Seymour Middle School

Officer Hilgenberg– Police Liaison Officer

Ms. Landreman– Dean of Students

Mrs. Vogel – Counselor

What We Need to Remember….When we talk about bullying we need to

respect each other’s feelings and privacy.

It is NOT okay to criticize what other people say or do as we talk about bullying.

Let’s handle this discussion maturely.

TruancyWisconsin State Statute 118:

“Truant” means a pupil who is absent from school without an acceptable excuse for part or all of any day on which school is held.

You are considered truant when:You are tardy for class or are not in your assigned

locationYou do not come to school and do not have an

acceptable reason.If you are truant:

You could receive a citation from law enforcementYou could be referred to Juvenile Intake and be

assigned a social worker.

GET TO CLASS!!

VIDEOhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHbYfRNaGpM

 

The Effects of Bullying

Why do we talk about Bullying?

Bullying is a very serious social and legal problem. All schools must take steps to stop it from happening.

By learning about bullying, we are creating a healthier school environment for everyone.

Set you on right path….Studies show that bullies are more likely to be

incarcerated as adults, more likely to have drug/alcohol abuse, and more abusive relationships

Colleges/Employers – think about your future – once it’s out there it’s for LIFE

1. Bullying is just teasing.

FALSE!

While many bullies tease, others use violence, intimidation, and other tactics.

Definition of Bullying

A person is being bullied or victimized when

he or she is exposed repeatedly and over

time, to negative actions on the part of one

or more persons.

(Olweus, 1991)

2. Some people deserve to be bullied.

FALSE!

No one asks to be bullied!

Bullying is unwanted negative actions!

TYPES OF BULLYINGPhysical AggressionSocial AggressionVerbal AggressionIntimidationRacial and Cultural (Ethnic) HarassmentSexual HarassmentCyberbullying (Kix, Twitter, Pinger, text

me, Facebook, email, Instagram, Snapchat, Voxer)

Racial Harassment

Joking telling with racial or ethnic targetsExclusion due to ethnicityRacial or ethnic slursPublic humiliationPhysical or verbal attacks due to ethnicityExamples

Email Jokes “N” Word

Sexual Harassment

“Dirty” jokesHowling, cat calls, whistlesStare downsSpreading sexual rumorsPressure for sexual activityDe-panting (consequences-Disorderly Coduct)Cornering, blockingSexting: Displaying sexual graphics (sending

pictures)That’s “Gay”

3. Only boys are bullies.

FALSE

It may seem that most bullies are boys, but girls can be bullies too.

4. People who complain about bullies are babies.

FALSE

People who ask for help with bullies are standing up or their right not to be bullied and to have a safe school.

5. Bullying is a normal part of growing up.

FALSE

Getting teased, picked on, pushed around, threatened, harassed, insulted, hurt, and abused is not normal!

6. Bullies will go away if you ignore them

FALSE

Some bullies may go away BUT most will get angry and keep bullying until they get a reaction.

7. It’s tattling to tell an adult when you are being bullied.

FALSE

It’s smart to ask an adult for help when you are being bullied or when you see someone else being bullied.

Purpose – Keep people safe/Harmful to others

8. The best way to deal with a bully is by fighting or trying to get even.

False

If you fight a bully you may get hurt and will get into trouble for fighting.

Also aren’t you acting the same way as the bully if you try to get even???

Best Way to Deal With A Bully:("What Students Say About Bullying“ Davis and Nixon.)

Most effective: Seeking encouragement, advice, and protection from friends and adults:

- Telling an adult at school (38% said this made things better, 27% worse);

- Telling an adult at home (37% better, 16% worse);

- Telling a friend (36% better, 15% worse)What was least effective: Trying to handle it

yourself

9. People who are bullied might hurt for awhile, but they’ll get over it.

FALSE

Bullying can hurt for a long time.

Many adults can remember times when they have been bullied in middle school. ASK THEM!

EFFECTS of BULLYINGACADEMIC

School avoidanceTruancyLower gradesLower self-esteem

EFFECTS of BULLYINGHealth Problems

Loss of appetiteNervousnessDepressionHeadaches / StomachachesLoss of sleep

EFFECTS of BULLYINGAdjustment Problems

Emotional DistressAnxietyLonelinessSuicidal ideations and attempts

BYSTANDERS Most ignored and underused resource in

schools

85% of a school population – “silent majority”

Become desensitized over time – diminished empathy

Advocate for Yourself!!Take responsibility for your own actions;

behavior, academics, personal issues.School is your job, no one else is responsible

for your actions or should need to defend you for minor issues.

You have a voice... Use it!

Reporting Bullying1. Tell a Teacher – Who, What, When, Where,

and How2. If problem continues fill out a white slip (by

office window)3. Ms. Vogel or Ms. Landreman, depending on

issue, will meet with you after you have done step 1 and 2

Office ContactIf you need to speak to someone in the office:

Fill out a blue slipFill out a white slip

If someone is in immediate danger, tell us immediately!!

If you have a problem and do not let us know, we cannot help you.

CRIMESTOPPERS

Help keep our school safe and remain anonymous!

If you’re aware of:Drugs, alcohol, weapons, theft, vandalism or

harrassment… let someone know! You could be eligible for a cash reward!www.432stop.com(920) 432-STOP

Reporting Bullying

Be Kind and Compassionate to

everyone you meet, they may be fighting

a battle you know nothing about.