Be Attractive L509-D

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Are any people attractive to you?

• movie stars?• athletes?• fashion models?• parents?• teachers?• anyone else?• Why does he/she attract you?

Director tips: share to each other about your own ideas and discuss why the person attracts you in details.

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Are you an attractive person?

• What makes an attractive person?• What do you do to catch other people's attention?• What is your most attractive feature?• Do manners matter?• Should you care about other people?• Describe your personality a little bit.

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Sharing Time: What does attractiveness mean to you?

• well educated?• well mannered?• well dressed?• talented?• anything else?

Director tips: share your talents with each other .

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What makes a person attractive?

• Should they be confident?• Should they be wealthy ?• Should they be kind?• What is the most important quality for an attractive person to possess?

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Examination: Are your traits attractive?

Answer the following questions and check with the answers, then you may find out how much you may work on it to be more attractive.

Question1: Do you care about other people's judgment?

• Has anyone judged you as a bad person?

• Do you mind other people's judgments?

• How do you react to people's judgments?

Director tips: share your experience of being judged by others and your reaction to each other.

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• Does the expense makes you more attractive?• Why do you think people spend money on plastic surgery? • How does plastic surgery help people to be more attractive?

Question2: Do you spend lots of money on your appearance?

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Question3: Have you been yourself?

• Do you pretend to be someone else sometimes? Why?• Why can't you be yourself?• Do you want to be yourself?• Are you driven by what people expect of you?

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Question4: Are you a neat person?

• Do expensive clothes make you look neat?• How do you keep yourself neat?• How do you avoid being nasty?

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Five parts for being attractive

Part1.Be confident

Part3.Be true to yourself

Part 5. Well mannered

Part2.Avoid materialism

Part 4.Be well groomed

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Part1 of 5: Be confident

Be confident---

Don't let the judgment of others determine your self-worth

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Because you should know....

Don't judge a book by it's cover.

Look for deeper considerations.

Get to know the person inside.

Director tips: talk about a confident person you know who's attractive to you

Part 2 of 5: Avoid materialism

• It's not necessary to be materialistic• Avoid the hype • Realize you're great the way you are!

Director tips: Disscuss about why materialism is not necessary way of helping us to be attractive.

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Part 3 of 5: Be real.

• Generally , it's easy to be real.

• Be yourself, but learn to adapt.

Director tips: Discuss about what kind occasions when you feel hard to be real.

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Part 4 of 5: Proper Grooming Habits

• Most people look good when well groomed• Most people can learn to be neat, clean and tidy.• Wear neat clothing --- it doesn't have to be expensive; basic

clothing that fits you well and looks good.

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Part5 of 5: Well Mannered

• Be honest, polite, and well mannered. • Proper manners will aid in building relationships with other.• Mutual Respect

Director tips: Discuss someone you know who is a good example of this.

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The Golden Rule

Always treat others the way you want to be treated.

If its not good for you, it wont be for them.

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Well done!