeep Parker companyduring the times she andher husband were atwork. The two dogsendured a move fromTexas to North Carolina,as well as the birth oftheir son, Ben. When 14-year-old Parker passed away last May, the entire family wasdevastated.Miller said she knew immediately that a new pet would

help cushion the blow of losing such a longtime family pet.Their family visited Dogs All Day in Charlotte, a dogdaycare that also partners with the Humane Society of

Charlotte to fosterpuppies and olderdogs that need abreak from theshelterenvironment.There, they mettheir future puppy,Layla.“I sat down andthese hugepuppies were justlicking us,” saysMiller. “Laylawould come upand love on us andthen get hot andgo lay down.”The Millers

returned to visitthe puppy the next

day and knew she was theone for them. While theHumane Society of Charlottehad named the puppy — aGerman shepherd/boxer mix— Berlin, the Millersthought she looked more likea Layla and changed hername once they adopted her.“It took her about a month towin over our cranky Sadie,who was still wanderingaround the house looking forher sister Parker,” says

Miller. “We don’t knowhow we ever got alongwithout Layla and trulybelieve she was a giftsent to help us get overlosing Parker. When Isee the bumper stickersthat say ‘Who rescuedwho?’ I completelyget it.”Miller’s son, 7-year-oldBen, has especiallyenjoyed the newestaddition to the family.“This time she could

be more like his dog,”says Miller. “He couldhave more of a say inwhich dog we picked.He helped in her

training. They are good friends now.”Miller says her most recent experience with Layla has onlyfurther solidified her belief in adopting animals.“Within 50 miles of my zip code, there were more than

5,000 dogs available,” she says. “That blew my mind. It tooka really special dog to create a whole new space in ourhearts.”

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A guardian angelto keep him safe

In Concord, Jaclyn and Daniel Smithalso believe a special dog is going tochange their lives as well, but for a verydifferent reason. Their 4-year-old sonJackson has Type 1 diabetes, and soon,he will be blessed with a diabetic alertdog specially trained to detect changes inblood sugar levels before they becomedangerous.Jackson, who also has an older sisternamed Maddy, received received hisdiagnosis when he was 2 1/2 years old.His mother, Jaclyn Smith, is a pediatricnurse who recognized the symptoms ofType 1 diabetes early and asked for hisurine to be tested.

In Type 1, the pancreas does notproduce insulin, a hormone needed toconvert sugar (glucose) and starches andother food into energy. People with Type1 diabetes must inject insulin severaltimes a day. This type of diabetes canoccur in any age group, but it is usuallydiagnosed in children. Jackson currentlyuses an insulin pump to administerdoses of insulin throughout the day.Last December, Smith’s good friend

Crystal Jones happened to stand in lineat a store behind someone with a servicedog. She texted Smith and asked her ifthere were service dogs available fordiabetics.“She said ‘if you want one, let me

worry about the money,’” says Smith.

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“She has spearheaded the whole thing.”The two women did research and discovered WarrenRetrievers and its charitable extension, Guardian AngelService Dogs, run by diabetic Dan Warren and located inVirginia. According to their website, Guardian AngelService Dogs, Inc. helps “provide education and raiseawareness about the role of service dogs and the differenttypes of assistance they provide to persons with invisiblehealth issues such as Type 1 diabetes, seizure disorders,hypoglycemic unawareness, post traumatic stress disorder,traumatic brain injury and some spectrum disorders such asAsperger’s and Autism.”The two organizations have received an endorsement

from the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation.The cost of purchasing a diabetic service dog is high,

ranging from $19,000 to $25,000, but the organizationassists families in marketing and fundraising ideas to helpraise the money. At press time, the Smith family had alreadyreceived $13,000 in donations, and has up to two years topay the cost of the dog. Smith says she and Jones hope to

help other families raise money for their own service dogsafter they’ve met their initial fundraising goal.The Labrador retrievers go through initial scent testing in

