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Nhng tri nghimcuc sng

Stephen R. Covey tuyn chn v gii thiu


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Cng Ty Samsung Trn trng gi n bn cun sch ny.

Phin bn ebook ny c thc hin theo bn quyn xut bn v pht hnh n bn

ting Vit ca cng ty First News - Tr Vit vi s ti tr c quyn ca cng ty TNHH

Samsung Electronics Vit Nam. Tc phm ny khng c chuyn dng sang bt k

hnh thc no hay s dng cho bt k mc ch thng mi no.


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Original title:

EVERYDAY GREATNESS: INSPIRATION FOR AMEANINGFUL LIFE

by Stephen R. Covey, David L. Hatch

Copyright 2006 by FranklinCovey Co.,and The Readers Digest Association, Inc.

Vietnamese Edition Copyright 2010 by First News - Tri Viet.All rights reserved. This licensed work published under license.

EVERYDAY GREATNESS

HT GING TM HN: NHNG TRI NGHIMCUC SNG

Cng ty First News Tr Vit gi bn quyn xut bn v phthnh n bn ting Vit trn ton th gii theo hp ng chuyngiao bn quyn vi Thomas Nelson, Inc.

Bt c s sao chp no khng c s ng ca First News vThomas Nelson u l bt hp php v vi phm Lut Xut bnVit Nam, Lut Bn quyn Quc t v Cng c Bo h Bnquyn S hu Tr tu Berne.

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Bin dch:

Thu Trang - Minh Ti

First News

NH XUT BN TNG HP TP. H CH MINH

Nhng Tri Nghim Cuc Sng

Nhiu tc gi

Stephen R. Coveytuyn chn v gii thiu


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Thn tng tt c nhng ngi ang trn tr, ang

vt qua nhng kh khn, th thch tinh thn v lungi vng nim tin tm c hnh phc cuc sng,

t c c m ca mnh.

- First News

Cc sg tc b dch cg tc ca b c v cc

ch Sg p (t h cao thg, gg vt

kh, hg c xc su sc v cuc sg, th b,

th yu...) cho cc tp Ht Gg T H tptho x g v:

HT GinG Tm Hn - firST newS

11H nguy Th mh Kha, Q.1, TP. HCm

Tl: 38227979 - 38227980

fax: (08) 38224560eal: [email protected]

wb: www.firstnews.com.vn


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Li gii thiu

Ti l mt ngi may mn!Sng trong mt th gii y bin ng, vinhng cuc khng hong, cht chc v th than,ti thy mnh tht may mn khi hng ngy cgp g vi rt nhiu c nhn trn khp th gii. Hl nhng ngi dng cuc sng ca mnh chng minh rng th gii quanh ta vn tht ngqu, ng yu.

Gia lc chng ta phi nghe qu nhiu nhngv b bi ca cc doanh nghip v tnh trng suyi o c trong kinh doanh, ti thy mnh tht

may mn khi quen bit nhiu nh lnh o cpquc gia, ch tch cc tp on v cc t vn vino c, lim chnh.

Sng trong th k khi m ti c, chin tranh,thin tai v dch bnh lun rnh rp, e da, ti cmthy mnh tht may mn khi c lm vic cng ccnh hnh php, cc chuyn gia trong lnh vc quns, cc nh lnh o, cc gio s bc s sn lngcng hin cho mi ngi.

Sng trong thi i khi m tnh ph t v mi


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rng buc gia nh ang b e da nghim trng,

ti cm thy mnh tht may mn khi bit nhngngi cha tn ty, nhng ngi m bao dung angtng ngy tng m n lc ht sc mnh cho sln khn c v th cht ln tm hn ca con ci.

V trong mt k nguyn ni trng hc v gii

tr tn ti y nhng t nn x hi, ti cm thymnh tht may mn khi c gn gi nhng giovin nhit tm, nhng thanh nin ti nng, tt cu giu c c v tri thc v tm lng, hng ngyh vn ang mit mi to nn s thay i - theomt cch ring.

Qu thc, ti cm thy mnh may mn khi cc hi gp g nhng con ngi nh th trn mino i. Chnh h mang n cho ti nim tinrng bt c ni u trn tri t ny vn lunhin din nhng con ngi giu lng nhn hu,khng ngng dn thn, cng hin cho i. Hchnh l ngun cm hng bt tn ca ti. V tiang mun truyn ngun cm hng n bnqua tp sch ny.

M rt c th, bn cng l mt ngi trong sh.

- STEPHEN R. COVEY


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Nhng tri nghim cuc sng

Bi hctrong giy lt

Khng c g ng qu hnmt i tai lng nghe ng cm.

- Frank Tyger

L t bc s phu thut chh hh, tkhg thuc u g bt g gtgo, bay b. T c th h g thbg tay hg a bg l, v tchg d cht o.

C l t ph cg l do th cht ghghp ca t. Tog b l vc t bhv mayo rochst, msota, hg th

ch t t t t l co dao , phg, hg ca cp cu, h h gc lh. Chg t phc h l u g, l cco xg gp g bh lh l t l.


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V t - Patt, hu g t la ch gh y

l v u gp g khc. Tuy h, togqu th l vc, chh hg bh h lag cho t hu b hc bt g.

T v c h t ca cp cu tog phtc vo o to th ba ca t. mt

thg b tu b gy c tay do g tgg g xug. T l b: Sao khngphi l mt tai nn khc!. Dg h ay rochst to hg tg hp t bgy tay th ph. T phg tc, t ch chp

l bc xug phg cp cu, c t bggh t bh h l thg t bhh ag ch.

Thg b tog lg cha v tkhc. n c b g hh Vt Doald,tog lg kh kh t co th bg s ch tg gg h ch ch Gooy. C tayb t ca b b got v sau thh tgc b l . T t g thu h vcha thg b quay sag h v chuy

xy a, hg thg b khg t l v thch cg chg th h t. n ch c suh vo ch tay cha.


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T l g khg y k h. T bt

vc sp t h ph l l g v s t baohu th ga. C t hu vc khc agch t. V th, t chg bu t vc chuy tp v thg b gay lptc a chp X quag.

n pht sau, chuy v chp X quag c t. C y g xug tc t thg bv h hg h : i Danny, chu b auh chu ngoan?.

Kh thg b gc t h c y, t g g: Chu b ng khi ging.

C y a tay g h vo thg b : i, vy th tht l t. c ri, by gi cs chp tay cho chu ri v bc s tt bng ny

s gip chu lm n lnh li. Chu c mun cchp cho chu mt bc hnh ca Goofy khng?.Day l gt u.

T g gc phg, lg b kho tsao a t y l chuy v chuy v

chp X quag khg ph l t - bc schh ca . Tog kh c h v tp tcgt go v thg b, t th gh Tht llng ph thi gian!. mt lc sau, c y


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chu b y c v bt u chp. r c y

t Gooy l t chc hp g ph v chplu cho co th bg .

Tog lc ch kt qu chp X quag, ta thg b t phg g cho Bo -bc s gy v Joh Sk Koalsk - bc s b

bt, v bo ah y gp t tog phg b bt.

Kt qu chp X quag cho thy tay thg bb gy v tt khp xg gh tg. nhgthg b c v khg y qua t u. n ag ch ch h g t hh chuch t u x ht ca co Gooy c t d v t ph u . T bo cha cu b g ch gy ca ph l c. V cch t au ht l vc lph gy ho to. T cg g, thot th khg c tht ph . T c th ahg khp xg y t l h c, sau bbt cho thg b.

Chg t a Day l phg b bt vch l pht chuy v gy t.Sk v lg l v thh tho h kh, ahy d vt dg a bt u la cu thchcao chg t c. C Bo cg t


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gp thg b g thp , c y gt u a

hu cho t bt u.

T g c tay thg b xug ch , p dg phg php u t bg cchko g tay l tc du ph b gy a,tog kh Sk c ch tay thg b. Sau ,

t tg lc g ph xg ag b tt t c th lu g tay c b t cah xug b d cc khp xg, sau y ph xg b gy pha t, y tt cl cg lc. T gh thy tg ku g c

kh cc khp xg t l v t ba u.

Ca xg ca t d a tht ho ho.T qu thh tho tog hg tg hpth y. C h th t c t y ch.By g t ch c b bt cho thg b a lxog.

Sk g ch tay thg b t bt ub bt xug quah ch gy. Bg h t btgp t vt x u xah b d chc oca Sk. Ny Ski, s 28 c ngha l g vy? -T h v ch vo vt x.

l tn trung on ca ti. B binh 28.

Ti tng l y t qun y Vit Nam. - Sk


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lg l t l. Tc ay ah cha bao g

v u y.

Tog kh t tp tc p thch cao ht lpy t lp khc vo ch tay cho thg b, Sk k cho t gh v th ga ah y Vtna.

- n chg khc o a gc, bc s. T chg k t hu g b thusg, b h p d a hoc b b ta xc.ngy y qua gy khc, t thg xuy phbg b v p xg. Sau t th ga, t cth l hg vc y t chuy ghp. Tkhg u gh v t cht o a. Tch u l cho xog v v h th.

- , t hu ah u . - T th th.

- nhg t sa bc s . T qug hg bh h y khg ch c scu gp ca t c u t qua t th. Cg vc khg ch g g tog vc bgb vt thg hay hg vc chg ta ag

l y gy h ay - phc h hg khpxg.

D nhin, cng vic ca chng ti l phc

hi nhng khp xng ri. Khng phi l l


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do ngi cha ny a cu con trai ti phng

cp cu sao? khng phi l cng vic chnhca ti sao?. r t cht hu a. Kh tay tlt t b t lp thch cao ph t taythg b vut phg lp cu cg, t xc g t h: My qu l ngc. My

qun mt iu quan trng nht!.Chc h Sk t b kho g chuy

g ag xy a v chuyn gia lnh lng l tkh t v g bc cao su l lp btkh thay v chy t phg k thut ho tt

cc ph chp. T lg kh Sk xutchp X quag cho thg b th l a chc ch l ch gy c l ho ho.

Khg bt t lc o, t t b bth thh c y v c ch bt l vctho guy tc qu lg t ca gthy thuc. T s thc dg l t cxc ca h. Th ch, t chuy v chpX quag cg bt cch l cho t a bb thg hu g c qua t. Tog

kh , tt c hg vc t l ch l gc gthg b au l a thc h cgo k tp.


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Ht ging tm hn

Chg t h c ph chp sau

pht v cg k ta l vt thg t thh chu.

- V t khp t ho ho bc s - v h kh.

Cu ca Sk kh t khg kh chhlg. T sao tc ka t l khg h a sch chc tog gg ca ah y h?

- C khg c h thc thg b dy u,Bo . - T h v bc s gy .

Kh Day bt u thc gc, chg t gpthg b c thy d chu h. T ly coGooy v bc t g thch cao h quah tayca ch ch bg. T to hh t c dy h tt v u gy qug l c co ch.

- g s, Day . Chg ta xog ht. Ch tay ca chu cg kh . V hy, chg ta ag cha t cho Gooy a y!- T kh t thg b d a vch ch h quah.

Thg b g ch tay lh l l. n

ly co Gooy l t tay t.- Chu u gp . - Thg b

u u.


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- Chu , chu goa. Ch t lc

a th l ta c th cho chu v Gooy v h.- T lp l.

T ly bg gh t bh h v lt t thg b. Dal Osta, Byto,msota. Tc , t khg bt h t

y ca . T lau kh vt thch cao cdh t tay h, c l kt qu chp Xquag gp cha thg b.

- Cho g b Osta, Day .m th u tt. Ch xg gy c l g v t. Thg b c th v h vo tay. - T .

- Bc s c c ph khg?

