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ORIGINAL PAPER Keeping a Sound Marriage: How Couples with Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders Maintain Their Marriages Julie L. Ramisch Esther Onaga Su Min Oh Published online: 1 May 2013 Ó Springer Science+Business Media New York 2013 Abstract This study focused on strengths and variables that contribute to marital successes for couples with children with autism spectrum disorders (in this article, referred to as ‘‘autism’’). Particularly, the purpose of this study was to examine what husbands and wives with children with autism in contrast to couples with children who are typically developing identify as helpful to maintaining their mar- riages. Concept mapping methodology was used for this research study. Couples with children with autism and cou- ples with children who are typically developing participated in telephone interviews and then grouped and rated the statements generated from their interviews. Groupings were translated into pictorial maps showing relationships and patterns. Couples with children with autism shared common perceptions about factors that help to keep their marriages strong: communication and shared foundational ideas about marriage. Communication was a cluster for all groups of husbands and wives. Only mothers of children with autism identified time for self-care as a distinct cluster. Keywords Autism Á Communication Á Concept mapping Á Couples Á Marriage Introduction The prevalence of children diagnosed with autism spec- trum disorders (in this article, referred to as ‘‘autism’’) is increasing (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC] 2012) and parents are reporting that there are many stressors associated with raising children with autism. Parental stress can be predicted from a variety of aspects of raising a child with autism: stress can develop from struggling to get a correct diagnosis for a child (O’Brien 2007; Siklos and Kerns 2007), behaviors of the child that are difficult (Brobst et al. 2009; Davis and Carter 2008; Higgins et al. 2005), and from social isolation (Hock et al. 2012; Myers et al. 2009). Many researchers have found that parents of children with autism are at increased risk for physical and emotional stress and possible mental health difficulties (Benson 2006; Gau et al. 2012; Gray 2002; Hamlyn-Wright et al. 2007; Lecavalier et al. 2006; Little 2002; Sivberg 2002; Woodgate et al. 2008). If a parent of a child with autism is married, individual methods of dealing with associated stressors of raising a child with autism seem to be associated with the quality of the marital relationship. Kersh et al. (2006) reported that lower parenting stress and fewer depressive symptoms were associated with greater marital quality for mothers and fathers with children with developmental disabilities. Again, in a study a few years later, Benson and Kersh (2011) found that marital quality had a negative relation- ship with maternal depressed mood and a positive rela- tionship with maternal well-being for mothers with children with autism. Even though marital quality appears to have had positive associations with well-being, many parents of children with autism have reported that they are stressed (Benson 2006; Gray 2002; Hamlyn-Wright et al. 2007; Lecavalier et al. 2006; Little 2002; Sivberg 2002; J. L. Ramisch (&) School of Family, Consumer, and Nutrition Sciences, Northern Illinois University, DeKalb, IL 60115, USA e-mail: [email protected] E. Onaga Michigan State University, East Lansing, MI, USA S. M. Oh Michigan Department of Community Health, Lansing, MI, USA 123 J Child Fam Stud (2014) 23:975–988 DOI 10.1007/s10826-013-9753-y

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  • ORIGINAL PAPER

    Keeping a Sound Marriage: How Couples with Childrenwith Autism Spectrum Disorders Maintain Their Marriages

    Julie L. Ramisch Esther Onaga Su Min Oh

    Published online: 1 May 2013

    Springer Science+Business Media New York 2013

    Abstract This study focused on strengths and variables

    that contribute to marital successes for couples with children

    with autism spectrum disorders (in this article, referred to as

    autism). Particularly, the purpose of this study was to

    examine what husbands and wives with children with autism

    in contrast to couples with children who are typically

    developing identify as helpful to maintaining their mar-

    riages. Concept mapping methodology was used for this

    research study. Couples with children with autism and cou-

    ples with children who are typically developing participated

    in telephone interviews and then grouped and rated the

    statements generated from their interviews. Groupings were

    translated into pictorial maps showing relationships and

    patterns. Couples with children with autism shared common

    perceptions about factors that help to keep their marriages

    strong: communication and shared foundational ideas about

    marriage. Communication was a cluster for all groups of

    husbands and wives. Only mothers of children with autism

    identified time for self-care as a distinct cluster.

    Keywords Autism Communication Concept mapping Couples Marriage

    Introduction

    The prevalence of children diagnosed with autism spec-

    trum disorders (in this article, referred to as autism) is

    increasing (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

    [CDC] 2012) and parents are reporting that there are many

    stressors associated with raising children with autism.

    Parental stress can be predicted from a variety of aspects of

    raising a child with autism: stress can develop from

    struggling to get a correct diagnosis for a child (OBrien

    2007; Siklos and Kerns 2007), behaviors of the child that

    are difficult (Brobst et al. 2009; Davis and Carter 2008;

    Higgins et al. 2005), and from social isolation (Hock et al.

    2012; Myers et al. 2009). Many researchers have found that

    parents of children with autism are at increased risk for

    physical and emotional stress and possible mental health

    difficulties (Benson 2006; Gau et al. 2012; Gray 2002;

    Hamlyn-Wright et al. 2007; Lecavalier et al. 2006; Little

    2002; Sivberg 2002; Woodgate et al. 2008).

    If a parent of a child with autism is married, individual

    methods of dealing with associated stressors of raising a

    child with autism seem to be associated with the quality of

    the marital relationship. Kersh et al. (2006) reported that

    lower parenting stress and fewer depressive symptoms

    were associated with greater marital quality for mothers

    and fathers with children with developmental disabilities.

    Again, in a study a few years later, Benson and Kersh

    (2011) found that marital quality had a negative relation-

    ship with maternal depressed mood and a positive rela-

    tionship with maternal well-being for mothers with

    children with autism. Even though marital quality appears

    to have had positive associations with well-being, many

    parents of children with autism have reported that they are

    stressed (Benson 2006; Gray 2002; Hamlyn-Wright et al.