Virginia, and then are tested for temperament. A trainerfrom Warren Retrievers will deliver Jackson’s dog when thepuppy is around 12 weeks old, and stay with the family forfour days. The trainer will then come back every 90 days toensure that the dog is completely comfortable with assistingin public service for about 18 months after the initialadoption. The dog will be able to go just about anywherewith Jackson to help monitor his blood sugar levels,including school, and sleep with him at night. Once trained,a diabetic service dog can detect dangerous spikes in achild’s blood sugar levels 20 to 40 minutes before aglucometer and will signal caregivers with a special bark.“What’s so hard about Type 1 is that you can do

everything right and still feel out of control,” says Smith.“Our biggest concern is that he won’t wake up in themorning. You cannot get complacent with this disease . . .our hope with this dog is that we can sleep through thenight eventually. It has been nineteen months since we hada full night’s sleep.”Smith says she has been overwhelmed with the amount ofgenerosity from both her friends and those who have sentin donations. Jeff Gordon signed a crew shirt and donated itfor a raffle. Her community had a yard sale that netted$1,600. A Busch Series driver donated $5,000.In the

meantime,Jackson is beyondexcited to meet thenew companion(be it a girl or boy)that he’s alreadynamed “CharlieJones Smith,” andhis pet will surelygive a new meaningto the term “man’sbest friend.”

For moreinformation, visit

guardianangelservicedogs.org.


Highland Creek second-grader wins triathlongroup essay contestAmelia Boys (who also happensto be the daughter of Little Onesco-publisher and creative directorKerrie Boys) won the essay contestsponsored by the Huntersville-Concord Triathlon Club this pastspring and, as a result, is nowhooked on kids’ triathlons.As a group, theclub decided tomotivate childrenaway from indoorvideo games andhelp get themmoving outdoors.They held anessay contestwith the goalof finding alocal youth tosponsor intriathlons.Amelia was thefirst winner thatthe group has chosen.In her essay, the 7-year-old wrote of herwish to own a brand-new bike of her veryown, as all her previous bikes hadbeen hand-me-downs from herolder sister.As part of her prize package,Amelia won a new bike, racinggear, an underwater, videotapedswim-training session, a six-monthmembership to Huntersville FamilyFitness & Aquatics and paid entryinto all four of the triathlons in theBirkdale Animal Hospital KidsTriathlon Series.

t’s no secret that Charlotte is great place to participate in physicalactivities with your family, but in recent years, even entire neighborhoodsand communities have found even more fun ways to engage in healthycompetition and raise money for a number of charitable causes.Highland Creek is just one of those communities. Located between

Highways I-77 and I-85 in northern Mecklenburg and western Cabarruscounties, the neighborhood is abundant with swimming pools, runningtrails, tennis courts and its very own 18-hole Championship golf course.

Three years ago the Highland Creek Community Association worked together toput on their first 5K with 400 runners, and this year the organizers are gearingup for the neighborhood’s first kids’ triathlon, Tri the Creek.Bridge Sprinkle joined the Highland Creek Fitness Center as the sports aquatic

director four years ago, and says that part of her job is help raisecommunity fitness involvement.Putting on a kids’ triathlon has alwaysbeen part of her long-term vision forHighland Creek.“Our goal is to make this anannual event and we eventually

hope to put on an adulttriathlon,” says Sprinkle.

She says her biggestchallenge in organizingsuch a large community-wide sporting event isgetting the word out to

the approximately15,000 residents who call Highland Creek home.

Tri the Creek will take place on Sept.16 at theChristenbury Pool in Highland Creek with a maximum of 200

participants ages 6 to 10 years. The event will function as a traditional swim-bike-run triathlon format, with participants divided into waves according totheir age and progress. Tri the Creek is not just limited to residents in thecommunity but is open to any children in the age range who wish to compete.A portion of the proceeds will go to Bright Blessings, a volunteer-led 501(c) 3

non-profit organization bringing joy and support to homeless children. Raceparticipants are asked to bring one unused toy to theevent as donation.Sprinkle says she hopes the upcoming event will

inspire families to get out together this summer andcombine training for Tri the Creek with regularswimming, biking and running opportunities.The Highland Creek Community Association also

hosts the annual Run the Creek 5K each March.

For more information on Tri the Creek,visit www.setupevents.com, click “other”.

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Christian and his super son Chris

Mark & Cooper Panzik

Savannah and Mark Outten

Ginny, Mickey (Daddy) & Savannah

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Charlotte dads love their kids!These are just a few photos we received on ourFacebook page in celebration of Father's Day.