- Khg g . T l xg

khg c .Gg t cha thg b g h a. T

kh o t khg h a hg hhphc gt go bh d h th? T kh ot t thu h kh thg bo t tc

cho th h g bh v ch u auchg quay lg bc ?

- m g b g. - T ch vo bggh g sau h.


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T g cg ga h Osta khog

l pht. H k v t g h c ha aco a, t a 10 tu c t a 12 tu.

- Vy Day l co t h ? - T h bOsta.

- Vg tha bc s. nacy gh l t tthay tg gy cg s l l ca thgb. - g Osta tc kh v kp t l.B ch c xu h.

T hc h hg u th, ch d

h ph chp X quag l a, g th cd h c g t u c u g thc c.r t bo l t s h cc y t x c th choh gp Day t lt khg. H g dy v ly tay t. B Osta : Cm n bc

s. Cm n anh nhiu lm!. lc , t thah th l cho

t bt cha thg b.

Ca tc y cho t t b hc gt. Sau kh chuy v cc y t, t t

phg b bt. , t c l c vt g.

- Michael J. Collins, M.D.


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Thng ip tvn cy thch

Nghch cnh l c hikim nghim bn thn.

Khng c nghch cnh,ngi ta kh c th bit mnh

l ngi nh th no.

- Henry Fielding

T bt g l t g thg th, vc g s sg cho u t t neglad h g th qu thc l u tkhg g t.

nhu tc, t tg tha d cc buthuyt gg ca g v g y t cg c

t s sch ca g. mc ch l ht togchuy vg th l y l t hy vg gs thg th ca g s gp t du bt su u ag gy v kh cuc sg ca


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t ch tog t t. nhg t t v t

chh cg s bt lc ca tu g ag ht thy hg hg v tuyt v tog cucsg ca t.

Vo t gy cu g, tt t toglh, t gp g tag t g Coth,

Vot. ng g y sg cha ha gahg ch g v vg g ph ytuyt tg. Sau hu t vt sch,thuyt gg v gp g v cgv t bc s tm hn, g y, edga n.

Jackso ag v dg gh lc v s hu btvo cuc sg ca chh h. Sau t ta khg khp, g b lt a g b ph vkhg th .

Cc kt qu ch o ba u ca g ut xu. ng ta bo cho estll - g v 53tu ca g g g s khg bao g ca. nhg ch tog v tu g g, bggh lc ph thg, kh g ca g c c th g k. Khg dg l ,

g quyt t ph vt qua hg h chca chh h.

Kh tg thy t, g vu v tp . g


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c chu cao tug bh hg g d

c th c h t g t u g t khcbt. g l ch chp v s t gp cachc gy c tay, tuy h t g v tth tg. g d t t phg l vc.Tog phg xp y hg sch, c c c,

tt c u xp xug quah t chc b, t c c t chc y v th, hg tp gyv tp ch.

g t vu kh bt hg cu schca g c th gp ch cho t. T cg tha

h chg cho t hg b hc qu g,gp t vt l hg kh kh tog cucsg. Tuy h, au c cha qua, hgph u l . Chg kh t vo b tc v t , khg sao thot a c.

- Xt t gc o , cu l u gt y b th vo c bg ca hg chuybu. - g . - T tg b qua chh lu cht tog v ca cu. d vhg u khg tho u, cu c th tha

khc hay tc u hg sau , c ph btchp h. Ch c h vy, cu thah thvt qua.


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g cg th g u qu c chp,

g ta s cg b v lp tog bu, v cuc sg s ch c l t chu hgthg gy ch , t t bt a. ngcl, hg g bt b t t thh hhg s t thy cho h s hy b v

t h lt.- l l do t sao g ta v khuy

g b cha s c xc v by t suygh ca h. C h th, b s dubt bu au t h c khuy kha. T

cho cu x th y.

g ch v hg hg cy thcht t go ca s. nhg t g th hh u b gy hg ch cy c c. tuyt dy bao ph t h qua xug l t.ng ch c tg hg cy thch y o quah g c g ba u.

Chg t bc tg bc ch chp ago g c, tuyt lo xo d ch. Voa h, d t y t g hp h s v gp t hoa c d; hg g y, ht thyc cy u khoc u o a vg v kh ho dos t h ca sg g. V t bg h


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a t th cy thch to l l hg s

dy thp ga c ca vo su ga th.

- Su tc, g ch tg locy y ct l hg o cho g c vcg l tt k cg sc o h ch cthg o. V hg cy o, dy thp ga b

cht chc vo lp v yu qu l aukhg g sh c. mt s cy hc cch thchgh tog kh t s cy khc l t cchchg ch. Cu thy y, dy thp ga cchp h v t thh t ph cuc sg

ca chg - hg v cy g ka th l khc.

g ch tay v pha t cy thch g bb dg t tg v dy thp ga.

- T sao cy y chg l hg o thp

ga t chuc ly au vo h, togkh c th l ch thay v l h ca dy thp y?

Tog lc chg t quay vo h, g :

- T gh t hu v v cy y. Sch o gp chg vt qua au b dythp ga xuy ch khg b th bb dg? Tg t, l th o g ta c


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th b bu au thh sc h thay v

hy ho c cuc sg ca h?

edga tha h g g khg th gthch hg chuy xy v vcy thch. g tp:

- nhg v co g, chuy c thg thch d dg h hu. C t hu cchgp g ta vt qua ghch ch v g ta bu. Tc ht, hy c gg g cho ht th lc qua. Sau , hy b hgth o h khch cht cha tog lg. Vc l u qua tg ht l ph c gg yuthg chh h. u khg g.ng ta c t hu th ga cho b th,cg b vy h thg c xu hg so xth th qu. kh, chg ta c ph btt h lg v bt tha th cho hg l lca b th.

nu chg ta bt cch k sot auca h, u chg ta gp b th g taho to hg ph u th hg dythp ga ka s khg th ch thg. Chgta c th vt qua bt c au o v lcqua t hg cuc sg y.


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estll xut h v t g bh to

v t tch c ph t tay. edga h v c v :

- T s c gg t hg ht vu cacuc , t k t thc , b b , tgh .

n , g lc h chc y th v t chg sch t t b. g agthc h u tog chh cuc sg cah. D v bu v b lt t a ghg g khg u h l g thuacuc.

- Chg ta c th v c hg u khgay h gp ph b cuc, hoc chg tac th chp h t cho h t c h

- t s h sh.g l lc h g c ph y tuyt

tg b ka co g, t gg:

- Cu c v ca cu. T c bu cat. T s tp tc cg vc ca t u cu tp

tc cg vc ca cu.- C g, t s l h th! - T ha

chg t bt tay hau. l tha thuga chg t. Bg h, t c thy h


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h va c h th t u g

tht . V g y t c h hg vt qua tt c.

Kh l x xug thug lg, t h ltqua tag t ca edga ga g c ph ytuyt tg. G ag a ghch t hg

g cy thch. V chh hg g cy b y, t t c b hc g t cho h.

- Edward Ziegler


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i th ng gmTh gii y nhng kh khn

nhng cng c bit bao con ngi ngh lc,sn sng vt qua nhng kh khn y.

- Helen Keller

Kyl mayad ag a sc c gg khg thua h v ca Sx flags(1). Toghu qua, cu pht t c t sk g t g , t bu d gh thut

t vc th h k tch v sc h h htt tht hu l. nhg h v u hhtt v khg thay k. Bg cch,ah ta khg th Kyl l g tt b vkh h Kyl, ah ta chg thy cu t cht

(1) Six Flags, Inc. l mt trong nhng cng vin gii tr ln nhtth gii nu xt trn cht lng ca cc thnh vin. Cng ty nyang duy tr 21 cng vin nh t khp Bc M, gm cng vingii tr, cng vin nc v trung tm gii tr gia nh.


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o ca t v g v g sao hay t

v g v c k g. Ah ta ch thy tv k tg ag h l tc t v togdah sch cc b , gay d t ca cgv g t, ah ta thy t ca chh h. Vth, Kyl g hy vg l c c h.

Tc t h 200 kh g t cg vlc by g, Kyl thch thc: Qu v hytm gip ti nam nhn vin vm v nht y

v nu anh ta c th ngn ti khng ln ng

trt ny th ti mi khng ln.

nu l hg g ho to xa l, c thl thch thc y tht l bch, th ch gta c ho to g th v quyt h cah v Sx flags.

D th o chg a, Kyl mayad cgch cao cha y 90 ctt. Cu ag gk chc x l. Ch tay cu b ct t khuut xug, c ch th to tp. mt gc hh dg h th l sao c th g ato tog dy bo h?

nhg, u b l Kyl mayad hoc ttog hg g b ca cu y th chg cg bu c h kh b cho g Kyl khg


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th tu tt. V b s hy vg g th

thch y s khg c thc h v thgcho chh h v ph a th u v Kylka. B t kh b bc vo th g caKyl mayad, b s h a g khuyt ttkhg g gha v bt lc.

Kh Ata mayad ag tha a co ut, bc s ch bo v v chg c gh khg thy ch a t tog hh su. Tuy h, tog l kh tha th ha, hkhg h l v h mayad g a t

v c y t ch, hg cc ch ca ug h g bh thg. r Kyl cho .

u bc s ch bo ha a l t chd hh ch d t u d hg ca a t.Thg b cg khg c b tay. Ch tay ca ch bg t a bh thg. Tuy h,Ata v h: Thng b rt xinh. Gng mtn tht p v khu khnh. Mi tc vng, i

mt xanh cn ln da mn mn nh o t.

Cp v chg t khg bt h og ch g a co y. H cha tg thya c th hh h Kyl, v th h lu c ggchp h tg cht t. V t hah


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chg, h qu t Kyl l t a t tt

guy. Scott - cha ca Kyl g: Thngb c th lm mi th nh nhng a tr bnh

thng khc. B trn. Chi chi. Khc mu.

Ci vui.

Kh khg h chh xc l th tg

ca Kyl khg ph do d tuy, v hga co tp tho chc ch khg ag hgd tt tg t, Scott v Ata tp tc shth ba a co, tt c u l co g. V vKyl chg khc o a t bh thg tog

t cha hg khc thg ca cub cg chg kh cc g s h hay xal. Cu ch a v h hg g ahta khc, c b a t t vu v ch tbt t t t hay b sg c v t co

hg x.Tc kh hc, cha tag b cho

Kyl t ch g. ag hah h h gbh thg, lc y, cc ch g gy huph to cho Kyl. ch g kh cu

khg th g l t v t c t g ts h. Ch tay g hg l latx t chv ph cho lg kh cu chg lco c tho . Vo g k chuy h


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t, Kyl cg cc b g t th, v

lc ph t l ch g, cu chg th l ggo vc g l g sau ch g l acu g l.

- m , co khg u ag hg thy a. Co u g xug v ch v cc

b. - Kyl h h v .

l l cu cg cu ph tha ph vcc ch g. Ata bo:

- Chg ta s tho b hg th y. r

thg b l c th hy xug, ho l, bgtay v g xug tog g k chuy sau quay t l ch g h cc b.

Kyl c gg l u khg c ch g. Kh cc b cg lp hc cch t

u tho hg, cu cg tp luy, ha utay cu st cht ly bt u.

lc tp vt ch, cu cg luy tpvt ch p chg k g cc b. l cckhog cch xa v khg b b, Kyl c

b tag b cho t chc x l hgcu thg b sag t b kh h hocbt c o cu c u k s dg c thc t h ba tg.


