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ENNEAGRAM COUPLES

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Enneagram couples. Enthusiast & Achiever. Tiana : Achiever (3) . Vaveen : Enthusiast (7) . -Success is key, love is earned through status. - Gluttony, lust, trouble committing, perma -smile. Conflict : 7 disgusts 3 with her laziness and ego. - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

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ENNEAGRAM COUPLES

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ENTHUSIAST & ACHIEVERVaveen : Enthusiast (7) - Gluttony, lust, trouble committing, perma-smile

Tiana : Achiever (3) -Success is key, love is earned through status

Conflict: 7 disgusts 3 with her laziness and egoHarmony: 7 allows 3 to relax, 3 teaches 7 to do work

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PEACEMAKER & INDIVIDUALIST

Marshall: Peacemaker (9)

Lily : Individualist (4)

- pushover at job, sell on his dreams due to what people say, indecisive

- Creative talent, hogs conversation time

Conflict: Trouble when they don’t agree, 4 being distracted from the relationship by other opportunitiesHarmony: 9 allows 4 to pursue her options, 4 plans out romantic dates

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PEACEMAKER & PERFECTIONIST

Ray : Peacemaker(9) - I don’t know what I said to make you mad

Debra : Perfectionist (1) - What the bleep did you do wrong this time

9 delegates into laziness & insensitivity while 1 chases perfectionism in her partner

Mutual criticisms, challenge each other’s viewpoints

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INDIVIDUALIST & ENTHUSIAST

Rapunzel: individual (4) - Creative talents, leader of the dance Flynn: Enthusiast

(7)- Smiley, ego, looking for the rich lifestyle

7 takes 4 on his adventure; 4 impresses 7 through her talents, gives 7 hope

Use each other for alternate material motives at 1st

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INDIVIDUALIST & HELPER

Miss Piggy: Individualist (4)Wants to be the star, always

Kermit the Frog: Helper (2)Has to cater to the needs of a lot of weird friends

4 is overbearing and 2 feels the strain

2’s acceptance & love of 4’s eccentricities4’s loyalty

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PERFECTIONIST &LOYALIST

Hermione: Perfectionist (1)It’s LeviOsa, not LevioSAAAARon: Loyalist (6)Worried, Jealous, Prone to fight with friends

Inability to confess feeling, 6’s jealousy which 1 cannot easily assuageLoyalty, ability to work as a team for common goal

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ACHIEVER & HELPER

Rhett: Helper (2) Sticks loyally to Scarlett, cares for his love rival

Scarlett: Achiever (3)Determination, see Searle

Conflict: 3 does not give to 2 emotionally, 2 chases 3 as a fantasy

Harmony: 2 is loyal to 3 for as long as 2 can be, 3 finds the good in 2

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ACHIEVER & HELPERJack Twist: Helper (2)Almost maternal to the sheep, flirty

Ennis del Mar: Achiever (3)Marries and has children for the status of it, does not want to look socially different

HarmonyLoyalty, teamwork ability

2 rushes into the relationship, 3 cannot bring it where it hurts 3’s reputation

Conflict

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INDIVIDUALIST & HELPERTony: Helper (2)His priorities lie with other people, his friends, his lover, his gang

Maria: Individualist (4)Flamboyant, wants to be noticed and prove her maturity

Conflict: obsession with one another, which interferes with daily life

Harmony:2’s willingness to sacrifice for 4, 4’s ability to sympathize with 2

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PERFECTIONIST & ENTHUSIAST

Jasmine: Perfectionist (1)Finds the holes in the system, does what she wants

Aladdin: Enthusiast (7)Optimistic, chasing royal life, doesn’t mourn being an orphan

Conflict: 7 lies to 1 in an attempt to seem grander than 7 is, 1 catches 7’s scheme easily

Harmony: 7 doesn’t expect 1 to conform, 1 judges 7 by her heart.

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CHALLENGER & INVESTIGATOR

Shrek: Investigator (5)Doesn’t do feelings, natural resources, poetic Fiona: Challenger

(8)Hot-tempered, motivates to action

Harmony: 5 can calm 8’s negative feelings about being different, 8 is impressed by 5’s resourcefulness

Conflict: When he becomes reclusive, 8 is angered

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CHALLENGER & INVESTIGATOR Belle Beast Investigator (5) Challenger (8)

Prefers books to company

Great presence, lots of anger

Conflict8’s anger scares 5 away, 5 finds places of solitude to avoid 8

Harmony8 strongly defends 5, 5 shares knowledge with 8.

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PEACEMAKER & PERFECTIONIST

Simba and Nala

Simba: Peacemaker (9) Nala: Perfectionist (1)“I’ll run away and sing

Hakuna Matata all day long before I take the

throne.”

“I win, you lose, stop moping and

go do what’s right.”

Conflict1 is frustrated when 1 cannot spur 9 into action, 9 wants 1 to stop bothering 9.

Harmony1 supports 9, 9 plays friendly games with 1 and takes 1 places to make 1happy.

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PEACEMAKER & ENTHUSIASTOdysseus: Enthusiast (7) & Penelope: Peacemaker (9)

Seeking new adventure and pleasure

Waits patiently, doesn’t stand up for herself.

Conflict:7 leaves 9 lonely, 9 cannot assert for herself without 7Harmony:9 never loses faith in 7, 7 sees 9 as a safehouse to return to when adventure loses flavor.

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REFLECTION QUESTION

• Answer 3 out of 6 questions in the next slide to earn an optional Bronze credit for ILCP

The reflection should be sent to [email protected]

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1) How do you see the Enneagram types affecting your personal relationships? (It does not have to be a romantic relationship; you can describe how the type affects a friendship or family bond.)

2) How do you feel your personal Enneagram type affects your viewing of literature and pop culture?

3) Do you identify with the characters of your type, or do you have a distaste for them? Is this related to similarities or differences they have to your personality?

4) How does the knowledge of the Enneagram field of study in general affect the way you view literature and pop culture? Do you analyze fictional characters by type? How does this change the way you see them?

5) What other works can you think of where a character's motivations make sense once you figure out that character's type? Think back not only to recreational readings and viewings, but also of materials you read and viewed for class.

6) Do you see any other personality traits in these characters that differ from those identified?