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Animal Adventures

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Visit the PatchIf you have fond memories of adopting

your own Cabbage Patch Kids®, or havea special child in your life who stands inawe of the of the baby dolls born in themysterious secret “cabbage patch,” a tripto Babyland General Hospital inCleveland is a must for your itinerary.Situated on 650 rolling acres in theNorth Georgia mountains, BabylandGeneral is a picturesque southern-stylehome where your child can witness thebirth of a hand-sculpted Cabbage PatchKid® Best of all, admission to thehospital is free. From July 9-20, childrencan sign up for a $15 craft class anddesign their own souvenir T-shirts.Parents are invited to assist childrenwith their craft or take a break on one ofthe rocking chairs located on BabylandGeneral’s front porch.www.cabbagepatchkids.com

Fairy Playhousesand Hobbit HomesEnchantment awaits at Sleepy Hollow,

a whimsical fairy garden located inBlairsville, about 90 miles north ofAtlanta. Sleepy Hollow is a family-runbusiness started by artisan Art Millican,Jr., a former Disney artist and modelmaker who has designed and createdmany displays found in America’sleading theme parks. Admission to the

Woodland Fairy Village is free, andvisitors are invited to walk through avariety of displays large enough forchildren to enter. Millican’s studio andgift shop are also open to the publicMondays through Saturdays except formajor holidays. Millican’s fairy housesare all handmade and crafted in hiswoodworking studio, and visitors canwatch him designing and buildingexciting and mysterious toys, houses andmagical fairy doors. The gift shop sells anumber of art supplies and Automata,Millican’s own line of mechanical toyswith simple gears and mechanisms.www.whimsicalfairygarden.com

Terrific TubingThe North Georgia mountains offer

many opportunities for outdoorenthusiasts, including tubing down theChattahoochee River in the town ofHelen. Helen provides a uniqueexperience in and of itself, as it is a re-creation of a Bavarian Alpine villagewith cobblestone streets. The Cool RiverTubing Company makes plotting outyour adventure a breeze, whether you’reinterested in one or two-hour excursions.Tubing season runs from Memorial Daythrough Labor Day. Tubes are availableto rent for as little as $5, and The CoolRiver Tubing Company has food and icecream concessions, as well as a picnic

area. The water in the river is mostlyshallow, with only a few areas going overa tuber’s head. There are also dual waterslides located at the company for thoseseeking a different type of thrill.www.helencvb.com andwww.coolrivertubing.com

Animal AdventuresVisit with A to Z animals at The North

Georgia Zoo and Petting Farm. TheWildlife Wonders Zoo boasts more than80 species of exotic animals on 30 acresof countryside in Cleveland, including awaterfall and creek. At the ParadiseValley Farm Petting Zoo, which is also aworking farm, visit with such uniqueanimals such as mini-potbelly pigs, thesilky chicken and a rare miniature zebucow. Paradise Valley Farm works closelywith the American LivestockConservatory to ensure a future formany breeds of the livestock that arecurrently dwindling. Take a trailer rideto see the camels, water buffalo andyaks. The North Georgia Zoo is openFridays, Saturday and Sundaysthroughout the summer.www.northgeorgiazoo.com

For more information on other activities oraccommodation choices, visit:www.exploregeorgia.org

By Renee Roberson

Photo courtesy of Babyland General Hospital

& WaterfallsWhimsical Adventureshen most people think of Georgia as a traveldestination, the bustling city of Atlanta — withpopular attractions like the Georgia Aquarium, Worldof Coca-Cola and the Atlanta Braves — usually comes

to mind first. But located approximately four hours from Charlotte, theNorth Georgia Mountains promise a tranquil trip filled with beautifulviews, peaceful rivers, mystical excursions and the chance to witnessthe “birth” of some very famous collectible dolls. Former Charlotteresident Deana Brooks, who now lives in Northeast Georgia, gave ussome tips on her favorite family-friendly places to visit in the area.