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Kyl cg hc cch t c bg ug

ga ha u ch tay (u tay y chg lu tay khc), xc g cc hay hg cu u quay gc ug l v chothc vo g. nhg vc chg c gg k, tt c u h s tp tug h

kh b thc h cc thao tc tg t. Chc u, c l Kyl thc h hg hhg y quay l tv. Hy th tg tgb s c thy th o u hg g lt t h b quay ph b ag

cg chc ug, c l b s hu c gcca Kyl mayad tog cuc sg y.

thch gh, ga h mayad shc cch dg s h hc d v hgg xa l v cc ph g ca h. rt hu

l, Scott v Ata c d cc co b quacho g v t t l ph g t dhu co g, hg u g cg ph cg h ca . Chng ti cho ngi l nhnchm chm trong vng nm pht. Sau h s

c mt cu chuyn hp dn. - Ata c.mt l, t b b, Kyl v t s b

th a ghch qu t. Chg t slg l c xt c chua l cc ch ca Kyl


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y cu xug c ku go c p. u

chg kh a c .

Kyl bt u ch bg vo 11 tu.Scott cho g l t tg tuyt vhg Ata th ph thuyt phc t cht.Sau , tt c thh v tog ga h u

g lg g h khg lu sau, bgtg tug hc c th t cu th t h b.

nh vdo quay l hg t bg caKyl, b c th b kho l sao Ata cth chu g c kh h co ta g dd tog b kh tah bg v hg ch h v hah h h vy. V bcg s khg kh c g tc s dgc cg h ch quyt t ca a t .Cu khg bao g c s hu t gytog cuc b hh dg d bt ca ch t s bg , cu ph ttv khuu ch. Tuy h, s bo v qu k v chg th thp vo u so v

hg c gt p ca b t.

L u t Kyl bt g ch h l kh h g cu l ngi truyn cm hng


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v mt cu th dng cm. u tht bt bh

thg v Kyl v ga h cu. Tc ay, cucha bao g c gg tuy c hg cho ahoc h bg t tu h; cu ch uch bg. Tuy h, cu h tt c bgth t tg v hh phc. p ta v

c t g, cu hah chg t thh qua t ca g tuy thg. Tc t h, c l cu bu d t tg bg.

Kyl bt u tp th hh, g cao sch cho tay v th h t cch g

phc. Cu quyt h g th thaoph hp cho c ch l u vt. By g lt Scott - t cu u vt tg phthg, ph a t thuyt phc. m th thaoy t khc bt so v bg . Tog bg ,

u c tht b th cg khg g c ho b ch tch, hg tog u vt, u Kylthua, gay lp tc g ta s hu g thca cu l tt h. Lu Kyl c th chug c sc p y khg?

Cu t l l c.

Ba u, Kyl thua tt c cc t u vha l do. Tc ht l vg th u thg ko


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d v d a guy gy. nhg l h vy,

Kyl ph thc dy vo lc 5 g sg chub cho t u, kt qu l cu thua v phg b go ch c th u l vobu chu u h tht b thl a. u tht d kh g ta g

lg. nhg cu cha bao g t b.Tht ay, hu luy v ca Kyl, Cl

raos, l g c cch tp c t phgkhog v sg to kh l vc v Kyl. Banu, ti khng bit mnh phi lm g vi Kyle.

C th thng b qu khc bit. Nhng sau ,chng ti bt u khai thc li th t thn hnh

ca thng b. Chng ti sng to ra cc n

kha v ghm nh cm v cnh tay.

Sau , Kyl bt u ch thg. V thh kh h v v v hg ch lcthg h, cu d t thh t thg g hg c 46 kg.

nhg th tc ka co thg hocthg h cu d thy h tht b thh. mt s bc ph huyh v hu luy vth ch c tha ph g v cc vt hg c 46 u l hg a t ch tay


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to kh chc ca Kyl lu gh c l

th khg cg bg so v chg.

u c v t l bch hg u bbt g Kyl t l gh c dah huThanh Thiu Nin Khe Mnh Nht kh bud g 23 l qu t g 108 kg c buccht vo ch tay th b s hu. Khg hgth, t gy cu c g c qu t g190 kg, d d l 227 kg. V qu l k tchkh cu gTi cn qu nng hn.

mt bu chu a h, Kyl l chc xt c tag b th cc tht bgp cu u kh pdal bg tay t phgtp u vt. tg, Kyl pht ha g h qu cha kha thag y dhcho x l d l phg u vt tg ha. - cu va tht l va hg t v phacu thag, cu hy a kh chc x l vt pha hh lag. Cu b l hg bccu thag b thu tg h c t tuy chy vt d gh th sau bu thc

hh.

Kh v h, Kyl k u cho Ata. Ct ght s b thu t a lo lg:


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- T sao co khg x bo v ta h cho

co cha kha thag y?

- Co khg u . V l, kh vcc l th v ph l . - Kyl p l.

Dg h, l cu ca g ca

Kyl. nu b gp cu y, chc h b cgs gh c cu: Ti bit ti c th lm cg v ti s lm iu .

Tc phog gh tc ca Kyl lu tuyc hg cho g b xut pht t

t co g cg c, lc qua v khg baog ch bc.

nhg gy thg cu cg tg phthg, Kyl l l a t thh t cas ch kh cu t thh g c v sg g

cho u vt d tg. Tog bg ,vc cu c ch cg hg a t lh ll t gha c cao p. nhg tog u vt,c h do chh cu to a.

Tog t t u , t g g

tug t cch tp c Scott. g tgthy Kyl t t v v u gp cu v thoh g , Kyl cu vt cuc g. Bbo ph, l c bh tho g, au


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v t c, g lu t cho h l g

bt hh ht. nhg chh hg suy ghlc qua ca Kyl ko cuc g dy, gpg vu v t hg cuc sg. Con trai caanh l mt ngi tht ngh lc v lc quan. -g v Scott.

Vo cu a g, Kyl l t tog hgv g v c t hg u khu vc gna c m. Cu gh v t th hatog to khu vc. mt thg tc vg thu cp bag, cu thg dh h ha g sau

bu tp luy vo cc bu t t luy d g ca cu v h tc t lu. Cu g c ch ca cu tl khng dng chic xe ln lm l chn chos tht bi ca mnh. T vg th y, cu b

tht b ha t au . nhg v thh tchca cu t cao cu c chp h th u g v ch cp quc ga, v y, cu ltvo dah sch 12 g d u.

Kyl thc s b tc s qua t

g dh cho h, ht l kh c x lmt vn ng vin bnh thng trng ph

thng tho cch ca cu. Tho l gthch ca Kyl ha thg sau kh tt ghp v


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t cch g pht g chh ca t d

dh cho g t tt, th l u bhthg. Cu v g g: Bt c aicng c th vt qua gii hn ca bn thn v

t c c m.

Thg 8 2004, Kyl bt u vo hc

tg hc Goga (Cu tt ghp tughc v s kh cao v c th h y c50 t t pht bg cch s dg s lah lca ha u ch tay). Do tg hc khgc th thao cu tha ga cu lc b

u vt. Cu v u tp tc cg vc phtg v, gh cu t l th thao v cth, cu s t thh t hu luy v hocl g u hh t tug t th hh.

mt l, ta a quyt h g ta t c t gp Kyl tog t gy gp hu th o l ghch ch. Cha a t ly h. n b u hc v t gy gh hau v c hu hh g sa t. Kyl l thay thg b.

- m g gh g cuc sg ca t tt t. nhg khg! Hy h vo cuc cat so v hu a t khc. T c t ga


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h tuyt v lu yu thg t. Co g

a cg c hg au g. Ch c u au ca t d thy h g.

mt kh hu c u y, b c tht thh thh v tog th g ca Kylmayad. Kyl mayad tuyt v ch cu y

c th kh b t tg g u b thhug tg t, chc ch b s l hg gcu y tg l.

B s thy g t c bt ca Kylkhg h lu v cu t thh t gbh thg cu y c bt chh v s bhthg . V t kh b b thuyt phctc hg l l ca Kyl, b s d ha t g tog chh b v hg gxug quah, khg g c th c t hoc khb ph l bc. Ch c u kh b qut hg th h ca h v c t a gp b kh l th.

- Derek Burnett


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Liu phpting ci

Nghch cnh l l dokhin mt s ngi gc ng

nhng cng l c hi s khc bt ph.

- William Arthur Ward

T v c h l u t bhv mayo Scottsdal, Azoa, sau kh cch o c c bh ug th. Chuy

kh t h l t p phch qug co Stin ha ca con ngi. Ch c u th agp vo t t l t hg d hg bhh u g ht tc, th hh gy gxg, da d xah xao bt bt sau hg t

ha t. Qu nhiu cho tin ha y. - T ta v chh h. l kh u toghh th cha t ca t.


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G th t hu gha ca cu Mt n

ci bng mi thang thuc b v c ght kh c b. Cha t l t tog s hg

g ay thot cht kh t st

g Do Th ca Htl v h l hg g

v cg h hc. Cg h h t c bt

hg gh s h v ht th . T

l l cg hg thc ph h ca Jack

Glaso, e Kovacs, Sd Casa, Joatha

wts, h Ba Ah H v Ah max.

Kh c l t a t, t h a g u

t c th kh g c, chc ch

g s yu qu t h. V khg bt t lc

o, t gh c gc a l tg c sg

kho cho g khc. T khg h bt g,

sau y, chh c ag l sc hcu vt cuc t.

Thg 3 1999, t tha ga bu d

t L hoa H kch m Asp, Coloado -

h t ca t hu dah h hg u v

hg v g c lg x h Hollyood.Xt t kha ch o th t t ay

. Tog l hoa y, t l h vt chhca cc cuc chuy t. mt v gy sau, t


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h c l gh l vc cho HBO(2). Tp

l hp g cho a h th ba ca t. Khglu sau, t s l t d tog ccchg th h, v fox c la ch bu bud Schimmel ca t cho lot chg thvo a thu 2000.

Vo gy 2 thg 6 2000, t t LasVgas chu b cho l xut h u t mot Calo rsot & Caso. T s bay, tg h chog gp tc hg lot bg hucho c hh t t . B go khch

s c c t t bg khc gh RobertSchimmel: Ngy 2 v 3 thng 6. T qu lt g sao ag t b phg.

Ha gy sau, t c thy h kt sc vh st, th l t kh bc s. T tg hch b c thg thg, hg bc s phth a t c bu h d ch tay t cat, g y h t c c bu bao lu hgt khg bt. T khg . r g yu cu tchp ct lp to v l sh tht.

(2) HBO (Home Box Ofce): Knh truyn hnh ni ting ca M,chiu phim, th thao v thi s. Hn 30 nm kinh nghim vi 57triu thu bao trn ton th gii, HBO c xem l anh c trongdanh sch con n chu ngcc knh phim trn ton th gii.


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Kh th dy phg h sc, t thy ch

h c qu t hu bg. Bc s t v bog t thy t c bu to h, khogbg qu , gay d ch tay ph ca t.u tp tho t c th h l t tog vphg ca bc s cg cha v v t. Bc s

bc vo cg cc u ph chp. g bo gc bu l c th. Ug th. Bh ug thu no-Hodgk(3). ng l s phn, t hth. T l c c bh khg c t thot ca g g gh t t bh. (no-

Hodgk gha l khng phi Hodgkin). v t, u kh kh ht l l sao

thg bo t xu y cho b t. y khgph l l u t chg t ph t vc bh ug th guy h. n 1992, t

t co ta Dk v c bh ug th o.Lc thg b 11 tu. By g, cc cot s l ph chg k t t qua quy thcha t tg t h Dk tc y. T bth ph c gg lc qua, u s gp lo

b s h t t tog lg b t.

(3) Non-Hodgkins lymphoma (NHL): Hi chng ung th mu(ung th mu v ung th ty) ph bin Hoa K vi 54.000trng hp xy ra mi nm.