    2007; Lecavalier et al. 2006; Little 2002; Sivberg 2002;

    J. L. Ramisch (&)School of Family, Consumer, and Nutrition Sciences,

    Northern Illinois University, DeKalb, IL 60115, USA

    e-mail: [email protected]

    E. Onaga

    Michigan State University, East Lansing, MI, USA

    S. M. Oh

    Michigan Department of Community Health, Lansing, MI, USA

    123

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  • Woodgate et al. 2008) and that their marriages are strained

    (Fletcher et al. 2012; Myers et al. 2009; Phelps et al. 2009).

    More specifically, spouses have reported feeling discon-

    nected from each other (Woodgate et al. 2008) and expe-

    riencing overall decreased marital satisfaction (Brobst et al.

    2009; Higgins et al. 2005; Lee 2009).

    It is important that researchers investigate ways to help

    couples decrease stress levels and increase marital satis-

    faction because, in general, spouses who are under signif-

    icant stress tend to report lower satisfaction in their

    marriages (Neff and Karney 2009). When these stressors

    are repeated or prolonged, stress may be a detriment to the

    relationship (Neff and Karney 2009). The results of

    research on the prevalence of divorce among couples with

    a child with autism have not been consistent. While the

    mass media has reported divorce rates as high as 80 %,

    there is no empirical research to support this. Freedman

    et al. (2012) found no evidence to support that children

    with autism were at a higher risk of living in a house

    without both biological or both adoptive parents than

    children without autism. Conversely, Hartley et al. (2010)

    reported that the prevalence of divorce is higher for couples

    with children with autism as compared with that of couples

    with children who were typically developing. About one in

    four (24 %) couples with children with autism divorced

    during the 6-year study period versus one in seven (14 %)

    couples with children who were typically developing.

    Couples with children with autism continued to have a high

    risk of divorce through their childrens childhood, adoles-

    cence, and early adulthood, whereas parents of children

    who were typically developing had low divorce rates once

    their children left childhood (Hartley et al. 2010).

    While the stress of raising a child with autism can lead to

    divorce, it certainly does not have to. Rather than focusing on

    failures, focusing on parents strengths and variables that

    predict marital success in couples who have children with

    autism can be helpful (Eddy and Walker 1999). In some

    cases, having a child with autism actually can bring the

    couple closer together and enrich their marriage (Myers et al.

    2009). Additionally, Hock et al. (2012) discussed how the

    stress of parenting a child with an autism forced significant

    changes within couple relationships that later brought about a

    new level of closeness. The authors reported that for married

    couples, having children with autism was a crucible to their

    relationships. In other words, parenting children with autism

    tested relationships and forced changes to be made. If couples

    remained together, they developed new and more effective

    ways of interacting (Hock et al. 2012).

    Differences in managing stress within the couple rela-

    tionship can place strain on a couple raising a child with

    autism. Despite not having a consistently verified divorce

    rate, concentration on the fact that Hartley et al. (2010)

    found that 76 % of parents of children with autism remained

    married may provide evidence of positive marital outcomes

    for couples with children with autism. An investigation into

    the strategies used by couples who remain married while

    raising children with autism is important. Specific to autism,

    there are few researchers who have examined strategies

    couples use to strengthen their marriages. Brobst et al.

    (2009) found that even though couples with children with

    autism had lower relationship satisfaction than comparison

    couples, they did not differ from the comparison couples in

    terms of perceived spousal support, respect for partners, or

    commitment to relationships.

    The current study further examines the strategies of

    married couples with children with autism to help maintain

    their marriages. The research questions for the study were:

    (1) What do husbands with children with autism identify as

    helpful to stay married? (2) What do wives with children

    with autism identify as helpful to stay married? (3) Do wives

    and husbands with children with autism have different ideas

    of what helps to stay married? (4) How do wives and hus-

    bands with children with autism compare to wives and

    husbands with children who are typically developing?

    Method

    Participants

    Couples were recruited during two waves, using two list-

    servs affiliated with a university in the Midwestern United

    States. These listservs are available to staff, faculty, and

    students affiliated with the university. In the first wave,

    couples with children with autism were recruited using a

    listserv for parents of children with special needs. The

    initial email included an invitation for married parents with

    children with autism between 4 and 12 years old to vol-

    unteer via email or phone. To participate, the couple had to

    be married for at least 1 year, living together, and parenting

    a child with autism. In the second wave, couples with

    children who are typically developing were recruited using

    a general listserv for parents. The initial email asked

    married couples with at least one child between 4 and

    12 years old to volunteer via email or phone. These couples

    also had to be married for at least 1 year and living toge-

    ther, but not parenting any children with disabilities.

    At the time that the email was sent out for this research

    study, there were about 160 individuals on the listserv for

    parents of children with special needs. It was not known how

    many individuals had children with autism as compared to

    children with other special needs. Eleven married couples

    with children with autism participated in the first wave.

    There were originally 12 couples who volunteered to par-

    ticipate; however, one couple did not complete the struc-

    turing stage. The statements of the twelfth couple remained

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  • in the list of statements so the structuring stage would not

    have to be repeated with all participants, but all demo-

    graphic and assessment information was removed.

    For the sample in this study, the mean age for men was

    41.27 years (SD = 5.33) and 37.91 years (SD = 5.09) for

    women; the average length of marriage was 12.20 years

    (SD = 3.93) and the average number of children per cou-

    ple was two. There were nine male children and two female

    children with autism; the mean age of the child was

    7.49 years (SD = 2.42). About 36 % of the couples

    reported annual household incomes between $40,000 and

    $69,999, 27 % between $70,000 and $99,999, and 36 %

    reported they earned $100,000 or more per year. About

    73 % of the husbands and 55 % of the wives had achieved

    at least a four-year college degree.

    The listserv used to recruit couples with children who are

    typically developing was a listserv designated for parents, in

    general, who were staff, faculty, and students affiliated with

    the university. At the time that the email was sent out for this

    research study, there were about 800 individuals on that

    listserv. Ten married couples with children who are typically

    developing participated in the second wave. There were

    originally 15 couples who volunteered to participate; how-

    ever, five couples did not complete the structuring stage. The

    statements of these couples remained as part of this study, but

    all demographic and assessment information was removed.

