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2PPT by JAYANTI PATEL12/25/2010

Transformation is sharing

there is no transformation

Transformation is sharing transformation;

there is no transformation without sharing transformation.

12/25/2010 3PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

We are constantly surviving the threat


Confusion is a racquet, get clear!


Win the game of possibility,

not survive the world of

Win the game of possibility,

not survive the world of

survival


First BE - Then DO - And

you'll HAVE

-- not the other way

around


Reality moves from the Future - to the

present - to the past


Be the possibility Be the possibility of possibility


Who you are is who you are for

others.


Transformation at the levels of SELF

-Individual (Only racquet or strong suit)

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Transformation at the levels of SELF

-Individual (Only racquet or strong suit)

- relationship

- family

- group

- organization

- society

- world

- humanity12/25/2010 11PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

The future can only be more, better

Possibility is outside that continuum

The future can only be more, better

or different then the past

Possibility is outside that continuum


Every in-authenticity has Every in-authenticity has

a payoff and a cost


Accept your past to clear Accept your past to clear

the space for new

possibility


Keep your word!!!


Be responsible for everyone in your

Be responsible for everyone in your

environment


Between ages of 5 and 8

otherwise you pass it on to your

Between ages of 5 and 8

something happens and to

survive it we create an act.

See the act to remove it;

otherwise you pass it on to your

kids12/25/2010 17PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

We stop training when inspiration goes down and personal gain and recognition disappear

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You don't know your ass from the hole in

the ground.


Act:

central theme, reoccurring story line in your life background.


Be concerned with the other's transformation,

not their comfort.


Stop working on yourself!

How do you polish a perfect mirror?

Nothing to fix in yourself, you are whole, complete and

perfect the way you are.

Stop focusing on yourself.


Move from you are mine, to you are me.


Put your ass on the line!!!


Admiration is the biggest prize.

fear losing our admiration

Admiration is the biggest prize.

We fear losing our admiration bank.


We fake authenticity in order to We fake authenticity in order to

hide in-authenticity.

Sincerity is fake authenticity.

Authenticity = power,

sincerity = struggle and effort


Be straightforward;

hold people accountable for

Be straightforward;

hold people accountable for

their word.


Not how to get this done,

but to

Not how to get this done,

but WHO do I have to BE to

get this done.


Tools:

I pretend ......What I am actually hiding.......Impact on myself and others.......possibility I invent (something that leaves you touched, moved and inspired)


In essence,

we all just want intimacy.

In essence,

we all just want intimacy.

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Weave the carpet, make them stand on it,

Weave the carpet, make them stand on it,

and then pull it!


Problem solving doesn't work, Problem solving doesn't work,

only disappearing problems.


We suffer when we try to fix our act or

come out of suffering, while we should just

COME OUT, meaning accept fully that you

will suffer for the rest of your life and die, so

Focus on other's benefit and your projects,

then magically you will no longer be present

We suffer when we try to fix our act or

come out of suffering, while we should just

COME OUT, meaning accept fully that you

will suffer for the rest of your life and die, so

focus on something bigger and make a

difference anyway.

Focus on other's benefit and your projects,

make sure others get this transformation,

then magically you will no longer be present

to your suffering, but present to the reality

outside, free of suffering.12/25/2010 33PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

Moving forward

towards an inspiring

Moving forward

towards an inspiring

goal is always

challenging and

difficult.12/25/2010 34PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

When enrolling others, what is touching, moving and

inspiring is what you have overcome, because they can

also do that.


Unfulfilled expectations and

Unfulfilled possibility leads

Unfulfilled expectations and

standards lead to upset.

Unfulfilled possibility leads

to possibility


Upset is a form of

It makes people afraid

Upset is a form of

domination,

It makes people afraid

to encounter you


Relationship Relationship --

being able to say being able to say

whatever is there.whatever is there.

Relationship Relationship --

being able to say being able to say

whatever is there.whatever is there.


Withholding your being Withholding your being

= killing people off


Culmination of ZEN = I give you power to give me power back

Culmination of ZEN = I give you power to give me power back

Culmination means conclusion12/25/2010 40PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

where are we unclear?

Build your day every morning:

what are we committed to?

What do we want to accomplish?

What are our possibilities,

where are we unclear?


Integrity being whole

and complete.

Integrity = being whole and complete.


We create

for the future.

We create

each other

for the future.


Find power in the Find power in the

focus on the

finishing line!


Create it; don't Create it; don't wait till you feel like it!!!


You don't feel it??? You don't feel it???

Cause it

and

enroll people.


To share,

they are

To share, tell people

who they are to you.


The power is

in listening,

not talking


We cannot

do it alone.


If you are not happy,

it's your act!


Create from the future

put past into the

Create from the future

into the past,

not put past into the

future.


Life is empty and

Stand --

Life is empty and

meaningless,

therefore anything is

possible

Stand in nothingness --

a space of creation.12/25/2010 52PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

That which you desire, desires you

inauthentic about which case

That which you desire, desires you

as much, unless you are

inauthentic about it, in which case

you never wanted it in the first

place.

So keep peeling back the

layers.


Love is a function of being in

communication

Make love a presence

Be willing to NOT know who

they are

If no love is present, where is the

cause?


Compassion is

another's point of view

Compassion is

seeing fully

from

another's point of view


Insanity: we suffer in order to

enough", in order to cushion the

Insanity: we suffer in order to

avoid suffering in the future

We pretend to be "NOT good

enough", in order to cushion the

pain that MIGHT happen if we

turn out to really be "not good

enough"12/25/2010 56PPT by JAYANTI PATEL

If you are not causing it, If you are not causing it,

you are dealing with it


How often are you there for the

The more you try to get out of the trap,

How often are you there for the

conversation that is happening now?

The more you try to get out of the trap,

the more it traps you

The only way out is into the trap


Word creates world:

6 the conversation

Word creates world:1. Giving things up

2. Forgiving

3. Accepting

4. Dancing in the conversation

5. Being of service

6. Bringing nothing to the conversation

7. Acknowledging


Foundation for the world:

1. Integrity: Honor your word as

yourself

2. Responsibility: Be the 100%

cause in the matter of your life

3. Generosity: Whatever you hold

will diminish--give it away!


4 rules for causing the miraculous:

1. Integrity: Honoring and having

deep respect for your word

2. Be not deserving--miracles are not

deserved.

3. The future into which you are

living, gives you being in the present.

4. Deal with the future as pure

possibility, anything is possible.


Who I am is the possibility of Total Freedom.

The act I am giving up is "I am sneaky, and you won't catch me"

AND THAT IS WHO I AM!


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