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Do c bh ug th ca t d c t

lu bc x khg ph l t la ch hay. Vth, t quyt h t lu ha hc. T s chc th sg th su thg a u t t luy v tc dg. C u t t tt, t c 49%c h sg th ha a khg t pht

bh. Th t u a: T c guy c b vsh v khg th c co c a.

T v v g: Nu anh cht, anh xinli em v nhng c x khng tt ca anh vi emt trc ti nay.

V t p: Th nu anh khng cht thsao? Anh c xin li na khng?.

ngy u t bh v mayo, t t t ch g k b Bll - t bh hcg la ch ha hc t lu h t. g y

xp x 50, g gy g, tc g ght. T h g y ag l g. g y p:

- Ah thy l t ag l g. T b ugth.

T ch ag c gg kh o cu chuy.

- T t l robt. T cg b ug th.- Vy chc h ah cha t l u

g khg robt. Chg ta s chuy


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tp kh ah u t ha hay ba l a. By

g chg ta hy qua st hg vc sp xy v ah h.

Y t g t ch g. C y Blll g kh g v kh tu cc. nhg gh g y thg ch kh g khc th

lo lg th.

mt tog cc bc s sau y cho tbt g c ha lo g b bh ug th:ngi truyn hoc ngi bin i. ng tuythg c hg suy gh tu cc v sau h

tuy hg tu cc y sag hg gxug quah. ng b l g bhg u tu cc thh hg u tch cc.mc d t khg bt hg thut g ykh t gp Bll hg t quyt h gay l

h ph l g b .T h Bll x g t t chc h

t o cha. g bo cha; g khg ugh hg cu chuy lg. T l t t t t chc vo bu t h tc

chu b cho hg u t sp ph d. t gp t g ph tg t bub. B y lo lg g chg b s khg cthy v g c ca b kh b b g ht tc.


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T bo Bll g t h vo b ta v gh:

Gi cm g ch? Tha qu b, nu b ngh bygi b gi cm th c l b phi i khm li mt

thi.

g ta bt u c. Cc y t u h t v g ta u g v cha bao g h tg

thy g ta c. Kh t ha tl a, Bll c t v g ch cho t.Chg t l k cho hau gh hg cuchuy c tog kh t lu.

T bt u ag tho hg a h cah l t bh v v lg gh chgtog lc t lu. Tc kh t kp h a thbu t lu kt thc t lc o. T cgcho hg bh h khc cc a hy. Sau khg lu th h cg c .

Kh bh v, t lu t ha v hg u t c th a kh y, t s khgbao g qu hg g v ag tg gu tah v bh tt. T cg ha v bcs g t s dg h kch gp ghu bt h v c bh ug th, v t skhg gg l g c cho khg y tht ghp.


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Kh b ch o c bh ug th, b

thg bt u cu x Thg g: Hycho con tai qua nn khi, sau ny con s chmcht bn thn cn thn hn. Con s ln ltthc hin nhng u tin mnh ra. Con s hccch tn hng cuc sng mt cch trn vn

nht mi ngy. mt l kh ag t lu,t th gh: Khng phi rt bun sao khimi ti lc b bnh, ngi ta mi cho php bnthn sng vui v thoi mi mt cch trn vn?

Vo gy 5 thg 6 2000, t khg

gh l h c th nhn thy nh sng cuing hm. nhg tho th ga, t ug t k l kh t c thy c bh ugth y chh l h sg u t. V t, cbh y l t qu. Tc kh b bh, tchg khc o t co ga b bt t l l

tog bg t. C g y, kh c cho bh, t v ch ch c c b, t lc t hg gu h sg t t.

Th t u a: Vo gy 5 thg 6 2003, Sa - co ta t cho , ba

k t gy bc s ch o t c bh ugth.

- Robert Schimmel


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Li khuyn caGandhi

Ngi lnh o bnh thng s dn dtngi ta ti ci ch m h mun n,

cn ngi lnh o kit xut s dn dtngi ta ti ci ch m c th hkhng thc s mong mun nhng

cn phi n.

- Rosalynn Carter

L khuy hu ch ht t hc tog cuc y chh l l khuy cat tog hg t h v ht th g -mahata Gadh(4), vo t bu chu y g.

(4) Mahatma Gandhi (1869 1948), tn y l MohandasKaramchand Gandhi: Anh hng dn tc n . ng lnh o

cuc khng chin chng thc dn Anh v ginh c lp cho n vi s ng h nhit lit ca hng triu ngi dn. Trong sutcuc i, ng phn i tt c cc hnh thc khng b bo lcv thay vo , ch p dng nhng tiu chun o c ti cao.Nguyn l bt bo lc (cn gi l bt tn sinh) c ng xng nh hng n cc phong tro u tranh bt bo ngtrn th gii.


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Kh t t g lo, g ta

thg vo t tg ph o v phut. T cg tg l vo th tg y.Chg t qua . n au tc s t tto l y cha kp gu goa th t l ph t v t thc t ph phg l tho lut

php , quy c h ca t khg ct tg. Cg h bao ph khc, bao t t st ch cg a g u tah gh t do cho d tc. T l vc,t lc cg h cho gy gt h c

hg thh qu tt p. nhg, lut php vduy t c h bo th cg hc v gph . Cha bao g lc ca chg t ccg h bh g h a g. L t gaph khg c co ta, t t tt c quy

l t t s ga h, c ha co g t cgth. T ph ut tc s bt cg y. Tcg c g h kh hg g h hgcg l tg g h th lut php v l y.

Tog th ga , t c cho Gadh

v t bt g tc kh l g sag m tha d H gh Pacc rlatos Coc.Sau cuc chuy, g h t:

- Th chu l lh v h hg cha?


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chy t chh h hay sao? Lu chu c th

t thy hh phc b go khg kh tt chu v y y hg h khch? Chuhy gh . Hy h hg t cht. Chu t t g th - au vy l qu . Chg l chu ph bt h chu g

th hu au ch b v chu thu ca g thot cho chh t t h?

nhg l ca g c day dt tog t,buc t ph suy gh. Sau y gy u tahquyt lt v b th, cu cg, t cg g

cho ah . T t u gp ah ycg c h tc kh chuy .

Ba u t gh g h chg thg v h qu pht hg kh dv h, t bg c thy cuc gh th ykh g u h h. Tog bugp, t k v hg d h ca h chc g l hh phc. Qu thc, lgp g y tog t t hu qug kh gc. T c gc h t gh

g l t va h c b v b tht ho to thah th.

Hh g h c l kh u cho t


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s thay y gha tog t. Sau t

n Yok, t t thh tg o d cho t L Hp Quc. Chgt tp tug g quyt hg bt cag tc cch x bt bh gdh cho g gc L mh na

Ph. C ha pha u dh cho hau hg ll ht sc gay gt. Ph tc cch ch tchag g th c h ca hg g pha lp v uy t ca g v cat, t bt u ph b l bg hg l l

sc so.Sau t h cg kch, t cht gh t

hg l hc h ca Gadh. Lu g y cg th v cch hh x lc y ca t haykhg? V g y, cch thc cg qua tg

h kt qu, khg hg th, v lu d, cchthc c qua tg h kt qu. Chuy g sxy a u v c ch tc t chg tv dg hg xo thut g gh v, gyt thg cho lg t t ca chh h?

T h y, tc kh g, t t ha vh g d c xy a chuy g th t cgs k ch hg l ca h tc LHp Quc. T lc , t a cuc tah


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lu t v ct yu ca v t b t

g t g hoc p dg hg chuthc khg chh g h gh tc phg. Pha lp h chg t bgt co t khc, v chg t cg tahlu cc v tho g b cht ca .

Vo cu gy, tc kh phg h gh,t bc l v v tg o ca o d ph lp g:

- T t x ah b qua u t c hayl u g kh h v ah tog cuc tahlu va .

Ah y bt tay t t cch th th v:

- T chg c g ph c.

T t vu kh h c x g c vah y v cg vu h kh t bt k ch t tg chh h. Th t l a,l khuy ca Gadh l gp t bc quakh t t ca b th.

Khg ch c th, l khuy ca g cgp t g c s sg sut gay c toghg s c h ht.


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l t th hug d khc d c. H

y, t c t s h vt qua tg th d tc. Khch dah d g th tgAh v phu h ed, h l g v cgqua tg v t v lc t l g gu c qua d go gao t t

Ah. T l k hoch th ht sc kcg, t thc u sc ph hp ca hoav . Kh tt c khch g v h h v cc u hay ug khc, ta du cho qu ga ag ba t l. nhg

chg t v ph ch . Kh ug lyth ba, t h co l v g chy h bp.

V p vo t t l t khug chtht khg hu . gc h, gg t c

b ph bp y v s h, c t gc khc lg qu ga. B chc b, g u bpva khuy c v va ht, ch l tc hhp. t ah ta d v t xa xo . T b l hg g tht g g

gag.u g t u l v g d, hg t

v c gg h bg gg bh thg:


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- T sao ba t l cha xog?

nhg g u bp v tp tc gga:

- Ba t xog tha b. Tt c u s sg. m g g xug, g xug

o.T tc l. nhg tc kh ht l:

Ct ra khi y. Cu b ui vic! th tcht h hh h g g g khbao l gp t du v c ph . nu t

bh th lc y, t s t l h chh h.T th t t l v k ch :

- Hy chu b tt c l b .

m g u t go g, d thc c bg a khg gg h u t tog

thc . V kh t k cho h v th tg sayx ca g u bp th tt thy gu t v gc h. mt g c : Nuu bp ca c ang say m c th nu nhng

mn n nh th ny th lc khng say chc chn

anh y phi nu rt tuyt!.

T c h h. T c th tho t l, v qua tg h, t bg h a


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g ba tc y khg c l bu chu

tho ku x gao ba u.

Qu thc, duy t tg th c bg cgqua tg h vc b th h kh tt h. Bt k chg ta l vc g th lkhuy ca Gadh cg tht gha: Khngai c th lm hi bn ngoi tr chnh bn.

- Vijaya Lakshmi Pandit(5)

(5) Vijaya Lakshmi Pandit (1900-1990) l em gi ca th tngn Jawaharlal Nehru, rt ni bt trn chnh trng trong vaitr ca mt nh ngoi giao, l i s ti Lin X, Cao y tiVng quc Anh, v nm 1953, b tr thnh ngi ph n utin nm gi chc Ch tch i Hi ng Lin Hip Quc.


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t g g d sg g gt cht

co b c o ca wll v t l hgo v g cc ca g y. Tho tc l togvg, g g d c thg bo chowll bt hg vc g l v l do t sao.nhg g ta l khg l th v kh rogs

pht h a chuy y, ah v cg g d.Tog t tg ph , ah g t t cg h t h g g d ka l cho a l.

Dc g, hg t g bc lh but bt

g t v kh c g v ga u lhcg. Kh h t th g g d ka lkhg c h. nhg v g y ht th ha g g ag u y vo hs , ch chg b v. Tog lc g s,

rogs cht h a dg v gy g v tu tydo l vc qu sc ca g ph , ah cgh thy h t t ca a t hohc ag thp th, l l h ah t phasau g c c k.

Kh g g d ka v, b v l k lcho g ta gh chuy rogs v g b cg ay thot kh c bo. nh g g , ah bg thy h khg th


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g , thay vo , ah g dy bt tay

th th. ng g d khg hu wll th h c vc g hg cg a tay ly tay ah v c ha g l dg bat. Cc anh s phi n u thi v cn bo git cht con b c non ca ti ri. - g cha

s. C ha g khch u h l .Tog ba , ah chg t cg

l tc h wll hc h ah v co bc o b gt h, hg rogs ch c , v kh h v ga h.