    The mean age for men was 38.40 years (SD = 4.17) and

    37.30 years (SD = 4.35) for women. The average length of

    marriage was 10.60 years (SD = 4.43) and the average

    number of children per couple was two. About 20 % of the

    couples reported annual household incomes between $30,000

    and $69,999, 30 % between $70,000 and $99,999, and 50 %

    reported they earned $100,000 or more per year. About 70 %

    of the husbands and 80 % of the wives had achieved at least

    a 4-year college degree.

    Measures

    Childhood Autism Rating Scale

    The Childhood Autism Rating Scale (CARS; Schopler et al.

    1980) was used to obtain an assessment of the mothers

    perception of the childs level of involvement on the autism

    spectrum. The CARS assesses 15 different dimensions of a

    childs behavior and gives a total score ranging from 10 to

    60. Each dimension is scored on a scale of (1) age-appro-

    priate behavior to (4) deviance from age-appropriate

    behaviors. According to the CARS manual (Schopler et al.

    1980), scores between 10 and 30 suggest that the child is

    Non-Autistic, scores between 30 and 36 indicate

    Mildly-Moderately Autistic, and scores between 37 and

    60 indicate Severely Autistic. For the purposes of this

    study, the researcher conducting the phone interview

    completed the CARS assessment over the phone with each

    mother with a child with autism. Mothers rather than fathers

    participated in the phone interview regarding the CARS due

    to greater scheduling flexibility for longer interviews.

    Kansas Marital Satisfaction Scale

    The Kansas Marital Satisfaction Scale (KMSS; Schumm

    et al. 1985) is a three-item scale used to measure overall

    relationship satisfaction. Participants rate each items on a

    seven-point Likert scale that ranges from (1) extremely

    dissatisfied to (7) extremely satisfied. Higher scores on the

    KMSS indicate greater levels of relationship satisfaction.

    Procedure

    Concept mapping (Trochim 1989) has been used in a

    number of studies (e.g., Brown 2007; Herman et al. 2005;

    Johnson et al. 2000). It is a structured process beginning

    with participants responding to a question. The ideas or

    statements generated are then translated into a pictorial

    map showing relationships and patterns. This method was

    appropriate to generate ideas from husbands and wives

    about factors they felt helped to keep their marriages intact.

    See Jackson and Trochim (2002) for a detailed description

    about how concept mapping methodology has strengths in

    terms of reliability and validity.

    Trochim (1989) defined six steps to the cluster mapping

    process: preparation, generation of statements, structuring

    of statements, representation of statements, interpretation

    of maps, and utilization of maps. The first five steps were

    utilized in this study.

    Preparation

    The preparation step involves the development of the focal

    question and the selection of participants (Trochim 1989).

    The researchers determined that the main focal question

    should be: In your opinion, what has helped you to

    maintain a strong marital relationship with your spouse?

    It was also during this stage that the researchers determined

    that couples with children with autism and couples with

    children who are typically developing should participate.

    The researchers developed the question and selected the

    two groups of participants in order to help identify ideas,

    beliefs, or actions regarding how couples with children

    with autism maintained their marriages.

    Generation of Statements

    To generate a list of statements to start the conceptual

    mapping process (Trochim 1989), separate telephone

    interviews for each member of each couple were

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  • conducted. After the participant agreed to the informed

    consent, the researcher posed the focal question. Partici-

    pants were allowed to have as much time as they needed to

    provide an unlimited number of statements. The interviews

    were audio recorded, and each statement was added to one

    of four lists (men or women by children with autism or

    children who are typically developing). Statements that

    were identical were not entered multiple times to a par-

    ticular list of unique statements (see Appendix).

    Structuring of Statements

    According to Trochim (1989), the structuring stage consists

    of sorting the different statements to help identify state-

    ments that were related. In order to increase the reliability

    of this data analysis, the original participants were asked to

    sort the statements into groups. Following the telephone

    interviews, the list of statements for each group was sent

    back only to participants in that group. That is, husbands

    were given a list of statements compiled from the husbands

    in their respective wave, and wives were given a list of

    statements compiled from the wives in their respective

    wave. Each individual was asked to group statements

    together into similar concepts. Participants were given

    three rules: (1) Each statement can only be used once; (2)

    Do not put all statements into one group; and (3) Do not

    create a miscellaneous pile. They were given a work-

    sheet to list groups of statements and they were also asked

    to assign a title to describe each group. Finally, participants

    were asked to rate each statement on a scale of (1) not at all

    to (5) very much in terms of how much the statement

    related to how he or she maintained a strong marriage with

    his or her spouse. Each participant who grouped and rated

    the statements received a $10 gift certificate.

    Representation of Statements

    Based on Trochims (1989) method, four concept maps

    were created: husbands with children with autism, wives

    with children with autism, husbands with children who are

    typically developing, and wives with children who are

    typically developing, using multidimensional scaling

    analysis following the structuring stage. The results (i.e.

    groups of statements) from the Structuring of Statements

    stage were put into a binary square, symmetric matrix

    (SN9N, where N equals the total number of statements) for

    each participant. The value for a pair of statements (Sij)

    was assigned either 0 or 1 in the matrix, based on whether

    the statements were grouped together (i.e., Sij = 1 if a

    participant placed statement i and statement j together,

    otherwise Sij = 0). The number of individual matrices was

    different for each of the four groups of individuals

    depending on how many people participated in this step.

    Individual matrices were aggregated into a group matrix

    for each group of individuals. The group matrices indicated

    how the participants in each group of individuals sorted the

    statements. Higher values of Sij in the group matrix indi-

    cate people put together statements i and j in the same

    group, which implies that the statements were conceptually

    in the same domain. The group matrix then was used as

    data for ALSCAL (SPSS), which was used to analyze each

    matrix into two dimensions and provide a plot of each

    statement. The distances between two points on a map

    indicate how they were similar or dissimilar in the group

    matrix generated in the previous step. In other words,

    points further apart were grouped together less frequently

    than points closer together.