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t was suggested to me that this article should be about Father’s Daygifts. The problem is that I, like most guys, am not verycomplicated, or sentimental. While writing this article I havestruggled to remember what I have received for my six Father’sDays to date. Of course, I also struggle to remember what movie Iwatched last night. All that being said, I am going to give some basicDad’s Day pointers.Never, ever stress about what to get us for Father’s Day. We will

never fully understand what you went through to find the perfect gift, sotherefore; we will never fully appreciate what you went through. Don’tadd the misery of searching for the perfect Father’s Day gift to youralready stress-filled life. He’ll probably rack his brain to remember what itwas a year from now. Even if you got your husband a ride on a spaceshuttle, he’d be flying around in space and an astronaut on board wouldask him how he got his ticket, he’d probably respond, “I don’t reallyremember.”We do want food, although, breakfast in bed is overrated. I find it very

awkward to eat pancakes or waffles in bed. Balancing the tray while thekids bounce on the bed around you is like trying to drink a beer whilerunning. Sure, you appreciate the beer, but it would be more enjoyable ifyou could drink it while sitting at an actual bar. However; you could bringus coffee and the paper, which leads me to the next item.We do want thirty minutes of morning quiet to read the sports page,

watch ESPN, and drink coffee.We do want a 10-minute Sunday morning toilet sit uninterrupted.We do want sleep. Sleeping late into the morning works, as does a late

afternoon nap.

all we really want for Father’s Day

By Matt Harris

i“We do want sleep.Sleeping late intothe morning works,as does a lateafternoon nap.”


We do, at some point in the day, wantalcohol.We do not want a wine-free day, but we

do want a WHINE-free day.We do not want little things that will

clutter our desk. No mini-pool tables, orlittle guys made out of recycled somethingor other bent into the shape of a golfer.Please, and I can’t stress this enough,

nothing with the words “world’s best,”“most awesome,” or “greatest,” followedby the word “Dad,” printed on a coffeemug, BBQ apron, t-shirt, beer mug, orunderwear.While you’re at it, don’t put our actual

first name on anything either. We knowwho we are, and our friends know ourname. Anyone who doesn’t know ourname, we probably want to keep it thatway.We do want to spend some time with

the family. My 6-year- old, Addison, lovesthe day more than I do. Do somethingthat makes the celebration special for thekids. Seeing them happy makes us happy.We do not want you to waste more than

58 cents or 58 seconds on a card. If thekids want to make a card, that’s great.The reality is that we’ll read Hallmark’swords out loud and either chuckle, andsay, “That’s funny!” or say “That’s sosweet!” Either way, we are really justplaying along. The card probably wasn’tthat humorous, and it probably didn’treally make us mushy. If you must get us acard, don’t spend too much time picking itout, because we won’t spend that muchtime remembering what was written in it.Do have the kids make something for

us. We love to see their smiling faceswhen they give us something they made.Just don’t expect us to keep it forever.That doesn’t mean we don’t appreciateand love it. It just means kids make tonsof stuff in eighteen years. We could fill upa couple of storage units with that crap,uh . . . I mean those sentimental beautifulobjects.Dads are simple folks. We like beer,

sports, and TV. Most importantly, wewant to know, despite our simple ways —and despite fact that we can be a bitannoying to live with — that we are lovedand adored.Happy Father’s Day!

Matt Harris is the co-host of the Matt andRamona Show, aired Monday-Friday from3-7 p.m. You can e-mail Matt your [email protected].

lightbulbskerrie can makea tiny terrarium from ...

You will need:burned out clear bulbneedle nose pliersscrewdrivertiny leafed plantheavy wiregloves

Time to get crafty again! This one is easy butMESSY. Unlike me, you should wear gloves.

Take a burned out bulb with your needlenose pliers, grasp the silver “connection” atthe base of the bulb. Squeeze it tight, twist itand pull it our of the bulb. It will take someforce, but it will pull out.

Now you have a tiny hole - use a screwdriverand/or a wine opener to “clean”out the fila-ment parts left behind by just scraping it outfrom inside the “silver screw” part. It will takesome elbow grease to get it clear.

Next, cut a 12-inch piece of heavy wire andwrap it into the grooves of the base of thebulb. Curl the top to make a “hook”and curlthe bottom to make it pretty.

Your bulb is ready for you plant. Break apartthe plant so you have just enough that willslip down into the bulb. First drop a little dirtin- and follow with a piece of your plant.“Help” it into the bulb opening with yourscrewdriver.

Put a few drops of water in and voila!A tiny terrarium.

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