, rogs thy h t b t lu sg kh h hc t ba c tht b vo gyh sau v tog c tu sau .

nhg t g bc v go b go.Ba t kt thc. V chg g g du cg quyt g ha v khch gh qua t h. V h g .

Sg h sau, h c ga h g gd g tg t bao l g y c ph, htu v bh quy ag v h. Cho lc y,rogs v khg h g g l do ht h g g d. T g v, ahchg t cg wll ct tg tch c:


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- Th t c tg g s cho tay g

d o v v co b y!

i lg th t lc, wll p:

- T cg h l th hg sau tgh l. Ah cg thy y, thc s th t

c t co b u. T ch h lyt cht hh phc h ho th. C hgtu co b t th g y hg hh phcl u g qu v thg lg ht.

- Albert P. Hout


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T bng tira nh sng

Sau bao hu v hg auchg cht, l th o g ta c th t

thy sc h tha th?ngy Davd mcAllst qua , tog t

a x hu tg th c xc khc hau,va xt thg, va thah th. l vo busg thg 9 1996, t ma, t a

h tt c. ng g g ua a tog quh hu, c - khg tag l,khg vg hoa, khg c t, khg bca t a. nhg c khng y khg phdo g ta v th v g, do chh hg

g g l kh c sg to . g ta lt t t, t tay la o v t t h,g c l t co g h c lu sth h l co t. nhg, tc c cht


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ca g g y, t ph tha h g

t t u kh t xc g h vy.

Cu chuy bt u 22 v tc, vot bu chu y g thg 12 1974.

mt thg b 10 tu va bc l chc x

but t l Aldo tog khu go macy c p. Hugh chh l t cathg b gy v cao lu ghu . Cha - luts ca t cg ty, thg g bg c t. Thg b c tc u u, t sgv c lu t .

Bu chu y, Hugh ag v v gh vGg sh ch c cch gy a, vth khg h h a c t g gag t v pha cho kh g ta ct l.

- Cho chu, ch l b ca b chu. - ngl t c.

Vo th ga y, g d Coal Gablskhg y b t t hg g l t,c bt l t g c sg sa v lch

s h g g tug c tc hoa ag g tc t thg b. Hugh cg c v g ta.

- B ta h t chc t ba tc cho b


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chu. nhg ta u h t s u v

qu s dh cho g y. Chu c th gp ta lach khg? Chg ta s t l hah th.

Hugh g v t ph kh v sp l ct u g cho cha h. H cg t tchc x - t g h d g - u cch ha

co ph v bc vo tog. ng g l xtho hg bc v t t kh hg co gtog thh ph d l l g sau ahg ch g h g bt t. T t ho lh, g l t tp x vo l g.

- Ta gh l ta h g . - g ta a cho Hugh t t b . - Chux c thy g cao tc chh u khg.

V tog kh Hugh ag d d t t

b , g ta g l bc l v sau gh d g.

mt lc sau, Hugh bg c thy au hch b og chch pha sau gy. r thg b lc thy t vt chch a. n quay l v ht

hog s h. ng g ag h t t bg t t lh lg v gs. g ta ag t l g, t tay c tc u ph bg.


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Hugh c gg t v hg g g

th bo ht thg b xug. Chc u l tcgg xug. Tuy s h hg Hugh v ha vt khg su. ng g g chcu l tc gc Hugh, b tay g ta uu, v g ta h th v kh khg khp

xug. Khg t l, g ta y thg bag kh h quay t l ch g l tp,chc x gy cg xa thh ph.

- Cha g ch ot ca ta t hut v lu gy kh kh cho ta. Gg g

ta dg dg lh lg.

Hugh co g s h t gh g. Thgb kh h c khg th tht a lo. Vt thg ca khg qu ghtg hg hg c au ag gy v .ng g hg x vo itstat 75(7) - Allgato Ally(8) - o gao v evglads.

(7) Interstate 75 (I-75): Mt con ng cao tc gia cc tiubang lin Bc Nam pha trung nam Hoa K, ko di t

Hialeah, Florida ti Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan Ontario, bingii Canada.(8) Alligator Alley (hay cn c gi l i l Everglades) l chgiao nhau gia Interstate 75 v ng quc l 84, m rng tNaples mi ty ca Florida sang Weston pha ng.


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y l c t ca hg g co c su m

v hg t co c su chu Ph.

mt lc sau, g g :

- Chy v d a tao s th cho y

xug. Tao s g cha y t y v.

Chc x tp tc th t h vot co g b thu v vo t khog

g hoag vg.

- Xug . - ng g g s y bo

Hugh.

Bc a kh x, Hugh th t o

g g d v t b cy. V th,

khg h thy g g va t cg

ag t l g v t khu sg g

g h. V thg b cg khg kp ha t v g gy ag g thg vo

th dg b t ca .

Sut su gy l, cha Hugh h g

t g la, h khg bt co ta h c

sg hay cht. ngy qua gy, hg tahy vg g ah ag cht d tog h.

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khg t a bt k ah o. Tt c d

a c h th a co ta t ca h bc hkh t t vy.

Sau Gg sh t gy, h h ct c tho t phg ch st CoalGabls bo t g t thy Hugh

t t tg d v t co g evglads.

Cu chuy Hugh b bt cc v c cusg hah chg t thh t tc g bg ma. Sau g t tu a bt th evglads, thg b bg th dy. n c gglt t th a g c, v t g x t gag qua cu . V l a th dg b ph ca Hugh hy hody th kh th gc ca thg b v kh b co t b t. nhg htthy g u cg h g vc thgb sg st qu l t php l.

Tog hu gy, hu tu sau ,cc th t lu tho st Hugh c gg xch g t cg thg b. Hugh u tl s g d ca g l t kh hc t cha v c t ch tt hh dg g


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g cho ch st, tog c hc t vt

x t ch tay ca h. T hgch tt , cc th t a a t lot ghv c hu kh g. Tog s c t ay t do cha ca Hugh thu ch sc g

ch g hg b cha Hugh sa th g

y do g ta ug u tog lc l vc.Tho h h ca cc th t, g c gy

ca h chh l xut pht t y t th.

ngh ph y cg c t g h d

g g h Hugh t v h ta tgc t t, cp c v kh, g o ch k

v t t. T ca h ta l Davd mcAllst.

Tog y tu, Hugh x qua hg

t t h hg c l thg b v c b

h hg do ch g h t v bt cc khg th xc h chh xc mcAllst c

ph l th ph hay khg. Khg c t hu

h dg g, cc th t khg th c

bg chg x lh bt g.

V hg thg hg c l ltt qua, tog kh mcAllst v h h

bc t h ph h t cg d t do.


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Tuy h, g v quyt t bt mcAllst

ph t cho hg t c h gy a.

n v Hugh, cuc sg ca thg b gycg t t. C gc s h thg xuy h kh khg c d a go th. G h bu t tog sut ba

tp tho, thg b g t s d chgg ca cha v c th u b tc tg g.

Kh l h, Hugh lu t t tc co tt b ch t ca t a th gv chg th t c hu l do c vuhh phc. Thg b lu c thy g taag h v chc ch g khg bao gc th c t cuc sg bh thg. Cu cg, s h d chuy sag s ph ut v cplu s gy th ca Hugh. mc cho cha vb b a sc g v khch l, Hugh v sgtog tg th s h v bt a.

n 13 tu, Hugh t a t khccg a to go g h ca h: gh th g . T y, hg thg p vhy vg v tha th tog Kh Thh tcg su sc thg b. n c thy hg


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l y dg h dh g cho h. K

t lc b bt cc, thg b lu c gg t cchgp b th d v s h v tcg. Cu cg th cu h ca cg cg p.

mt bu t, tc s thuyt phc ca y

g b Hugh gp h th, thg b k l cho chg gh cu chuy ca h.Thg b gp gg v khg bt b bs ph g th o.

Kh cu chuy kt thc, Hugh t gch v b b u t thg v g v. nc t l d t gg t, l ut Hugh h a g s sg st k du cah khg ph l s h hay c ght l gu c v cho g.

n t ca Hugh gy cg su sc h, s h d b t v thg b bt uc t l. n h a g cha s t chh l u u l tog c cuc h.

Hugh tt ghp ph thg v tho hctg hc mc maco, Goga,tho u vc gh cu go l C c v


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cg hh phc. Ah vt qua au kh

hog tog qu kh, hg t cu h v ob ah: Ah s l g u t l d vg g tg c gg gt ah? Cu hthg tc xut h tog u kh Hughk chuy v cuc h, v kh , ah lu

p l g: Ti hy vng mnh c sc mnh tha th cho ng ta. V nh th, ti s hon ton

c gii thot khi th gii ca s gin d v

th hn nh th gii ca ng y.

mc d vy, tog th t, chh Hugh

cg khg d chc h c thc s l cu hay khg.

u 1996, Hugh t bt g kh hc c tho ca Chuck Sch. Schg thch g t g ghp kh bt gt qua t t v ca Hugh thg bocho g sau kh gh th t bh x phabc ma. mcAllst h l t bh hag . Sch l x t bh x v chuy v mcAllst.

- Ba u h ta v t goa c, hgsau h th h t bt cc cu vo gyh . - Sch v Hugh.


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Hugh lg. Sch th:

- Cu c u t v g g tg c gg gt cu khg?

nhg suy gh v c xc b xuth tog u Hugh. nhg t tg

tog th t ct tg t l g: CMnh mun gp ng ta.

ngy h sau, Hugh t bh x. Ah cthy t h h tht l kh bc xughh lag d t phg ca mcAllst.

Cha bao g ah h hp v lo lg th. Ah c th bt tay g g h c bt cc b c h ch cht hay khg?nu ah khg th l u th chg l b hc ah tg dy hc t ca h v

s tha th ha a ch l t s g d?Kh , Hugh bg c thy lo s g

vc gp g mcAllst s h thc t gt by lu ay g l tog ah. Ah gb go ch ca v ht t h tht su

ly ht sc h v s ca bc vo.nhg hh dug tc y ca Hugh ho

to khc xa hg u ag d a tct. n t chc gg khg ph l co


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qu hug c tog hg c c g ca ah

ch l t g g yu u 77 tuag khg th a h. g ta g cha t30 k. Gg t g to da bc xg. t do c bh tg h p ag ht t vo khog khg v h t t

h.Hugh t g thu v h v kh ah ,

g g g ua v c v bc l tht ph c hu.

- T khg hu cu ag g! - g ta kh c hc l l th t ca g vSch.

nhg v pht sau, u dg h lkhuy g t g g g ua y.

g ta t lg t lc lu bt u uy v bt khc. g ta g ch tay yu tgy guc l v Hugh ly b tay bgchh tay h.

- T x l. T thh tht x l!

Cu cg mcAllst hg l y.Hugh lg h g ta v t c gc x lga xc g v tc u bg to dg toglg ah.


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- T ch u g bt g t c

Cha ba . nhg u g l khgkt thc cuc t ch l kh ucho t tag . - Hugh .

mcAllst c cht ly b tay ca Hugh.g ta thu tho: Ti rt mng.

Ba tu sau , g h gy o Hughcg gh th mcAllst. Gg t hho ca g ta sg l gh thygg ca ah.

mc d qu yu khg th chuy huhg mcAllst k cho Hugh t v uv cuc h. Sg khg cha, tu th cag lag thag hg v g v tuthah thu , g l t co su u.

Ga h ug b g c xug quah gkhg c t g b o c. Hugh c ththy g g g ta ag h tc v sg t cuc y th h v t h.

mcAllst lu cho g ch hg thg

t vo Cha. nhg h s gp ca Hugh, g bt u cu guy.

mt bu chu a thu bh x, Hugh ch thh cha s t v hy vg ca


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Hh g tha th cho Davd mcAllst

ag l cho t t sc h du k.