    Hierarchical cluster analysis using Wards algorithm

    was completed to help generate clusters based on results

    from the two-dimensional scaling map. Wards method is

    regarded as efficient, because it keeps the sum of squares as

    small as possible each time any two clusters are merged

    (Everitt et al. 2011). Wards algorithm produces a list of

    the statements with values that indicate how statements are

    related to each other, or how often they were grouped

    together by participants. The algorithm also produces a

    dendrogram (a cluster tree) to help researchers determine

    the final clusters. The information from Wards method

    was used to guide the research team in defining the final

    clusters that are visually distinct on the map and concep-

    tually make sense for the statements. In the current study,

    the researchers reviewed the maps and drew lines delin-

    eating clusters that conceptually made sense. When cases

    were located close together, the researchers made a deci-

    sion about which cluster was the best fit.

    Interpretation of Maps

    Trochim (1989) suggested that the participants or a focus

    group could be involved in the interpretation of the maps

    and the labeling of the clusters. Because participants in this

    study did not live in close proximity to one another, the

    research team (a faculty member and a graduate student)

    determined the group labels based upon conceptual themes

    as well as the labels participants gave for their own groups.

    The team met and discussed the labels until consensus was

    reached for each cluster.

    Results

    Childhood Autism Rating Scale

    All mothers with children with autism indicated that their

    children had been diagnosed with autism prior to their

    participation in this study. The purpose for using the CARS

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  • assessment was to give the researchers the mothers own

    assessment of the severity of autism for her child. The

    CARS scores ranged from 23.50 to 50.00. The mean CARS

    score, on a scale from 10 to 60, was 34.14 (SD = 7.25).

    Three of the children diagnosed with autism had scores that

    indicated that they were Severely Autistic, four children

    had scores that indicated that they were Mildly-Moder-

    ately Autistic, and four children had scores that indicated

    that they were Non-Autistic. Again, this assessment was

    used to gather information about mothers perceptions of

    the level of autism of their children, and was not intended

    to challenge diagnoses given by other professionals.

    Kansas Marital Satisfaction Scale

    According to Crane et al. (2000), a score on the KMSS of

    17 or above indicates that the individual sees their rela-

    tionship as nondistressed. A score of 16 or below indicates

    some degree of marital distress. Of the 20 parents with

    children who are typically developing, only one mother

    reported a score below 17. Of the 22 parents of children

    with autism, six parents reported scores below 17. To test

    for differences between the two groups, the non-parametric

    MannWhitney U test was chosen because the assumptions

    for an analysis of variance (ANOVA) were not met.

    Results yielded no significant differences in KMSS scores

    between parents with children who are typically develop-

    ing (Mdn = 18) and parents with children with autism

    (Mdn = 18), U = 163.50, ns, r = -.19. So, while past

    research indicates that parents of children with autism have

    lower marital satisfaction compared with parents of chil-

    dren who are typically developing (Brobst et al. 2009;

    Higgins et al. 2005; Lee 2009), this was not the case in the

    current study.

    Generation of Statements

    Both the husbands and the wives from all couples who

    responded to the invitation to participate completed this

    stage. The Generation of Statements stage yielded 57

    unique statements from wives and 43 unique statements

    from husbands with children with autism. There were 69

    unique statements from wives and 62 unique statements

    from husbands with children who are typically developing.

    See the Appendix for a list of all of the statements.

    Structuring of Statements

    Eleven out of 12 couples with children with autism and 10

    out of 15 parents of children who are typically developing

    completed the structuring stage. Each participant who

    completed this step of the process correctly followed the

    instructions for grouping and rating of the statements.

    Every couple returned their lists together in the same

    packet or email so there were no instances where data was

    collected for only one partner of a couple.

    Representation of Statements

    Husbands with Children with Autism

    For parents of children with autism, the husbands concept

    map yielded four clusters (See Fig. 1): (1) We communi-

    cate, (2) We work out our differences, (3) We care for and

    love each other, and (4) We have foundational expectations.

    Wives with Children with Autism

    The wives concept map yielded five clusters (See Fig. 2): (1)

    We communicate, (2) We spend time to be a couple, (3) We do

    Fig. 1 Cluster map for husbands with children with autism

    Fig. 2 Cluster map for wives with children with autism

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  • things for ourselves, (4) We have foundational expectations,

    and (5) We encourage positive qualities for the marriage.

    Husbands with Children Who Are Typically Developing

    For parents of children who are typically developing, the

    husbands concept map yielded six clusters (See Fig. 3):

    (1) We care for and love each other, (2) We have com-

    mitment to each other, (3) We share religion and faith, (4)

    We have foundational expectations, (5) We communicate,

    and (6) We work as a team and share responsibilities.

    Wives with Children Who Are Typically Developing

    The wives concept map yielded four clusters (See Fig. 4):

    (1) We communicate, (2) We encourage positive qualities

    for the marriage, (3) We share religion and faith, (4) We

    parent in the context of strong family values and support.

    Comparisons Within and Between Couples

    Comparison of Couples with Children with Autism

    Similarities and differences between wives and husbands

    with children with autism were examined by comparing

    Figs. 1 and 2. Both husbands and wives mentioned com-

    munication and having foundational expectations as

    important to their marriage. Items in the communication

    cluster include talking about anything and having open

    communication. The cluster labeled We have founda-

    tional expectations is less straightforward. Grouped in this

    cluster are statements about expectations held before the

    couple was married or before having children. For exam-

    ple, husbands mentioned statements such as We knew

    what we wanted from a partner, and We were prepared

    for cost of children. Wives mentioned statements such as

    We knew marriages were not easy when we got married,

    and We both have a strong belief in commitment of

    marriage and raising our family together.

    Husbands and wives with children with autism did have

    unique clusters with respect to their genders. For example,

    two clusters are unique to husbands: We work out our

    differences and We care for and love each other.