B c h a khg, Hugh l t cat. T chh l cu b .

- Christopher Carrier


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Tc gi catrng ca Messiah(9)

Nhiu lc, ta khng th kim sotnhng vic xy n vi mnh nhng

ta c th kim sot phn ng ca mnhtrc nhng iu xy ra:

Hoc l ngi khng ch tht bihoc l ng ln t vt qua.

- Ann Landers

T Chst - t b cg phaTy c Ah, tog sg lh ggc, chc ct bu t t ag bay ph phttog g. B t khug ca y h cca qu c ph, t g g cao l

(9) Messiah (HWV 56): Tn mt trng ca ca George FrederickHandel, li ca Charles Jennes. Son xong vo ma h nm1741, ra mt cng chng Dublin ngy 13 thng 4 nm 1742,Messiah l sng tc ni ting ca Handel, v l mt trong scc kit tc ca nhc hp xng phng Ty. Bn hp xngHallelujahrt ni ting l mt phn trong trng ca ny.


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v th hh chc ch ag lo lg d t

qua st cc thy th h d ch thou hc tog g t. Hg g v khgthu v th t gy a, khg co tuo c php a kh. Tuy h, g v pht ilad v h a ph tht s.

g tg l g c c chu u gg, t h so hc tg. nhg vo tgy u h h ay, thg 11 1741,Gog fdck Hadl ch c l t co gg thg ag g t b vc tht b c v

t chh v gh thut. g khg c khg thuyt phc hg g cho vay, c cgchg th lh ht quay lg l v g.

r kh khug ca s, g kh hc gxug chc gh bg g s cg gc v tt u thuc. mt gy tht bu!

hc l t v thg hh ca Hadltog th g k t gy g c l t at, kh cha g - t bc s phu thut thhph Hall ca c a g t lu ca cgtc Joha Adol wssls. Lc , chag og u co ta h s t thh tlut s dah tg.


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Tog lc cha ag b vc t lu th

Gog fdck v bu ch lag thagvo h guy tog lu . Kh bt gp cy oga, cu b fdck bg c thylg h g v hg g tay h ch tha sc lt t ph . Cu ch sc

th kh gh tg bc ch l g. ngg v ag ch ch qua st chh lcg tc Joha Adol.

Cg tc h: Cu b ti nng ny l ai?.V sau , cha ca Hadl c g . V cg

tc bo g y g u g p ug aco c g khu tuyt v y t thh luts th tht l t u c t.

Gog fdck l t a t c khg hc h t hah. Kh c la tu thu, g Hall t Habug, sau titaly v y g t tg v hg tcph hc kch ca h. m h ha tu, g quyt t chh phc Lu vth g gh thut sg g v v v c

h v hg qu g qu b gu c s sgch hu t cho hg bu bu d l.

n 1711, v hc kch u t c vt


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bg tg ca Hadl c t Rinaldo

c cg d Ah tog sut 15 pht Hayakt v t c s lg khg g kh gc. Th g hc kch Lu cha bao g chg k t thh cgl th, v to cho hg thh

cg tp tho ca Hadl t t c y.Cc cg tc cg phu h s sg quh, l l y ch t ta t t lggh v hc kch y. T hg dy ph tpp, g ta g hut so tho u hc

kh ay c c t v vo ca.Sau kh v hc kch Te Deum ca Hadl

c bu d h th Thh Paul g ha c 1713, n hog A chh thc tuy b dh cho Hadl c thu

hp c h hg l 200 bg. S t cg th kho t bo b t hg bubu d b go gp Hadl t thhh so hc c c thu hp cao ht tth g th by g.

may ko tho ay , g k vn hog A l Vua Gog i quyt hthg th 200 bg a vo kho thu hpchh thc ca Hadl. H th, h vua c


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ga hp vo hg g hu h qu tc

Lu u t hg g bg vo cg tyhc kch ca Hadl ag t Hc vin mnhc Hong gia.

Hc v y l tt h c ca Hadl.Hu ht cc h so hc th by g u

ph ph thuc vo s gp ca hg gbo t thuc dg d qu tc. nhg Hadl hc va l t gh s va l t doahh. Th ch, gay c kh ag so hc,g v tuy dg hg h u t, ca s

gu a , g th thc h hu tgtch qu l khc. Chg o cc v hc kchca g c thu ht c cg chg v ththc h ua v x th chg , hc vy c l gu sh l tuyt v.

Lc y, u t vo Hadl c h gl a to ht. Vo 1715, bt c bubu d vAmadigi o, cg chg cg thatht yu cu c gh gh l cc b htcho kh qu l ca p ph k quyt

gg vc lp l y bu bu d c thkt thc tc bh h. C kh v hckchRadamisto va bt u cg d vo 1720, c c t ch g tog bu bu

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b b cg d cc v hc kch ca h.

n 1737, cg thg v l vc qu khg c chg t lt v khg th s dg bg tay b tay ph. nhg l th by ttha ph ca g v s xug dc cag hah chg la t c Ah sag c

m. fdck - v vua tg la ca Pussa vt th cho g h hg tog hog tc Ah g: Nhng ngy huy hong ca Handel kt thc ri. Anh ta cn kit tng cn

gu thng thc th dn tr nn li thi.

Tuyt vg, a h , Hadl quyt h Ah Aach, c c, cha bh ga tt t a xu g t c tg ca x s y. , gy gu g h tog su c g bc kh

gh gt. Ch g l chc khay g cht g v t t vt. n y thttho , kh g ly l c gc cbg v kh dy vu tog g.

Vo t bu chu, Hadl khg g

h tog su c g lu h thg l.g co su t s v hah chg c chh t. my g sau, g ta v khgthy g t l thc h cc bc u t tp


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tho. Cc x tg o su c g u t

lo lg. r t h th ca tu v bg vagl dg thah tuyt v. ngay lp tc, ccx chy vo. H h a Hadl. Sc kh cag phc h t cch g kh gc. gag do hg g tay t ph oga

t cch hg kh, u gh.Tuy h, s h phc sc kh ca Hadl

khg v s phc h th c yu thchca cg chg v cc v hc kch cag. g v sg tog chg cht v

t kho tt k th tg g do hgcuc u t vo cc v hc kch tc .

nhu l, g c gg thot kh bg cch t chc cc bu ha hc. mah 1741, Hadl lu b gy v b gh: chg l g ph t b s khu kh ch 56 tu?

mt bu sg, g y t bt g agt cho g t chg bo dy c bc toggy da. l hg t lu do t toghg g ht sc Hadl thu thpl. ng l t h th c t ChalsJs.


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Tog hu , Js c gg khch

l Hadl. g tg g cho Hadl t v kchchuy th t cu chuy tog Kh Thh vSaul v Davd. V t , Hadl vtt b at, t lo hc kch gu hgkhg c cc hh g kch, khg dg phc

tag bu d v tag t s khu hg tcph y cg khg thh cg.

Hadl t hh kho st kch b y.Tg t tc ph ca Js tc y, cuchuy y ly ct tuy t Kh Thh. nhg

ga chg c s khc bt l. Tc ph ythc s l Kh Thh. Js dy cg thuthp cc cu tch d c kh Cu c v khT c thh t cu chuy thc s xc gv s a , h th v phc sh ca Cha

Jsus. g g tc ph y lMessiah.Cu chuy bt u t l t t ca t

go Do Th. L t t ha h v ts g thot: Hy yn lng, nhng ngi conca ta. L l tog tc ph g d v g

g dg h t chg t htc t Hadl hg ga u t hgg h h th ca g vy. g c thyxc g t cch su sc.


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Bu sg h sau, g chu.

nhg g h hc Dublag og ch t u g tht khc l vph thg. Hadl c th chh sa ltc ph ca h tog hu thg vg y, t bo hg u Dubl ag a sc

chuy l thh cu t qu kh g gt bu bu d , cc qu b khg c vy vg, c cc qu g th khg ag tho g to u k cho ht t g a cg c t tog h ht

t g fshabl y.

Vo gy 13 thg 4 1742, tc tHadl lc y l t g cug ht.g g xug b chc Clavco h yhc cg gt u. Khg th bt c tgh thc o khc, t ga u t lgca u,Messiah d ha vo th g.

Tc kh v d kt thc, hc kh hg g h Dubl ph c t. C cc h ph bh ch bt gt gsay .

Bu bu d tp tho h c s h g ht ca kh g hg


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t kh ca s ph c tho a gp

h tg khg b gp v h g. Tuyh, u g qu ht ca v d l dy l phog to l t th g khp. Bt bg Ah c quy gp cho cc bhv v bh x, 142 t h c phg

thch sau khMessiah gp h t .nhg bu cg d u t ca v

Messiah Lu vo gy 23 thg 3 1743 l khc h. V d gp ph v s lthuyt go ch tch, h Ti sao li c th

a nhng on Kinh Thnh y ra lm cngc gii tr, mua vui cho mi ngi?. Chg kh g ch qua t c ch thg th l tht vg v v d thu th hhg ch y hg o hc ph tg.

Sau y, hu g qu khch c thu c gy s v t cg hg g t x cc vd ca Hadl.

nhg Hadl khg qua t. nguc hg gp g sg to a hu

tc ph khc. Samson, Judas Maccabaeus vm nhc cho pho hoa Hong gia u l hgv d thh cg c . Tuy vy, b ch g cg gp ph t s tht b. nhg v


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t vg vg, g tp tc vt a hg

tc ph tuyt v bg tt c kh g cah. Kh b b tc cho hg ch gc tg tog v d Theodora, Hadl h va v p: Nh th m thanh s hayhn.

Bt chp kh kh, Hadl v kt b t v Messiah - a co th thg ht lg ch cht v t chc bu dh k hg tog chg th t thko d sut thp cu cg ca cuc

g. Kh g Lu cg bt u thay cch h v v d. Tog l u tthg thc bu bu d, c vua Gog ii khg th k s xc g. V kh tgk tupt vag l tog ga u tuyt v

ca b ht Hallelujah, h vua g hdy. mt s khuy g to dg tog lgkh g v tog thah st sot ca la vtg lah cah ca k, g l ltg c dy. ngy h y, to th kh g

Ah g l ha cg ga u hoa h cad hp xg vag vg khp .

ngu c hg l lao k b caMessiah cg c th t v ko Hadl a


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kh s t t, tuyt vg. mc d cu

b hg g v tp tc sg tc v ch oga. Sau y, tog t bu bu dvMessiah, g b gt v ph a v h.g ko d s sg qua ht h , thSu gy 13 thg 4 1759 - 17 k t

bu cg d u t ca vMessiah. Sgh sau, Gog fdck Hadl vhv b th g.

Tuy h, tog say ca gh gu lg t t khp th g,

Messiah t bt t.

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Hai t nn trnhv hai t nn nh

Khg c g tog cuc y th v vg g h t ta sg bt g so t

t kh b thay thh t co g - co g v hg gh suy tch cc.nhg khoh khc h vy t h hohg chc ch t lc o s xy v chg ta. kh, c kh gu

t t cu sch, t b thuyt go hay tv cu th. Hoc cg c kh xut pht tt g b

mt bu chu a g lh lo tmahatta, tog lc g ch t h

hg h ca Php, t tht vg chchg x l t h t. Ch v t vth to sa l kh t d quatg tog cuc t ta thh y kh.


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Th ch, k hoch gp l g b th yu

( g b g, t va gh v g y v cc thy t vu xog) bg khg c kht h hoa h tc. T g cau ykh chu h chc kh t b sc ca vg h hg khoh khc au bu

qua.Cu cg t cg thy g b g ca

h bg qua g, t g khoc chco bh t c k, u chc s sp kqu ch c u h, tg g y gg t

tay t pht gh g h l t chuy gat th hc l lc. g l vc g y vt bt g va kh xog cho bh h cutog gy. g g 80 tu hg v kh kh bh hg gy cho hu bh

h v g tc phog h g c ca t tchc l, v yu thch vc t kh cgvc hg gy t tha d t gol bt ckh o c th.

Kh g g b ch t, g phc

v ag t cha ba h thg l. ythg khg gp hg tg g v th -kh h v h .


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- X cho ah b t, c chuy g v cu

? - g thg th h khg c o .

T lu t khg c gc h tcs hy b ca g, v th t bt u vhg u ag kh h ph lg. Vt ku hh x cht bu u, t c

gg thh tht, khg l cho a v s thtvg ca h ch bt tch b th. Tph tch tt c u, tt c hg l chtch, hg hh g sa l. T v tptc khog 15 pht a tog kh g

b g ca t hp cc ba tog lg.

Kh t xog, g t c ly xug vbo:

- no ah b, v phg cg t o.

- V phg ca g ? g qu g sao?- Khg. T ch u cu thy t v

u. Ch vy th. - g h hg .

ngo t bt u lt pht a hg vphg ca g v p, t gh v th

thuc: hg gc tg xp y sch, bg ghd bg da, bc h c ch k ca Sgud


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fud(10) v t cu bg gh t t ca

s. Th k ca g v h. Ch c l hachg t.

ng b g ca t ly a t cu bgt chc hp g dah thp v t voy. g c, :

- Tog cu bg y c ba o gh g v ba g khc hau x t gp. T u cu lg gh hg o gh y v x cu c th la ch a ha t chugcho c ba tg hp y hay khg. g cg t a h th. T c l do ca h .

V t, tg g ca ba g togba u gh y c l l s bt hh. ngu t g ph t qua t th k

khg hog do vc kh doah thua l. Ahta hc c h g khg l vcch ch v khg vg t vo co g phatc. ng ph ct tg sau cha kth v c c thy h ph c tch h

(10) Sigmund Freud (1856 1939): Bc s v thn kinh v tm lngi o. ng c cng nhn l ngi t nn mng v phttrin lnh vc nghin cu v phn tm hc. Cho n ngy nay,mc d l thuyt v phn tm hc ca ng cn gy nhiu tranhci nhng n vn c nh hng ln n cc nghin cu v tml v tm thn hc.


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v g g yu. C y h l tog tc

u v au kh v hg c h xy dg tcuc sg ga h hh phc c t b.Gg th ba l ca t g c thgco ta va gp c v ch st; b y tchh khg bt dy d .

ng b g ca t tt y t l ghg.

- Tog hg o gh y c t ct c lp l hg su l, cha gha khg y tch cc. Cu c h akhg? Khg ? , c l cg l do chh cu dg c t y t ba l lc h hgkh y. - g ly c hp v b cu bg vo tao cho t. - Chg y, gay tc h y. Ha t g bu ht tog g g.

T h xug. c t cch gayg bg c t chc h l ha ch:Gi m.

- C l cu s gc h u bt g t g t chc gh y v lg gh hgg l hg cu bu au khc khobt u bg ha ch t. H v t


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g: Gi m ti hnh ng khc i; Gi m

mi chuyn khng xy ra nh th; Gi m tikhng mt bnh tnh ri tht ra nhng li l

chua cht , c nhng hnh ng thiu thnh

tht , ni nhng li di tr ; Gi m ti

khn ngoan hn, hoc bt ch k i hoc bit t

kim ch hn H c v cho kh tbuc ph gt l hoc yu cu h dg l. kh, t cg buc h ph gh hg o gh cu va gh. V t v h: G ah (ch) gg gi m th chg ta

l c t u g gha h.g du ch a v tp:

- V ch c tc u th o thta cg khg th thay c h thc. nch kh g ta hg t s la ch sal -chn bc thay v tin bc.V khchg ta lg ph th ga. Cu cg, u cu t thh t th qu th chh sl o c cho hg c gg ca cu.

By g, tg hp ca cu h. Khoch ca cu tht b. T sao? B v cu ph ph t s sa l o . m cog th a chg c sa l. Sa l dy cho


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ta hu b hc qu. nhg kh cu k cho t

gh v hg sa l y tog s tha v,tc u th t chc g cu cha hc cu g c.

- L sao g bt? - T h, gg h btg.

- B v cu cha bc a kh qu kh.Cg cha l o cu cp t tg la.V thh tht , by g, cu v agsay sa tog qu kh. ngoa c l t cth khg tt tt c chg ta u c, kh chg ta day dt v hg l l c.Sau cg, kh cu hc guy h cahg sa l th chh cu ag l v l ht.

T gt u bu b.- Vy t ph l g thay y?

- Hy thay qua t ca h. Hydg hg t v c t khc th h s vl ch khg ph s ch bc.

- g c th g cho t khg?- D h l c . Hy lo b kh u ha

t Gi m v thay vo c t Ln ti.


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r g ly a t tog t sch pha sau

lg t cu ht k:

- y l cu ht k ca t g ph tg l go v qu t, c lu gsut hu qua. Chg b y l t gchg cht t c hg l t tt bg, ho

hoa v g lg. ng ph y ph cgg t hu tg tch, t vc u gco c, ch t cc ha v g kt c gah. nht k ca b y cht cha t huph ut tc hg kh khuyt ca chg

h, Joatha.

mt th ga sau Joatha t. Tt c cctag ht k u b x , t t tag duyht. Tag gh h th y: Hm nay tic b nhim lm thanh tra cho cc trng

hc. Ti ng rng mnh s rt hnh din.

Nhng nu ti bit trc c ngy Jonathan ri

xa ti nh th v nu bit rng ti s rt au

kh khi i din vi thc t ny th ti ti

ngay bn ng y.

nh hg khp cu ht k y l, gb g ca t :

- Cu c thy khg? B y ag g


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h, g h. Gi nh ti bit chp nhn ng

y, chp nhn nhng khuyt im, chp nhntt c. Gi nh ti bit yu thng ng y ht

lng - g t cu ht k t l g tp l. - nhg c t y t thh tc u l ht tog lg g ph y v

kh tt c qu t b y l l.g g dy t cch dt khot.

- Th g t th. T t vu v gp cu,ah b t . Lc o t cg t vu. V byg, u cu c th g gp t t chc x taxth t c th v h .

Chg t bc a kh ta h, ha hvo bg t v hg ht a lg l . Vathy bg dg t chc x ag t, t v

v chy a g, hg t hh khch khc hah ch h.

- Ca t, ca t! ,gi m chg ta bcxug s gy th chg ta gocc chc x g khg? - g y h hh

tu t.T c, hu a h ca g.

- L t t s chy a hah h.


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- g y. Chh l h vy. - ng b

g c ko chc xug ch ly ta.

mt chc x tax khc ag lt ch tch chg t. T ca x cho g. g c vy tay cho. Chc x bt u l bh. cg l l cu cg t gp g. mt thg

sau, g qua do bh t t pht t gt.

t lu k t bu chu a mahatta, l h a h ag chu b Ginh, t l chuy sag dg c t Lnti. r t ch u k du sp y shtog t t h. m l h th, t l ht g b g xa.

g y v sg tog lg t, chcch l h vy.

- Arthur Gordon


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Vng, ti c thNghin cu ca anh tht nhm nh

C mt ranh gii

gia s kin tr v ngoan c.V ti nhn ra im ct li lta phi tm ra vic xng ng

ta quyt tm theo ui.

- Judah Folkman

Tog s hg t lu lu t ca h,t s Judah folka(11) v g b sao chpca t b bo t t n Yok Ts vo

1903. Tog b sao chp , ha go s vt l l g t sao y bay khg th bay c. Bbo y a ch ba thg tc kh ah hwght chh phc bu t Ktty Hak.

Vo u hg 1970, folka pht

(11) Moses Judah Folkman (1933 - 2008): Nh khoa hc ngiM. ng ni ting vi nghin cu v s hnh thnh mch vnghin cu ny t nn mng cho nghin cu chng bnhung th mang tn liu php chng hnh thnh mch. Nm 1990,ng c bu vo Vin hn lm khoa hc quc gia.


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h a t u l tog kh gh cu

bh ug th, ho to gc l hgl l ca cc h khoa hc lc g kh ukhg tp tug ch u u dgchg pht t. Tog kh folka l chcch h th. V h h y ca g b

khg t g ghp a a g: Nghincu ca anh tht nhm nh.

folka khg qua t t hg l tu th ph ca cg g gh cu khoa hc.Sut ha thp k, g ph t v t hu

g khg qua t hoc t th th chkh g tp tc tho u cg vc gh cus hh thh ch v s pht t ca chu . Tog t bu h gh gh cuc g tha d, t a s kh g g

dy b a go. Th ch g c gh thy cg g: ng ta ch l mt bc s phuthut m thi.

nhg g v t g cg vc ca gc th gp g ch s pht t cc kh u

v c th t a cch pht t cc ch u hg c tht h xug quah cc gch b gh t.


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folka cg t s g ghp kh

ph a s hh thh ch u t vo hg 1980. ngy ay, h t t g bhh ug th l g hg l t gh cu g l g kh xg. g c hh v va t l l c t phog tog cuc

u tah chg l bh ug th.

- Fran Lostys

Ngi qun l khng c ti vit lch

C nhng trn chin bn phiu tranh ht sc vt v ch

ginh ly mt ln thng li.

- Margaret Thatcher

u thc y s ghp ca Ay Ta(12)khg ph l t c t ph bt g l tc hc u vo ct.

Tc kh hg tu b ca The Joy Luck

(12) Amy Tan (Tn i M; sinh ngy 19 thng 2 nm 1952): Nhvn ngi M gc Trung Quc. Cc tc phm ca b thng tptrung khai thc mi quan h gia m v con gi.


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Club, The Kitchen Gods Wife v The Hundred

Secret Senses(13) c tug a th tg, AyTa ch l t cy bt khg t tu, dg chgha k t. Ba u, b v chg cgu hh t cg ty h chuy thc h cccg vc vt lch tho t hg ca cc cg

ty l v k t tho g h cc lut s.Tch h ca b v cc khch hg ch

yu l qu l v k kha. nhg tog tht, g ph hp c y lu u lt vc g sg to h v ch gha, c

th l v tg Ah.

V th Ay Ta tg cha s v chg g:Em mun vit nhiu hn na. p l t sy, chg b khg h g th hca b ch l l bg k g c, ph gp cch thu kho v thu thp ha . Cngvic y tht vn vt. Ay t ght v b huh sh a khg ph l vc . nhgchg b v khg khg g vt v khgph l s tg ca v.

(13) Cc tc phm ny c dch sang ting Vit vi ta :Phc Lc Hi (The Joy Luck Club), Phu nhn To qun (TheKitchen Gods Wife) v Trm min n thc (The Hundred SecretSenses).


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- T gh, t c th t tg ah y v

l tho hg g ah y , hoc t s aa quyt h g ca h.

B tah lu v chg v thg th bov s thch ca h. nhg chg b vkhg chu hg b. Qu xc g, Ay Ta

quyt h:

- e s gh vc.

- e khg gh vc, l b u. es chg bao g l c cho g v vc

vt lch u! - Chg b g d.Ay Ta d chg h g chg b

sa bg cch say sa vt tht hu. C thga b ph l vc t 90 g t tu khc l h v t do. T lp qu l t u kh

kh. nhg b khg cho php bt c a g phoc c gg ho t g ca h. Vchh h th t lp b c thy t do sg tc v bay l tog th g v chg.S a ca tc ph The Joy Luck Club v

vc t h hh h g co g xh phg c tog t ga h Tug Quchp c gp g qu l khng c tivit lch t thh t h v tg c


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hu g yu , g th l tc g ca

hg cu sch b chy ht m.