    Working out differences includes statements about working

    through problems or talking about differences. The cluster

    about care and love includes statements about how hus-

    bands love and trust their wives. Wives in this group did

    not mention any significant statements about working out

    problems, love, or trust. Wives have three unique clusters:

    We spend time to be a couple, We do things for our-

    selves, and We encourage positive qualities for the

    marriage. The wives cluster about spending time to be a

    couple includes statements regarding going out just as a

    couple without the children, as well as sharing common

    interests. On the other hand, in the cluster We do things

    for ourselves, wives discussed the importance of going

    out and spending time alone. In this cluster there are two

    statements that do not seem to conceptually fit within that

    group (V35 and V29). It is important to acknowledge that

    the method of concept mapping is exploratory in nature and

    does not always lead to distinct concepts. Sometimes there

    is overlap between the clusters as seen here. Even though

    this cluster contains statements that do not seem to con-

    ceptually fit, the titled was selected to identify the three

    statements that did fit together. Finally, wives discussed

    positive qualities for the marriage such as Friendship,

    Passion, and Having his support with everything.

    Husbands did not talk about going out alone or with their

    wives.

    Fig. 3 Cluster map for husbands with children who are typicallydeveloping

    Fig. 4 Cluster map for wives with children who are typicallydeveloping

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  • Comparison Between the Groups of Wives

    Wives with and without children with autism mentioned

    communication as important. They also both mentioned

    encouraging positive qualities in the marriage. Wives with

    children who are typically developing had about twice as

    many statements in this cluster as did wives with children

    with autism; however, the statements seemed to be quali-

    tatively similar. Additionally, wives with children who are

    typically developing included statements about spending

    time with their husbands as a couple without children in

    their We encourage positive qualities for the marriage

    cluster, whereas for wives with children with autism had a

    separate cluster titled We spend time to be a couple.

    The two clusters, We have foundational expectations

    (wives with children with autism) and We parent in the

    context of strong family values and support (wives with

    children who are typically developing), are similar in that

    statements about family values are present in both clusters.

    What makes the two clusters different is that wives with

    children who are typically developing included many more

    statements about the present supports, such as family, in

    addition to foundational ideas about the relationship. For

    example, in this cluster are statements such as Other

    couples are a support system and Extended family plays

    a large role in our relationship.

    Uniquely, wives with children who are typically devel-

    oping had a separate cluster about religion and faith. Wives

    with children with autism also mentioned statements about

    God and faith, but these statements were grouped within

    other clusters and not separated into a distinct cluster.

    Finally, wives with children with autism had a unique

    cluster about doing things for themselves. Wives with

    children who are typically developing did not mention any

    statements about spending time alone.

    Comparison Between the Groups of Husbands

    Like other between-group comparisons, a common cluster

    between the two groups of husbands is about communi-

    cation. Other common clusters include: We have foun-

    dational expectations and We care for and love each

    other. Distinctly different, husbands with children with

    autism included statements that were clustered into We

    work out our differences. Husbands with children who are

    typically developing did not mention any statements about

    working through problems with their wives. Additionally,

    husbands with children who are typically developing have

    clusters such as We have a commitment to each other,

    We share religion and faith, and We work as a team to

    share responsibilities. As in the comparison between the

    two groups of wives, husbands with children with autism

    do mention commitment, God, and faith, but these

    statements are fewer in number, and they are included

    within other clusters. Husbands with children with autism

    do not mention any statements in terms of sharing

    responsibilities.

    Correlations of Assessments

    The CARS assessment did not correlate significantly with

    the KMSS scores nor did the CARS significantly correlate

    with the clusters for either the husbands or wives with

    children with autism. The KMSS scores did significantly

    correlate with the mean ratings of statements for wives and

    husbands with children with autism, but not for wives and

    husbands with children who are typically developing (See

    Table 1). We communicate was a husbands cluster that

    significantly correlated with the KMSS score. We com-

    municate, We encourage positive qualities for the mar-

    riage, and We spend time to be a couple were clusters

    that significantly correlated with KMSS scores for the

    wives with children with autism.

    Discussion

    A core research question for this study sought to discover

    how husbands with children with autism compare to their

    wives regarding how they keep their marriages strong. In

    the current study, common perceptions about the factors

    that help to maintain marriages emerged: communication

    and foundational expectations. Communication was a sig-

    nificant factor for intact marriages for these husbands and

    wives, as mean ratings for these statements within these

    clusters (the cluster for husbands and the cluster for wives

    pertaining to communication) positively correlated with

    scores on the KMSS. Higher participant ratings of the

    statements (i.e., how much that statement related to how he

    or she maintained a strong marriage with his or her spouse)

    were associated with higher scores on the KMSS. Com-

    munication for these couples means that they can openly

    discuss topics related to their children as well as other

    feelings and concerns. Spouses indicated that they are able

    to work things out and make decisions together as a couple.

    It also appears that shared ideas about marriage, established

    prior to having a child with autism, helped couples to

    develop strong foundations for their relationships. Partici-

    pants mentioned the commitment that they made to their

    spouses when they got married and that they were prepared

    to take on the responsibility of children when that time

    came. How the statements found within the clusters are

    used in the relationship is unknown, but husbands and

    wives could use these tenets to balance negative thoughts

    or perceptions in the relationship in times of stress.

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  • Within the group of husbands with children with autism,

    being able to work out differences and having love for their

    wives also appear to be important factors for keeping the

    marriage intact. The statements in the We work out our

    differences cluster echo statements about communication,

    but the husbands seemed to have conceptualized these

    statements differently from those in the communication

    cluster (as indicated by a separate cluster). With their

    statements, husbands imply that resolving problems and

    being able to tolerate disagreement through the resolution

    process are what helps them in their marriages. The

    absence of parallel statements from wives is noteworthy.

    The wives did not mention in their communication cluster,

    or elsewhere, statements that pertain to working out

    problems or resolving differences.

    The husbands with children with autism also had a

    distinct cluster about having love for their wives. Husbands

    indicated that love, trust, and a willingness to meet the

    needs of their wives are important to them. They desire to

    support their wives and be there for them emotionally. How

    well these husbands are able to communicate these desires

    and positive affirmations in their marital relationships,

    however, is unknown. The wives mentioned two parallel

    statements: We lean on each other and Having his

    support with everything, which are grouped within the

    cluster We encourage positive qualities for the marriage,

    but one or two statements does not nearly compare to an

    entire cluster of positive emotional affirmations.