- Gary Sledge

Con ng n thnh cng

Nu phi dng ba t tm ttnhng iu ti hc c t cuc sng

th l: C kin tr.

- Robert Frost

Tog lc l vc phg u khca tu cu h Seaprobe vo ha g sg 1977, robt Ballad(14) bg gt h thgtht kh gh thy tg va p t tvt g s v g vo boog tu ch

(14) Robert Duane Ballard (sinh ngy 30 thng 6 nm 1942 Witchita, Kansas): Cu ch huy trong qun i Hoa K v l mtnh hi dng hc c bit n nhiu nht qua cng trnh

kho c hc di nc. ng cng l ngi rt ni ting trongvic tm thy nhng con tu huyn thoi b m nh Titanic vonm 1985, tu chin Bismarch ca c Quc x vo nm 1989v hng khng mu hm USS Yorktown vo nm 1998. Gny, ng mi pht hin ra mnh v ca PT-109 ca John F. Ken-nedy v gh thm nhng ngi dn bn a sng trn qun oSolomon v cu thy th on.


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cch pha t u g chg t t. Lc ca

v va ch qu h kh co tu chao o.mt chc g khoa c g tht b h v tug v tht b quay ph c kh g vy xug Ty Dg. V u y btg kt thc cuc th gh ca h th

h tog vc t k co tu Titanic.Ti nh mt s tn nhim ca cc nh

ti tr u t s trang thit b tr gi 600.000

la (cho cuc thm him vo nm 1977). V

ti phi mt 8 nm mi ly li c lng tin

mt . - Ballad k l. V qu tht g vt qua tt c, k c hg ho gh ca cch khoa hc, hg lc qu h vtht b v bt bao kh kh chg cht khc.

Sau kh tu cu h Seaprobe b g t,Ballad : Ti li tr v vi con s khng trntrnh. Ti cn phi tm cch khc tm kim

con tu Titanic.

g t l h h v l chuy

v th bo ca qu m. Vo th gach tah lh chu b a, h h dg

hc y a a t tha thu v cc h

chc tch tog qu . g s gp h


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bg tt c chuy ca h u h u

t cho s pht t v th gh ca Ago -t co obot g tht b quay ph d c

c va t v cg qua tg tog ch dch

t k tu Ttac - v g yu cu h

ph c s dg cho c ch th h.

Cc h chc tch y g . H b t

a Ballad v Ago t kho st Thsh v

Scopo - ha tu g ht h b ch t

hg 60. Tht gc h, hg co tu

y l tog vg b khg xa tu Ttacl y. Sau kh t hh kho st tu Scopo

vo 1985, Ballad bt u t k co tu

xa hoa c s ph b t Ttac. V cch t b

ha d, tog l c b t th v

t 49 56 pht v pha Ty v 41 43 pht vpha Bc, g t a co tu.

Sau y, h h dg hc y c t

thy co tu ch ca c Quc x c t

Bismarch, tuLusitania v cc co tu huy

tho b khc. Tt l ca g t g:Tht bi lun ng hnh cng thnh cng, v

v th, ti sn sng chp nhn tht bi.


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H ay Ballad ag l vc t tg

hc thuc v gh cu dg hcca tu bag rhod islad. y g vacg b t chg th kho c .

- Janice Leary


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Bi hc tngi Eskimo

Nhiu ngi khng bitth no l hnh phc, khng phi v

h cha tng c hnh phc m vh cha bao gi bit dng li

tn hng n.

- William Feather

Ba gy ay, chg t v khggg b tho du vt - t v c ga h

g esko. Th tt tht khc ght, clh v g t h u g bg chg t,ht lc y xug 50 , th hgth th ca ga h g esko v thtk cg. C th y l hh th khc

ght ht t tg t gh.Dg h s h ag a sc gy kh

d cho chg t. ngy th bo tuyt khchg t ph ch ch tog lu. ngy th


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do lh c khg hay ca g b b a

kh chg t buc ph dg ch dgt chc lu thay v bc tp d th ttkhg y khc ght.

Khg t l t h g g eskog: Chng ta cn phi mt bao nhiu ngyna mi ti c vng t ca vua William?.

nhg chg l o g y t l thg thc. ng esko khg thch hg cu h.H cho l t s kh h. Ch g datg hay t a hg cu h. Th a,

g esko khg thch a a cu t l.nu b h h: Thi tit ngy mai th no?,h s ch lch s t l g: Mauna (Tkhg bt) d g h tha kh g d o,sau h l h h ag b v l

ch h h g: Ti sao ti phi tr lianh c ch? Nu ti ni ng th cng chng

gii quyt c iu g, cn nu ti tr li sai

th t dng ti bin mnh thnh mt thng

ngc.

C sg c chu chg t t hg dg b g bg lh but v ch dgl x xt du vt hg ch ch t a hoc thp uc. Chg t qua st


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vg t. C l chg t s t a h

c t. r kh t hy vg h ho o va l l th g l l, tuyt l bao phdy c, xa du vt, b chg t thtthu tog s tuyt vg ga khg ga tggt g.

Chg t dg l l a. Ch ch,khg cht v vg tho phog cch b a g esko v chp h cuc sg vs ph. Ohudlk - g g l tu g v v v c co g h. nu l Php,

tog c bo, g g d cg s dgl t cch bh th h th x xt thhh ug v.

Khg th k c gc b chkh hu, t l h g g y cu hqu thuc: ng ngh l bao gi chng ta sti vng t ca vua William?. V t cgkhg bt vc lp lp l hg cu h hvy kh g y t bh th hay cgchh l v g ag thc s qua t. Ch

thy g quay l pha v v tog s lgthg thy, h h va tao hg gc b t.


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r g y t v h thg vo t. g

y to - gg va pha cht g va cg s th tg:

- Khg ph l l ch cg g h cuu sao?

V sau l l s lg. By ch quayu l h thg l kh chu b tp tc cuchh th, v chg ag h t. ng ph v a t g b b hg t bt hcg ag l l qua st h. Tog tkhoh khc g g, th dg hchg l. l c gc g eskothg go vo lg b kh b c b toghg khog lg cg thg. H kh s lg cg t g h. V lu hc dg l h th khg? Khg, h c chg xa h. Cu cg, g g cgct tg , dg h g ta khg th k lg h:

- Chg ph chc x tt tuyt t ttsao? Chg ph ah t vu kh thy tuytbao ph dg tog sut hh th cachg ta hay sao?

g h t bg h t tch c. T


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c c gc h c k guy ca v s g

y b , phg g v s thg thsu xa ag h t, c gg thu hu -hoc c l h th, c gg hu chh h.r bg h t h c c hg thgp t g ua ag u .

Chg g: Vic g phi vi v? V tisao lc no cu cng mun i tip th? iu g

khin cu c phi day dt v tng lai khi hin

ti ang rt tuyt vi?.

ngy h , g g esko dycho t t b hc t khg bao g qu.V t suy gh t t v tg la, t qu t t qua tg ca h t. Cu ca g y kh t cht h c a tgbo t g: Ngh v qu kh l hi tic,ngh v tng lai l s hi. nhg c ht th sao? Khg ph ch c h t lu d hu ht sao?

Th g chg qua l s ph h h thcqua t t ca co g. V t, Bc Cc l c hg, l khao kht u kh ph,hg v ga h g esko, l l tvg quc khg l h chh l g l


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ch. V t, sg tuyt g lh l hg ga

a th thch c v h, l s ba , l qu ca g to ha. T hg g lgkh h vo cuc sg, chg ta c tho la ch ga kh au v hy vg.

Chg ta t bg qua hg xa l

cuc v th v hg ch qua ha b.A : Cuc sng tuyt vi bao hm cnhng pht giy nhn ri - hg pht gygg gh, v suy g. ng esko ggl kh h h lg c d gy a ag ch

h. V v h, gy a c th l s h p cahg th lc b go ag og u goc kht v cht chc. V th kh th chtcha t , h vu v hg th, h dsg v kh ph cuc t p, b l sau

lg u tc.Kh c c hg thg p Ohudlk

tao g qua t cg l lc t h a th h gho bt bao tc hg phtgy g g ga g bg tuyt Bc

Cc. Cg t , t hc c b hc qu gg ph bt g u, t tg tg gy,g chg g tg la c th thay th taag g tog h t.


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Vacouv, sau kh kt thc chuy

hh th y vt v, t chy thg vo khchs c h th khg u h t tht pht gy o a, bg h, tdg l ga dg g qua l. Tg c huth g vag l t hg hg t

khg h gh thy. T c gc h Ohudlkag g t co g tc t, d thot bg t su th, y s thg thl lo lg v b kho, g y h t ghg co ch c ph l hg co ch

khg tt khg v c ph tuyt tg khgthc s l qu Thg ba tg khg.

T cht bt c. Chng ta tht l ngngn! T th gh. V by g, t v ghh vy.

- Gontran de Poncins


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Nu ti c sngthm ln na

Cch chng ta tn hng tng ngychnh l cch chng ta tn hng cuc i.

- Annie Dillard

mt gy, kh c h g: Nu csng thm ln na, c c mun thay i iu g

khng?, t t l Khng. nhg sau t bt u suy gh.

nu c th t cuc khc, t s th v lg gh hu h.

T s b b t dg ba t gay ckh t th b b u v chc gh soa

s ch.T s bg g tog phg khch sag

tg v dp b b t v b b kh g u h la tog l s.


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T s dh th ga lg gh g k v

hg thg tu t.

T s khg bao g khg khg g cax h vo hg gy h o bc ch v t chh tag u tc v vut ko tht k lg.

T s t hg g u hg xhp c to hh sh g h hg bghg tc kh chg ta chy tog kho d t.

T s g t b c cg co c d c dt cht cg chg sao.

T s bt khc v c tc hh tv, khc v c hu h tc h thccuc sg.

T s sa s tch h hu h vchg h.

T s g kh b thay v l h tt s quay lch qu o kh t khg tgy.

Thay v ch bt ch tog sut chthg ag tha, t s vu g tog tgkhoh khc c h sg h bag tg gy l l tog t, v g lt php l tuyt v Thg ba tg.


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Kh cc co u h t, t s khg

bao g : sau i cc con. By gi m phira ry sch s cn n ti.

T s yu thg hu h, x l huh. V chug kh c tao t cuc sg, t s bt tg khoh khc, t

tg , sg ht h v v khg baog lg ph .

- Erma Bombeck


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Hnh trnhtrn xe but

Dy no ch, nu khng chng ta s lchuyn xe but u tin mt. - Bth . Lc

l 6 g sg hg g t cu vo y v chc o thu u ta v chcqu soc u xah ht. Ph c gg l t thc dy v khoc v vo h chco l d tay.

T v Bth, c ha u g ht la tub v ch cch hau 11 thg. nhg khggg t, c g h l v t ta ca ts hu t qu o v hg ga u sgv c th thc dy bc a kh gg tc

lc bh h. B ch , Bth c c thu khc t: n l t c g h chpht t v t tu. Sut su l, Bthc gg sg t lp tog c h c t cp


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t t thh ph Psylvaa. Sau kh b

t vc t ca hg b hah, Bth ckh hu th ga h . nh kho tt cp ca chh ph Bth v c t sh sg qua gy.

D b kh khuyt hg Bth t kho

lo. H ay co b ag l x but, hgkhg ph l l t y t khc lli theo cch ca Beth. n dc thh pht lc bh h t kh t h h t,th th gp cc t x cg h hh

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