    The wives with children with autism had three unique

    clusters, We spend time to be a couple, We do things for

    ourselves, and We encourage positive qualities for the

    marriage, which include many action-focused statements.

    These statements imply that wives enjoy spending time

    alone with their husbands as well as time alone with their

    girlfriends or just out alone. Within the cluster about

    spending time to be a couple are statements about friendship

    with their husbands, having a solid relationship prior to

    children, and taking time to spend with each other without

    the children. We do things for ourselves is a much smaller

    cluster, and statements do not fit together conceptually as

    well as the statements in the cluster about doing things as a

    couple. Therefore, for these wives, it appears that spending

    time with their husbands and recognizing the importance of

    that dyad is a critical factor, more so than spending time

    alone. Although spending time alone or with friends is

    important, these activities may not be as impactful to the

    maintenance of their marriages. Finally, statements within

    We encourage positive qualities for the marriage, which

    seem not to fit together conceptually, are associated with

    higher scores on the KMSS. Higher participant ratings of the

    Table 1 Correlations ofstatement ratings with KMSS

    scores

    * Significant at the 0.05 level

    (2-tailed)

    ** Significant at the 0.01 level

    (2-tailed)

    Cluster name Participant ratings Correlation of

    ratings w/KMSSMean SD

    Husbands with children who were typically developing

    We care for and love each other 4.41 .25 .36

    We have commitment to each other 3.98 .38 .11

    We share religion and faith 4.25 .33 .09

    We have foundational expectations 4.12 .32 .19

    We communicate 4.00 1.10 -.30

    We work as a team and share responsibilities 4.44 .33 .19

    Wives with children who were typically developing

    We parent in the context of strong family values and support 4.13 .30 -.50

    We share religion and faith 3.50 1.43 .20

    We communicate 3.65 .50 .26

    We encourage positive qualities for the marriage 3.74 .58 -.09

    Husbands with children with autism

    We have foundational expectations 3.75 .81 .01

    We communicate 3.83 .68 .83**

    We work out our differences 3.98 .72 .59

    We care for and love each other 3.94 .59 .54

    Wives with children with autism

    We have foundational expectations 4.01 .90 .37

    We communicate 3.95 .83 .83**

    We encourage positive qualities for the marriage 3.88 .96 .95**

    We spend time to be a couple 3.54 .51 .73*

    We do things for ourselves 3.74 .70 .42

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  • statements in terms of how much that statement related to

    maintenance of a strong marriage with a spouse were asso-

    ciated with higher scores on the KMSS. Interestingly, hus-

    bands do not mention going out with their wives or spending

    time away from their families in any of their clusters. Per-

    haps this indicates that husbands do not see such activities as

    essential to maintaining their marriages. The fact that wives

    view these acts as important, however, may be indicative of

    ways to help individuals with children with autism battle

    social isolation (Hock et al. 2012; Myers et al. 2009).

    Overall, it appears as though the statements given by the

    wives were much more action-focused and were centered

    on things that were done by each person to preserve the

    marriage. Statements by the husbands seem more focused on

    positive feelings that they have directed towards their wives.

    This finding provides insight into some differences between

    husbands and wives raising children with autism in terms of

    their preferences for their marriages.

    When comparing the wives with children with autism to

    wives with children who are typically developing, the

    clusters about communication and encouraging positive

    qualities in the relationship were similar. It is noteworthy

    that while wives with children with autism made statements

    about spending time to be a couple and time alone, wives

    with children who are typically developing did not mention

    any statements about spending time alone. Spending time

    alone, or making sure to reserve time to spend with friends,

    may be a strategy that wives with children with autism have

    developed that is particularly salient in their marital rela-

    tionships. While wives with children who are typically

    developing may do this as well, they do not code it as salient

    to keeping their marriage together.

    Another difference between the two groups of wives was

    that wives with children who are typically developing

    mentioned more statements about social and family support.

    They also had a separate cluster about religion and faith.

    Wives with children with autism had statements about reli-

    gion and faith, but they were spread throughout other clus-

    ters. This difference between the two groups needs to be

    considered when identifying factors to stay married. Per-

    haps, wives with children with autism did not mention family

    or social support because they do not find extended family or

    their social network to be contributing positively to their

    marital relationship. This result would be in alignment with

    research indicating that parents feel isolated from family

    members who do not understand autism (Woodgate et al.

    2008). In terms of family and friends, parents interviewed by

    Myers et al. (2009) reported that a loss of family and friends

    was related to negative responses to the childs autism.

    Husbands with children with autism and husbands with

    children who are typically developing were very similar in

    their statements. They both mentioned communication,

    common foundations, and care and love as important to

    keeping a marriage intact. Again, there are more statements

    about feelings directed toward their wives from husbands

    with children with autism. Also, compared to husbands

    with children who are typically developing, husbands with

    children with autism had more statements about sharing

    responsibilities in the relationship.

    Limitations

    Participants in both waves reported high incomes and

    educational status; the results might have been different if

    the participants were more diverse with respect to financial

    and educational resources. Another limitation was that the

    sample size for this study was small. Future studies should

    aim to have a larger, more diverse sample.

    Jackson and Trochim (2002) discussed that having

    respondents help determine the final clusters would help to

    increase the validity of a study. Ideally, the participants

    themselves would provide member checking and cluster

    labeling in a face-to-face meeting. Unfortunately, for this

    particular project, participants were spread out geographi-

    cally and such a meeting was not possible. Instead, the

    researchers constructed the labels of the clusters while

    allowing influence from the names that the participants

    suggested for their groupings.

    Future Research

    It would be interesting to explore how some of the statements

    and ideas are used within the marital relationship to maintain

    the relationships of couples with children with autism. In

    other words, through this study communication emerged as a

    key aspect of maintaining a marriage for both husbands and

    wives with children with autism, and it might be helpful for

    future research studies to explore the idea of effective

    communication for couples with children with autism.

    Future research studies might also investigate how state-

    ments within the cluster about foundational expectations are

    used within the relationship. For example, do such thoughts

    and ideas help to balance stress or negative thoughts?

    Additionally, husbands had a cluster about the love that they

    have for their wives including statements about love and

    trust. A logical next step might be to explore how the hus-

    bands communicate these concepts to their wives and why

    wives did not include any of these types of statements in any

    of their clusters. For wives with children with autism,

    spending time with their husbands was mentioned; however,

    husbands did not mention spending time alone with their

    wives. It might be helpful to further explore whether hus-

    bands perceive spending time alone with their wives relates

    to maintaining their marriage.

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  • Practice Implications

    It is clear that the couples in this study valued commu-

    nication between partners. It is important for profes-

    sionals working with such couples to be prepared to offer

    training in communication and to aid couples in devel-

    oping adequate communication skills. The provider also

    can help couples explore foundational expectations for

    their relationships. If such foundational expectations are

    found to be similar within dyads, they can be used to

    build a united front in times of stress. Finally, providers

    can work with couples and extended family members to

    develop networks of support. The informal social support

    of extended family members, family friends, and neigh-

    bors has been demonstrated by researchers to be very

    helpful for families with children with autism (Altiere

    and von Kluge 2009). Researchers have demonstrated

    that informal social support can help lessen depression of

    parents (Benson 2006).

    Appendix: Clusters and Statements

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    Husbands with children with autism

    We communicate (9)

    V18 We communicate about anything

    V20 We have open communication for the

    good, bad, or otherwise

    V26 Communication

    V3 Were not territorial and we work

    together

    V30 Talking to her

    V7 Work things out as they come up

    V43 Communicating about changes of

    what is a priority in life

    V1 We work together to care for our child

    V27 Staying on the same page

    We work out our differences (5)

    V16 We try to look forward

    V35 Our verbal combats result in talking

    about our differences

    V15 We work through the problems

    V23 We work it out when we dont agree

    V2 We have mutual support instead of

    his/her jobs

    We care for and love each other (18)

    V12 There is lots of caring between

    partners

    V34 Both of us are sympathetic with each

    other

    Appendix continued

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    V32 Being there for each other

    V38 Willingness to meet the others need

    V5 Willingness to commit to the marriage

    and make time to spend together

    V21 We know that we will annoy each

    other

    V13 I have a strong and loving wife

    V17 My wife is my best friend

    V19 I love my wife

    V31 Love

    V14 My wife puts up with me

    V42 Avoid situations with other people

    that can promote infidelity

    V36 Having trust in each other

    V22 We recognize that we are different but

    that is not bad

    V41 Putting others need first; I do it for her

    and she does for me

    V29 I try to support her

    V37 Having a commitment to each other

    V6 We love each other

    We have foundational expectations (11)

    V4 We share a faith in God

    V11 We were prepared for cost of children

    V40 Desire to not to live the same life like

    our parents

    V24 We had a good foundation

    V28 Faith

    V39 Involvement in church, which is a

    common interest of ours

    V9 We had a strong foundation

    V33 Knowing what the negative

    experiences of people who have

    divorced are like

    V8 We were older when we got married

    V10 We knew what we wanted from a

    partner

    V25 We took a year to just be a couple

    before having kids

    Wives with children with autism

    We communicate (17)

    V9 Talk everything over

    V32 We talk a lot

    V18 Communication

    V47 Open communication with each

    other

    V23 Open communication

    V37 We communicate a lot about our

    childs needs and how we can meet

    those needs

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  • Appendix continued

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    V24 We talk about our concerns

    V38 We communicate about our own

    feelings

    V25 We talk about all decisions affecting

    our child

    V40 Compassion

    V41 Compromise

    V20 We have to talk to one another before

    making any decisions or believing

    any doctor

    V48 We talk things out

    V39 Honesty

    V56 Listening to him about what is

    important to him

    V3 We have similar beliefs in how handle

    autism and our child

    V51 We agree about parenting

    We spend time to be a couple (14)

    V7 We were friends for many years

    V50 We try to spend time with each other

    V34 We make time to be just a couple

    V55 Taking time to spend with each other

    V49 Giving each other breaks

    V6 We dont have any time now to spend

    together alone so it was important to

    have a good foundation to start

    V26 Have someone to watch the kids

    overnight

    V5 We had a really solid relationship to

    begin with

    V27 We find time for us without kids

    V14 We share common interests

    V28 Be friends with each other

    V8 We share everything and do

    everything together

    V15 We enjoy traveling and exploring

    together

    V52 My husband takes my child out to do

    things

    We do things for ourselves (5)

    V36 Mom goes out with girlfriends every

    week

    V33 We make time for ourselves

    V43 We have things that we do together

    but also we have things we do

    separately

    V35 Being a couple is very important

    V29 We started out on a good foundation

    Appendix continued

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    We have foundational expectations (14)

    V17 We stand strong together so not to be

    divided and conquered by children

    V31 We knew we had to work everything

    out

    V13 We have to work it out the best we can

    V53 Faith

    V10 Our family values come before

    difficulties that come up

    V30 Divorce was taken off the table when

    we got married

    V11 We knew marriages were not easy

    when we got married

    V4 We both believe in God

    V54 Priority of marriage first

    V57 Looking into the family unit and not

    only the autism

    V9 We both have a strong belief in

    commitment of marriage and raising

    our family together

    V12 We made a commitment

    V2 We want to make marriage work and

    we have faith that it can work

    V1 We have a commitment to the

    marriage and to each other

    We encourage positive qualities for the marriage (7)

    V42 Friendship

    V44 Passion

    V21 A sense of humor

    V22 Staying on the same page

    V46 We lean on each other

    V16 There is teamwork in terms of sharing

    responsibilities

    V45 Having his support with everything

    Husbands with children who are typically developing

    We care for and love each other (13)

    S32 Honesty

    S40 Approach everyday with respect and

    common sense towards your partner

    S23 We try to meet each others needs

    S34 Understanding

    S22 I try to think of what my wife needs

    and give that to her

    S24 We attended a marriage conference

    that helped us

    S25 I accept who she is-the good and the

    bad

    S2 No secrets

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  • Appendix continued

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    S3 We have a personal investment in

    each other

    S38 We love each other

    S48 We like each other

    S50 We are pretty good friends.

    S8 We love each other

    We have commitment to each other (6)

    S35 We make time to spend with each

    other

    S37 Trust

    S15 We have a commitment to each other

    S21 I express my commitment level on a

    daily basis

    S9 Our love means commitment

    S53 We have a lot of similarities in what

    we like

    We share religion and faith (3)

    S19 Faith

    S20 Christianity influences my life and my

    commitment to my wife

    S10 Our marriage involves God

    We have foundational expectations (9)

    S13 We have common interests and values

    S56 We have common values

    S55 We have a common sense of family

    S58 We share similar values in teams of

    family and kids

    S59 Being children of divorced parents

    you dont want your children to go

    through that

    S60 We want our family to be stable

    S49 Shes very easy to get along with

    S54 We have a lot of mutual friends

    S14 Our kids help to unify us and remind

    us that we are a family

    We communicate (19)

    S11 We have a willingness to compromise

    S45 It is important to be able to concede

    when necessary

    S47 We are able to negotiate

    S7 You have to communicate with each

    other

    S16 We go out without the kids

    S5 I am willing and open to talk about

    things

    S44 Neither of us are afraid to tell each

    other no and why

    S31 There is nothing we wont talk about

    S51 We talk a lot

    S17 Communication

    Appendix continued

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    S27 You cant ignore things

    S43 Bouncing ideas off each other

    S30 Open communication

    S46 Knowing somebody long enough

    S36 We are straightforward with each

    other

    S61 We communicate more than any other

    couple we know

    S18 We check in about what is going on

    S6 You have to know the needs of the

    other person

    S12 We know and understand each other

    and accept each others faults

    We work as a team and share responsibilities (12)

    S1 My wife and I have a unified approach

    to everything

    S2 We do best when we work as a team

    S29 We share responsibilities

    S52 We know we are on the same team

    S62 We have an ability to work together

    S28 I know that we are a team and have to

    work together

    S26 Patience

    S39 I have a sense of responsibility

    S4 Willingness to be a team player and

    act for the good of the whole family

    S33 We work as a team

    S41 Raising our kids together

    S57 We both enjoy spending time with the

    family during our free times

    Wives with children who are typically developing

    We communicate (22)

    S52 Communication is the key

    S53 We talk about whatever we think is

    important

    S43 Open communication

    S27 We talk a lot and everything

    S28 Were good at communicating

    S30 We try to communicate as much as

    possible

    S14 We talk about and address problem

    when they come up

    S18 Communication

    S57 You cant read each others minds

    S64 Flexibility

    S6 We like to take a time out when things

    get rough

    S29 We pick our battles

    S7 Time away from each other helps us to

    appreciate each other

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  • Appendix continued

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    S35 We rarely go to bed angry

    S2 We talk about things besides the kids.

    S41 We have our own activities that we

    like to do

    S25 We try to take extra time to make sure

    we communicate clearly

    S44 We have realistic expectations for our

    marriage

    S46 We are understanding with each other

    S58 We support one another in decision-

    making

    S66 Letting go of the responsibility from

    before the kids

    S67 Understanding that we were raised

    differently

    We encourage positive qualities for the marriage (25)

    S13 We have a strong relationship

    S55 Having fun with friends

    S4 When we took those vows, it was until

    death do us part

    S38 We are really good friends as well as

    husband and wife

    S40 We try to make a little time each day

    to check in with each other

    S68 We were older when we got married

    S20 We go out with and without the kids

    S26 We dont get to see each other much

    S48 We use a babysitter to go out.

    S23 I think about my husband and try to

    look out for his interests

    S36 We didnt have kids right away

    S1 Making sure we prioritize time with

    each other

    S10 We were good friends for year before

    dating each other

    S37 We both have a sense of humor

    S49 We share a sense of humor

    S50 We are always joking with each other

    S65 We laugh a lot

    S33 We dated for a long time before we

    got married

    S54 Spending time together

    S51 We try to not take things too seriously

    S11 We share a lot of common interests

    S19 Our marriage is a priority

    S24 I try to make my husband feel loved

    Appendix continued

    Cluster title

    (number

    of statements)

    Statement

    # in

    cluster

    Statement

    S34 Whenever we get a few minutes with

    each other, it is always beneficial

    S56 Being together

    We share religion and faith (4)

    S5 I talk to God

    S9 We have a central spiritual center

    S22 We have a commitment before Jesus

    Christ

    S42 Our Christian faith

    We parent in the context of strong family values and support (18)

    S8 Other couples are a support system

    S16 We are on the same page with our kids

    S17 We present a united front with our

    kids

    S31 We want to see our children do better

    than we did

    S61 We have the same ideas about raising

    our kids

    S62 Our cultural traditions bound us

    together

    S3 We ask for help from each other and

    friends and family when we need it

    S15 We back each other up in terms of

    parenting

    S32 We try to present a united front

    S69 We work together as a team

    S39 We love our kids

    S47 Hes a great dad with the kids

    S45 We had good examples of strong

    marriages

    S60 We have a strong marriage because

    we have a strong family

    S63 Extended family plays a large role in

    our relationship

    S21 We surround ourselves with friends

    and family that are family oriented

    like we are

    S12 We have similar values

    S59 We have the same family values

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    Keeping a Sound Marriage: How Couples with Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders Maintain Their MarriagesAbstractIntroductionMethodParticipantsMeasuresChildhood Autism Rating ScaleKansas Marital Satisfaction Scale

    ProcedurePreparationGeneration of StatementsStructuring of StatementsRepresentation of StatementsInterpretation of Maps

    ResultsChildhood Autism Rating ScaleKansas Marital Satisfaction ScaleGeneration of StatementsStructuring of StatementsRepresentation of StatementsHusbands with Children with AutismWives with Children with AutismHusbands with Children Who Are Typically DevelopingWives with Children Who Are Typically Developing

    Comparisons Within and Between CouplesComparison of Couples with Children with AutismComparison Between the Groups of WivesComparison Between the Groups of Husbands

    Correlations of Assessments

    DiscussionLimitationsFuture ResearchPractice ImplicationsAppendix: Clusters and Statements References